7 Non-Penetrative Toys That'll Drive You Wild

by Audrey Andrews

on Sep 26, 2018

7 Non-Penetrative Toys That'll Drive You Wild

When we think of sex, chances are that lots of us are imagining some penis-in-vagina kind of action. But why, when there are so many other options for pleasurable play?

Despite what many of us are taught to believe, penetration is not a prerequisite for amazing foreplay.

There are so many incredible ways to play that don’t involve inserting Tab A into slot B.

Luckily, if you're after some outercourse experimentation, Lovehoney have a smorgasbord of sensational non-penetrative toys on offer, so here are 7 to get you in the mood for some mind-blowing external play!

      Tracey Cox Supersex Twin Silicone Vibrating Love Ring for Couples

      2. Tracey Cox Supersex Twin Silicone Vibrating Love Ring for Couples

      This vibrating cock ring is perfect for shared pleasure, but I understand why you’d want to whip it out for some alone time.

      The silicone rings can lead to a longer, stronger erection – simply slip the larger ring over your balls and the smaller ring over your penis.

      The multi-speed vibrating bullet is designed for blissful clitoral stimulation, and you can remove it from the ring for further play. It’s true what they say, sharing IS caring!

      What you say:

      " If you haven't tried a cock ring before or are wanting to buy a new one, honestly you need this in your life! " - RebbyBear

      Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints

      3. Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints

      Smooth and sensual, the Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints are a gentle foray into the wonderful world of BDSM.

      The pre-looped ends keep your play fuss-free and the 49.5 inch length gives you ample room to manoeuvre.

      What you say:

      "The restraints themselves are comfortable, no matter how tight they're on and they can withstand more than what you'd think! " - Littlemissnurse

      Desire Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator Purple

      4. Desire Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator Purple

      An award-winning best seller, the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator is living proof that external play alone can rock your world!

      With 8 different patterns and 12 levels of intensity you’ll be spoilt for choice between the sheets.

      Whether you use it on your own or with a lucky significant other, you’ll love what this vibe is capable of.

      What you say:

      "If you're thinking of buying your first vibe, this is a great decision. It's so pretty, and has a lot of settings, so you can work out what you like." - Flavia

      Nipple Play Adjustable Nipple and Clit Clamps

      5. Nipple Play Adjustable Nipple and Clit Clamps

      Do you love nipple play? Do you love clitoral stimulation?

      If you answered ‘yes’ to both questions, then you’re bound to love this delightful clamp combo!

      The Nipple Play Nipple Clamps and Clit Clamp is a non-penetrative toy that positively sizzles with sensuality.

      The adjustable clips also make this toy beginner friendly. The crocodile clamps can be pulled as taut or as loose as you like. Happy clamping!

      What you say:

      "Honestly one of the best purchases I've made. Good for solo play as well, easy to use and adjustable." - Tovalaine

      Doc Johnson Pussy Pump

      6. Doc Johnson Pussy Pump

      They may sound scary if you've never tried them before, but pussy pumps are a quick and surprisingly simple way to heighten your external sensitivity.

      Working by creating a vacuum around the vulva, these nifty gadgets increase blood flow to your labia and clitoris, making them fuller and even more receptive to touch.

      Just add a little lube around the rim of the plastic chamber, place it over your lady garden, and squeeze the pump to draw the air out for a gentle suction effect. Most pumps come with a quick-release valve, too, so you can use them with total peace of mind!

      Don't have a vulva? Penis pumps can have a similar effect on your "main vein", and could also help your erection to feel bigger and stronger.

      What you say:

      "OMG, so sensitive, had me orgasming in minutes of taking it off." - Romantic Night in

      Mischief Heart Slapper Paddle

      7. Mischief Heart Slapper Paddle

      For those of us that love a good spanking, there’s the Sex & Mischief Heart Slapper Paddle.

      A winning combination of cute and tough, this faux-leather paddle will leave love stamps on your fun-zones. It’s also split, to give you that extra loud SLAP on impact.

      This is one paddle that will have you hankering for a spanking.

      What you say:

      "This is a great beginners paddle and is worth the money. A great size and the cute hearts add a nice touch." - blw0115

While penetrative foreplay and sex can be A-MAZING, it’s certainly not the only way to play.

There are plenty of exhilarating ways to stimulate yourself or your partner externally and, with toys like these, non-penetrative play has never been more thrilling!

Audrey Andrews is a student blogger for Lovehoney. In her spare time she loves to do craft, but would not advise knitting your own condoms.

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Written by Audrey Andrews.

Originally published on Sep 26, 2018. Updated on Aug 5, 2020