• Happy Steak & Blowjob Day! 5 Steps for the Best Blowjob Ever

    Happy Steak & Blowjob Day! 5 Steps for the Best Blowjob EverSteak and what day?!

    Yes, today is Steak and Blowjob Day, the day when couples the world over indulge in red meat and red hot oral sex.

    The origins are murky, but it's thought to be a response to the flowers and chocolates of Valentine's Day by indignant males. Taking place exactly a month later, this date has quickly become synonymous with oral sex, and not just on him.

    Read on below for our tips to take your BJ from ooh to OMG, and don't forget to share your best oral secrets in the comments.



    1. Foreplay

    Lovehoney Lovers Vanilla Lickable Massage Oil 30mlForeplay isn't just for penetrative sex. Even 5 minutes on first and second bases makes sure you're both fully aroused and in the mood to take things south. Building the anticipation is key for an extra-strong orgasm that ensures "March 14th" goes down in the history books.

    A great way to relax any nerves and get you both in the mood is to begin with an erotic massage. Choose a seductively scented massage oil like Lovehoney Lovers Vanilla Lickable Massage Oil and have your lover strip down. Slowly and seductively lavish attention on his shoulders and back before taking your slippery hands to his penis. This oil is safe to injest so you can lick it off without worry.

    By the time you've finished running your hand over his body, you should both be ready to move on the main event.

    2. Location, Location, Location

    Finding a position that works for both of you is essential to enjoying the experience. It's imperative that the person performing oral sex feels comfortable - use pillows and cushions for support if necessary.

    Lots of couples find it most comfortable to have the man recline in bed or an armchair while his partner kneels between his legs. This offers easy access to his penis and testicles and gives you great angles for paying attention to his most pleasurable spots.

    You may also want to try having your partner stand and drop to your knees in front of them. This gives him a great view and is perfect for anyone who enjoys subtle power play.

    Experiment with different positions (there are dozens of ideas in our Better Sex Guides) and make sure to report back to your lover about what feels best.

    3. Get Handsy

    The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet BlueIncorporating your hands is a great way to enhance what he's feeling.

    Sexpert Violet Blue recommends: "For the fastest, most intense blow job he's ever had, use your hands as an extension of your mouth. Be amazed if he lasts five minutes when you place your thumb and forefinger against your lips and use your hand to stroke while simultaneously fellating him -- this would be the three minute - or less - blow job."

    For more tips from Violet, check out her blowjob bible The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio.

    4. Focus on Your Breathing

    Whether it's your first blowjob or you're a seasoned veteran, keeping track of your breathing is essential.

    "In order to perform oral sex for any significant period of time, you need to be able to pull lots of fresh oxygen in your lungs quickly and easily, without gasping or gulping. Proper breathing can keep that oxygen flowing into the active muscles, which will keep you feeling good about giving your partner pleasure with plenty of extra energy to go on a riff when you get inspired."-Marcy Michaels, Blow Him Away.

    The best breathing technique for oral sex? Take long, slow inhalations through your nose, filling up your lungs completely before exhaling through your slightly open mouth. Focus on getting into a rhythm with your breathing and it will soon become second nature.

    5. Toy With Him

    Lovehoney Double Ding Ding Vibrating Cock RingOral sex can be enhanced by using sex toys alongside your mouth. Both partners can wear a butt plug or vibrating butt plug to improve the intensity of their orgasms and he can opt for a prostate massager to hit the male G-spot.

    If he wears a vibrating cock ring during oral sex, the sensations he feels along his full length will feel more powerful. Some cock rings also include a vibrator just for the testicles, meaning both his shaft and his testicles are receiving some attention while you concentrate on lavishing his penis with attention.

    For her, use a bullet vibrator to tease her while you dart your tongue in and out or use a dildo or vibrator to penetrate her while you concentrate your oral action around her clitoris.


    What About the Steak?

    Hey, we're the Sexual Happiness People. Dildos are our forté, not meat. But Mr. Ramsay knows his stuff...


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