Position of the Week: The Jockey

by Lovehoney

on May 10, 2019

Position of the Week: The Jockey

As she has full control of depth and thrust, The Jockey can be a more comfortable position for her if he's on the larger side.


She straddles him in a 'cowgirl' position. He then puts her in charge of thrusting by supporting himself on his arms hands and keeping one leg bent.


Positions where her legs are spread wide work if he's thick as well as long – but only if she's in control of the depth of penetration.


He should enter a little at a time and stop every inch to allow her muscles to relax around him. Penetrate from different angles to see which feels most comfortable.

Make it even better…

A blindfold for him will mean she has complete control. It may also mean his remaining senses will be heightened for mind-blowing sensations.


This position can be adapted for female-female couples with the use of a strap-on dildo. It's also a great position to try for anal sex (and add a male masturbator into the mix if the receiver has a penis).

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Originally published on May 10, 2019. Updated on Aug 5, 2020