Men: 8 Surprising Reasons You Should Get a Sex Toy

by Krista

on Feb 6, 2013

Men: 8 Surprising Reasons You Should Get a Sex ToyDo you guys ever get jealous of all the cool toys made for women? You don’t have to be. Sex toys are for dudes too. You can use them to add variety or simply to enhance your experience. Toys can be used alone or with a partner. Women love it when men are enthusiastic about our vibrators. Your ultimate fantasy is a three-some, you say? How about you, me and some toys?

Penises and testicles love sex toys just as much as vulvas, clits and vaginas do. Everyone has a booty, which might just love the feeling of penetration and fullness. You never know until you try! I believe men will continue to embrace sex toys this year. It’s just a matter of time before male celebrities start endorsing sex toys and adult products the same way some famous women have recently. Which male celeb could you imagine buying one of the items below?

Check out this list of 8 ways men can enjoy sex toys, and add your comment below:

Reason 1. To Improve Your Style

You wouldn’t use a household item to replace a vibrator or butt plug, so why use hand lotion when it’s time to masturbate? Lube and specially-formulated masturbation creams are awesome, safe and feel great.

Add some style to your solo play with this Stroke 29 Masturabtion Lube (pictured above). It looks much better on your bathroom shelf than a tub of petroleum jelly. Trust me.

Reason 2. To Give Your Hand a Break

Tenga EggHandjobs and masturbation are great, but sometimes you crave a new sensation. That’s when it’s time to try a masturbation sleeve.

The compact and convenient Tenga Egg is perfect for experiencing a new feeling on a budget. Tenga Eggs are discretely-packaged, convenient and fun. They also come in a selection of textures, so you can experiment to find your favorite.

If you want a full-on 21st century masturbation experience, try the Tenga Flip. This masturbation sleeve is easy to clean, looks like a sci-fi techie gadget and guys say it feels AMAZING.

Reason 3. To Can Gain Size - and Pleasure!

Pump it up! male sex toy. With continued use and dedication, some penis pump users say that pumps can help you increase the size of your penis while enhancing and strengthening your orgasm.

British-made Bathmate pumps are among the most popular, because they use water to create tight, safe suction. And yes, you can use them in the bath!

Reason 4. To Get Off Without Even Moving

Cobra LibreI'm not insinuating that you're lazy! I know from personal experience that sometimes doing all the work makes it harder to relax and focus on how good something feels. Enter the Cobra Libre, the world’s first vibrator for men. When I watch this thing in action, I get pure penis envy.

Everyone with a dick seems overcome by the urge to insert it into this racecar-shaped sleeve, sit back and go for a ride. Cobra Libre has a modern, masculine design and gives you a high-tech, hands-free experience with a very big finish.

Reason 5. To Discover Your Prostate

You have a prostate, so why aren't you using it? Prostate stimulation promotes sexual health and could lead you down the road to stronger orgams—even multiple orgasms!

Butt plugs come in all shapes and sizes, but the innovative designers at Aneros have created toys specifically to target and massage the prostate. Discover the pleasures just waiting to be uncovered in your butt with an Aneros toy.

Reason 6. To Have a Three-Way with Toys!

Some women are just insatiable. It's been said that the more sex women have, the more they want. With the right toys handy, you can give her even more. Keep a quality silicone dildo around to double her pleasure or keep the action going after you have your climax or if you need a break.

Want to give her a truly fulfilling experience? Add the Sportsheets Double Penetration Harness to your arsenal. (Pun unintended but I'll take it.)

Reason 7. To Make It Last Longer

Stretchy Cock RingsCock rings are awesome. You and your partner will both enjoy the benefits of these small but mighty devices. Cock rings restrict blood from flowing out of the penis, keeping erections harder longer.

For an introduction, try this Three Snap Leather Cock Ring or these stretchy Lovehoney Magic Cock Rings. Want to kick it up a notch? Add vibration with one of these Beginners Basic Chunky Waterproof Vibrating Cock Rings.

Cock rings come in a dizzying variety of different sizes, features, colors and materials. Contact Customer Service if you need help finding the best one for you.

Reason 8. To Do Something You or Your Partner Don't Want To Do.

Oh your neck hurts? Don't feel like going down on your sweetie right now? Maybe your lady likes receiving oral sex a bit more than you like giving it?

The Sqweel 2 is a wheel with spinning silicone tongues that simulates cunnilingus! Dr. Hernando Chaves M.F.T., D.H.S suggests using the Sqweel 2 on your partner to "Sqweel it out" as 10 stand-in tongues, I recommend adding a blindfold to this scene.

Plus, the Sqweel 2 isn’t just a cunnilingus toy. It offers a willing tongue for any lickable body part. She can also use it on you, by placing the Sqweel 2 on the frenulum - the sensitive spot on the underside of your penis head. Curious about analingus? Add a little lube to the silicone tongues and give it a try.

What do you think? Are you ready to add some new gear to your repertoire?


Written by Krista.

Originally published on Feb 6, 2013. Updated on Aug 5, 2020