Trust me, you aren't the only person having trouble reaching orgasm. This goes for all genders and orientations.
According to AskMen.com 54% of female respondents reported faking an orgasm, and 26% said they fake it every time they have sex. Of the men asked, 34% said they'd faked it at least once.
So let's start there. You're not alone and we all know the journey can definitely be just as mind-blowing as the final destination. The over-all theme of this post is to embrace the authentic experience, enjoy the ride and communicate. In this particular instance we don't recommend 'faking it until you make it' because if everyone fakes it, no one is ever going to know how to do it right.
There are many great reasons to not fake an orgasm, we'll start with five - because you don't have all day... you could be practicing some self-love.
Guest post by Monika Thomas
Do you see the sex toy in this picture?
Meet Flash! The newest vibe from the tech sex geeks at Lovehoney. It charges via USB, it's waterproof and made of soft black silicone.
Over on our sister site Lovehoney.co.uk they're wondering: could this be the most discreet vibe ever made?
"The future of sex toys is here, and it's charging in a Starbucks near you! Introducing the brand new Lovehoney Flash USB Rechargeable Mini Vibrator. Sleek, petite and discreet, this powerful mini vibrator is whisper-quiet and looks uncannily like a memory stick, making it arguably the most discreet pleasure product on the market."
See more pictures and read more after the jump.
Do you guys ever get jealous of all the cool toys made for women? You don’t have to be. Sex toys are for dudes too. You can use them to add variety or simply to enhance your experience. Toys can be used alone or with a partner. Women love it when men are enthusiastic about our vibrators. Your ultimate fantasy is a three-some, you say? How about you, me and some toys?
Penises and testicles love sex toys just as much as vulvas, clits and vaginas do. Everyone has a booty, which might just love the feeling of penetration and fullness. You never know until you try! I believe men will continue to embrace sex toys this year. It’s just a matter of time before male celebrities start endorsing sex toys and adult products the same way some famous women have recently. Which male celeb could you imagine buying one of the items below?
Check out this list of 8 ways men can enjoy sex toys, and add your comment below:
In anticipation of Valentine's Day we asked some of our favorite sex experts to send a little bit of loving advice our way. Being the kind, loving and sexy people they are, they obliged and sent us some quick tips, inspirations and ideas to make things even hotter and sexier this year.
Many thanks to our contirubtors for their thoughtful advice, which may just inspire you to try something new and exciting. Looking for an idea to change up your routine this Valentine's Day? These pros have got some ideas for you, and they don't have to cost a thing! You might even find a way to make some money if you're exhibitionist side comes out.
We'd love for you to share your thoughts and insights in the comments below and join the conversation with us on twitter @lovehoney_com
Happy Valentine's Day to all of you, no matter whether you're single, coupled or in a more complicated situation - you deserve love and sexual happiness!
New Year. New love? New lingerie!
Let's check out some trends in lingerie for 2013, just in time to pick up something super sexy for Valentine's Day and beyond, while keeping our budgets on course for the new year.
Leave something to the imagination or bare it all. I hope you'll find the trend that's right for you: High Waisted Panties, Exposed Tops and Bottoms and Hooded Bodystockings with just the right amount of sexy stretch and style.
Black is the new black! We've included some colorful, red and pink, options in the mix, but the sleek dark look that goes with everything remains classic.
These trends offer style, comfort and super sex appeal. Will you rock one of these trends this Valentine's day or anytime this year? Let us know in the comments below.
Are you curious what the stars have in store for the year ahead? Things are heating up and we hope it's not just global warming. Maybe this Glass Intimo Fire Snake Dildo (pictured, 2013 is the Year of the Snake) and lots of warming lube have something to do with it?
Whether you're a true believer or just a little curious, we hope you enjoy these horoscopes with some ideas for getting sexy as the main theme.
What's your sign? We've consulted the Cosmic Courtesan herself, Yolanda Shoshana. She's looked to the stars to guide us into the months ahead.
Enjoy these sexy predictions and inspirations plus sexy suggestions will help to make all your wishes come true.
Guest blog by Yolanda Shoshana
I had the pleasure of attending the industry Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo recently and it was a great opportunity to see some of the newest vibes and toys that are turning heads. With advances in technology every day, vibrator technology is also advancing with new features, and lots of bells and whistles.
Going beyond being rechargeable, some vibes now conveniently charge via USB. Beyond waterproof, it's common for vibes to be submersible for some real bathtub or hot-tub fun. Check out some of the newest and revamped vibes on the scene. It might be just the right time for a 2013 upgrade!
We've never seen anything move like the new Fun Factory Stronic before. Check it out in the video below, along with some other new and notable vibes coming to a bedroom near you. We're talking power and innovation. Want to stay ahead of the vibrator revolution? Keep reading...
Sometimes it seems there can be a real 'us' and 'them' attitude, when it comes to vanillas (people who engage in conventional sex, often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve such elements as BDSM, kink, or fetish activities) and kinksters (according to Wikipedia: "Kinky practices go beyond what are considered conventional 'vanilla' sexual practices as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners.")
If you’re one you can’t be the other, right? You should never let it be known you occasionally associate with the opposing side... It’s also assumed if you’re on one side you think the other is less than worthy.
Breaking it down to basic stereotypes, vanillas think kinksters are scary and weird. Kinksters think vanillas are unadventurous and boring.
"Vanillas" might not be as open about sexual proclivities, but that doesn't mean what they do in private is much different from activities kinky people engage in. Crossing over to the kinky side is not necessarily black and white.
I can’t tell you how many times a self-identified vanilla has asked me, “How do I tell my partner I want some new things in bed? I’ve never told them I like some light spanks and nibbles. I’d love for them to take charge a bit more and be more demanding. I also really enjoy role-playing, but I don’t think I’m into, like, *makes the face* BDSM or anything. All that crazy stuff is just too freaky for me!”
I’m not sure what most people think BDSM is? Let’s break down the acronym and examine a few “other side” observations about BDSM.
Guest post by Sunny Megatron
The holidays are fast approaching and some of us are still scratching our heads as to what to get for everyone on our lists. With plenty of stockings to stuff there's still a bit more time to shop and get some goodies for December 25th* or whenever you like to celebrate.
Any gift is a nice thought, but adding a little something extra will help your gift to really impress. Even better for you if the little something extra is a freebee. You can use the goodies mentioned in our deals below to stuff stockings for the naughtiest and nicest boys and girls on your list. Enjoy these last minute, foolproof gift ideas all with a little something extra to offer.
Free sex toys, free shipping (FedEx Shipping is free too, when you spend over $160) and free returns. Seriously, it's going to be pretty hard to mess this one up. Yes, we offer gift wrap options too! (Pictured: Get a free sexy Night Before Christmas Bikini with this lovely and festive Seven Til Midnight Sexy Christmas Babydoll and Thong Set)
*Order with FedEx shipping before 8am (PST) 20 December - $15.95 or free when you spend $160. We recommend placing your order by the evening of the 19th.
The gift giving season is upon us! Sometimes with so many options out there it's really hard to know what to do. I wanted to put together some gift suggestions that everyone will love and enjoy into the new year and beyond.
We have so many deals going on right now I decided to take a moment and highlight some of the best ones, and hopefully give you some ideas about how to get the most WOW from your gifts, all within your shopping budget. Remember we always have free shipping and returns too (everyone's satisfaction is guaranteed!)
Plus, if you tell us in the comments below which of these sexy gifts you would love to give or receive you'll be entered to win: The Lovehoney Sexy Holiday Bundle worth $100!