Alex Reviews: Desire Luxury Rechargeable Male Vibrator

by Lovehoney

on Jan 6, 2020


Look and feel

The first thing that struck me about this product was the accompanying bag, it has a very luxurious feel about it. I was also pleasantly surprised that there is a hole built into the bag so that you can charge it discreetly.

As for the toy itself, the side with the motors is firm while the other side is a soft and pliable allowing it to fit members of various sizes and thicknesses. I have to admit this toy has a real quality feel about it and has been very well designed.

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Accessibility

The first thing I have to mention is the weight of it, especially since it is weighted at the top and one side. This can be quite an issue if you have a condition like arthritis where grip and holding weighted items can be an issue.

I must admit, with the pain I get in my back and neck I did find that I wasn’t able to use this toy for very long. Although, saying that, most of the times I have used it I was usually finished before this became a big problem.

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Duet

I would love to say that Louise had as much fun using this on me as I did but unfortunately that wasn’t the case. I think from our perspective we would recommend that this toy should be avoided if the main user has arthritis or issues with their hands or wrists.

Louise noted that she had to hold the handle right at the very top. This meant that effectively the entire weight (which as I said is generally on the top and one side) was pulling on her hand and putting a lot of pressure on her wrist. She tried using it on me a couple of times but each time I had to end up taking over as it was simply too heavy for her to hold.

If I am honest I think she did get a kick from watching me use it on myself which was quite a turn on. So for us it didn’t really matter that she was unable to take control.

Upon Reflection

It may appear that this review is more negative than positive however, I assure you, it is only due to the conditions we have. The toy itself is very powerful and the suction it can create is absolutely incredible.

I have had other strokers before but this is the first vibrating one I have used. It’s quite unique, it's not like getting a blowjob or anything else I have ever experienced.

I can genuinely say that using this toy gave me the strongest orgasm I have ever had without the aid of a prostate toy.

Unfortunately the suction does come at a cost – the noise it makes while in use is considerable. Not from the motors as you would expect, but from the combination of the required lubricant and the vacuum created.

Put it this way, Louise could hear me using it over her television from two rooms away… and that was me trying to use it quietly.

Summary

Yes this toy sucks… but trust me, this toy definitely does not suck. It is one of the best experiences I have had with a toy, even with the issues we had with the weight of it.

The vibration selections and ability to increase or reduce them, coupled with the suction, gives you exactly what you need. I would choose this over the other strokers I have any time, it just offers a completely different experience.

The only real issue we had with this toy was because of our own physical limitations.


A married couple from Scotland, Alex and Louise met on a night out in Edinburgh 11 years ago. Although the relationship has changed a lot over the years, they are just as much in love today as they were back then. Unfortunately, a car accident six years ago has left them both in chronic pain.

However, they live their lives determined not to let pain get in the way of love, passion and intimacy. They hope by talking about the issues they face and how they might overcome them, it might help others in a similar situation.


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Originally published on Jan 6, 2020. Updated on Aug 5, 2020
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