Speedy Suggestions for a Satisfying Quickie
On the 26th of March, Daylight Savings will begin and the clocks will go forward an hour. This means mentally adding on an hour to the clock in your car until October, because ain’t nobody got time for actually changing it.
For some people, Daylight Savings can mean less time for sex. If you are regularly forced to choose between fighting your family or friends for the bathroom, or missing the bus, having morning sex may seem impossible.
And the same goes for evenings. You already have housework, reports, and coursework coming out of your butt, you certainly don’t have time to be putting anal beads up there, too. Right?
Sex doesn’t have to come to a screaming halt just because we lose an hour on Sunday. The screaming and the orgasms just have to happen faster, so read on if you want to master The Quickie.
Say Yes To The Dress
It's important to dress for success, literally. Dresses and skirts are ideal for quickies, as they allow such easy access to the erogenous zones, so you don't need to spend time getting naked. And, ladies, if you're wearing sexy knickers, why not keep those on as well? Having sex fully clothed can feel spontaneous and taboo, which can be a huge turn-on.
Similarly, guys, don't always feel like you have to drop trou to enjoy a sneaky sex session - just undoing the front of your jeans and pushing your underwear to one side does just as good a job in the heat of the moment.
How To Get A-Head
Oral sex is undeniably one of the best things about foreplay. So, why not make it the main event? Sex doesn't always have to be about having full intercourse, and giving each other head puts you both on the fast track to orgasming.
Try the "Cowgirl 69" (a.k.a. girl-on-top-guy-below) position for mutual pleasure and maximum efficiency. Or, if you're feeling generous, get your significant other to sit or lie on a chair or the edge of the bed. That way, you can go down on them in record time.
Ladies, we've all been there. Sure, you feel aroused, but it can take at least ten minutes before you'll be wet enough to get down to business comfortably and safely.
When time is of the essence, be sure to use a generous helping of your favourite lube. That way, you'll save loads of time whilst avoiding any nasty high-speed sex injuries.
Location, Location, Location
The possibility of getting caught in the act can be exhilarating, so why not shake things up a bit? Having sex outside of the bedroom is the perfect start to a quickie.
Everyone else could come home any minute, so what more motivation do you need to pick up the pace? The bathroom is an ideal location if you're looking to add a racy rendezvous to your morning routine. Morning shower? Morning shag? Completed it, mate.
Sometimes, we can get caught up in the mindset that sex must always be an hour-long session of unparalleled pleasure.This can put a lot of harmful pressure on people, and leave them feeling like they don't have time for sex in their lives.
Use this Daylight Savings as an excuse to have more quickies, you'll probably find that you have do have time for sex after all!
Audrey Andrews is a student blogger for Lovehoney. In her spare time she loves to chat relationships, do craft, but would not advise knitting your own condoms.
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