The Best Sex Toys for Women

by Lovehoney

on Mar 7, 2022

From dildos to rabbit vibrators, there’s a whole world of sex toys for women and vulva owners out there. But how do you choose?

If you’re looking for an exciting addition to your collection or shopping for your very first vibrator, choosing the perfect sex toy can be an intimidating task.


Whether you want a powerful toy that packs a punch or something super quiet so your roomates don’t find out about your new hobby, we’ve collated the best sex toys for women to help you make that all-important decision.

With features ranging from intense clitoral stimulation to app-controlled vibrations, these toys are all designed to bring pleasure to your vulva during solo or couples play. Just remember to add some lubricant to your new favorite toy to keep everything comfortable and really enhance your experience.

So, without further ado, here are our top 10 sex toys for women and vulva owners.

1. Best women's sex toy for beginners

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Lovehoney Magic Bullet 10 Function Bullet Vibrator

This bullet vibe is small but mighty and makes for a great first women’s sex toy.

Tapered at the tip to stimulate your clit with perfect precision, this non-intimidating toy has three speeds and seven patterns to choose from. Ideal for solo and couples play, this petite women’s toy might just be the best way to start your collection.

What customers say: “If, like me, you've been living under a rock and are completely new to masturbation .... then this is the PERFECT toy to start your pleasure tool kit off.”

2. Best female toy for blended pleasure


Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

If you’re a fan of delightful dual simulation, the Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator is for you.

Made of soft silicone, the curved shaft stimulates your G-spot while thick, flexible ears stimualte your clitoris for blended pleasure all day (and night) long.

What customers say: “Deliciously intense blended orgasms every time. ”

3. Best women's sex toy for clitoral stimulation

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Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

Sometimes, a bit of clitoral attention is the only way to reach the big ‘O’ - enter the Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro 40.

Using Womanizer's specialised Pleasure Air Technology, this sleek stimulator is one of the best female sex toys for clitoral stimulation. Get ready for sensational sucking and gentle pulsing that will push you over the edge.

What customers say: “OH MY GOSH it was THE most intense orgasm of my life! I was literally SHAKING!”

4. Best toy for anal play


Jelly Rancher Pleasure Anal Training Butt Plug Kit (3 Piece)

Perfect for beginner butt plug users of any gender, this training set from Jelly Rancher is ideal for some exciting anal exploration.

If you want to kick things up a notch, try the Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Butt Plug to add some delicious vibrations to your play. Just remember to use plenty of anal lube to keep everything comfortable.

What customers say: “This kit did the job perfectly. The small size was easy, the medium was a good step-up, and the largest size (which I use currently) is perfect.”

5. Best sex toy for girls on the go


Womanizer Liberty Rechargeable Travel Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Petite and discreet, this rechargeable Womanizer toy is the perfect companion for a trip away.

Featuring six intensity levels and Womanizer’s signature Pleasure Air Technology, this women’s toy is ideal for sexy stimulation any time, anywhere.

What customers say: “Its discreet, easy to travel with and keep clean when stored, looks really dainty and pretty and obviously feels amazing!”

6. Best women’s toy for treating yourself


Lelo Soraya Wave Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

Looking for a luxury women’s sex toy? Lelo created the sensational Soraya Wave, a rabbit vibrator that promises to deliver wave after wave of pleasure (get it?).

Sit back and enjoy the elegant and ergonomic design that targets your clit and G-spot, not to mention the eight pleasure settings, for tailored arousal every time.

What customers say: “The most delicious vibe I’ve ever purchased”

7. Best for realism

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Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Multicolored Silicone Dildo 7 Inch

When it comes to dildos, the Lifelike Lover is one of our favorite toys for women on those days when only the real thing will do.

Designed to look and feel like a real penis, this realistic dildo features 7 inches of textured shaft for thrillingly realistic stimulation.

What customers say: “The lifelike head gives you that large feeling as it's inserted but then it slides easily for amazing pleasure.”

8. Best women's sex toy for couples play


Lovense Lush 2 Pink App-Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

Just because your partner is away, doesn’t mean you have to go it alone.

The Lovense Love Egg is ideal for long-distance lovers, offering the chance for one partner to control the fun through the paired app. Whether your partner is on the other side of the world or just in the other room, this vibe is great for adding some spice to your couple's play.

What customers say: “I have a high sex drive and my partner and I use this when he is not around! He can pleasure me from any part of the world!”

9. Best female sex toy for good vibrations

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Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator

We couldn’t make a list of the best sex toys for women and not mention the iconic Magic Wand.

Featuring eight powerful vibration settings, this toy will help you take your personal massages to the next level, if you know what we mean.

What customers say: ”My gf and I reached new heights of heaven once we started incorporating this into our sex life!”

10. Best women's toy for a bit of everything


Lovehoney G-Tickler Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

Last but certainly not least, this Lovehoney vibrator is a fantastic all-in-one women’s toy.

With a G-spot stimulating bulb and clitoris tickling buds, this toy really does do it all. Annnddd it’s fully waterproof, making it perfect for a steamy shower session or two.

What customers say: “This is AMAZING. Definitely a speed on there to suit everyone. Orgasm guaranteed!”

More Sex Toy Advice

So, there you have it, our favorite sex toys for women and vulva owners. Want even more toy tips and advice? Take a look at our other guides and blogs below:


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Originally published on Mar 7, 2022. Updated on Mar 8, 2022