1. How to Explore and Enjoy Double Penetration

    Double penetration (DP) describes the simultaneous penetration of the body at two points.

    It is also used to describe a scenario where two people use the same toy at the same time, like a double-ended dildo.

    Not just for adult performers or lesbian couples, double penetration can be enjoyed by everyone.

    Some people enjoy the feeling of several orifices being penetrated at once.

    Simultaneous stimulation of the butt, the mouth and the vagina (if you have one) can make for mind-blowing sex if it's done correctly.

    Other couples want to experience what it's like to use the same toy together, which can be intimate and arousing at all once.

    You may enjoy double penetration for no clearly defined reason at all, and that's totally cool as well.

    There's no need to justify your sexual pleasure to anyone.

    Lovehoney Sex Expert Interview Zoë Kors

    Zoë Kors is a sex and intimacy coach, writer, speaker, and sought-after thought leader in the field of women's sexuality. Based in Los Angeles, she works with women and couples all over the world to reclaim their essential sensual nature and embrace sexuality as a natural form of self-expression.

    She is the former Senior Editor and Creative Director of LA Yoga Magazine. She is a contributor to many online publications, including Elephant Journal, MindBodyGreen, Fabletics, and Brentwood Home, as well as the author of, 6 Ways to Have Radically Intimate Sex, which quickly went viral and is currently at over 2 million views and over 100K Facebook shares.

    In addition to a thriving private practice, Zoë offers her services through The Center for Relational Healing, which specializes in the treatment of sex addicts and their partners. As a team member, Zoë works with clients to reintroduce healthy sexuality and intimacy after the trauma of betrayal.

    She is a certified Co-Active Coach with the prestigious Coaches Training Institute in San Rafael, CA. Zoë is initiated in the Sri Vidya tantra lineage. Her work reflects her extensive study of Tantra, Zen Buddhism, Meditation, Yoga, Breathwork, and other Eastern disciplines, which she blends with more process-oriented modalities of Western psychotherapy and Co-Active Coaching.

    Learn more about Zoë Kors and her work at zoekors.com.

    Position of the week: The Corkscrew

    6 Reasons to Spend More Time on Foreplay

    Even if we don’t like to admit it, lots of people still think of foreplay as the process leading up to the ‘main event’ of penetration – and the male orgasm. Foreplay is considered expendable, a luxury that can be enjoyed on a lazy Sunday afternoon but is often omitted during a weekday quickie.

    Not only is this attitude towards foreplay old-fashioned, but it’s also overly heteronormative. There’s nothing wrong with a quickie, but I think it’s time that we acknowledge the importance of foreplay and stop considering it ‘lesser’ than penetrative sex.

    As a big believer in the importance of foreplay, here are my 6 reasons why we should all be focusing less on the big O and more on the big F.

    There's something unbelievably sexy about getting it on in a warm, steamy bathroom while being drenched by a hot shower.

    Not to mention, a long, undisturbed bath is the perfect time for a little aquatic alone time with your favourite sex toys.

    But anyone who's ever tried knows underwater love isn't quite as sexy and straightforward as the films would have us believe.

    And have you noticed that showers and baths in films are always ENORMOUS?

    Let's face it, unless you're Christian Grey, bathrooms aren't the most erotic of locations.

    So how do you enjoy sex in the shower in a slightly less glamorous, shower-over-the-bath situation?

    sex-expert-interview-kimberly-johnson

    Kimberly Ann Johnson is a Somatic Experiencing Trauma Resolution Practitioner, Sexological Bodyworker, Structural Integration Practitioner, yoga teacher, and single mom.

    She is the creator of Activate Your Inner Jaguar, an online course ushering women into their full voices and sexual expression, and the author of The Fourth Trimester: A Postpartum Guide to Healing Your Body, Balancing Your Emotions and Restoring Your Vitality. Find more about her work here.

    Last week, we spoke on the Lovehoney YouTube channel about squirting and Jess explained what squirting is (and what it isn't) so you know the difference between a squirt and female ejaculation.

    This week, we're following up with part 2 of our squirting sequel with 'How to Squirt'!

    In this sex advice video, Jess gives you her top tips for how to squirt when you masturbate, as well as how to make your partner squirt during couples play.

    Watch the vlog above to find out more and remember it's all about Stimulation, Hydration, and Relaxation.

    We've also listed our favorite toys to help you discover squirting orgasms here.

    8 Ways to Declutter Your Sex Life

    With spring on the way, renewing your energy with its longer days and warmer weather, it may have got you thinking about your health, fitness, career and relationship goals.

    A fresh chance to review, reflect or just re-organise your priorities for the time being.

    One of the things that’s easy to neglect over the busyness of the year is your sex life – especially with a return to studying and assessments.

    But that doesn't need to be the case. Here are a few ways to declutter your sex life.

    What is squirting?

    Not to be confused with female ejaculation, squirting (sometimes referred to as gushing) is the involuntary release of fluid during intimate stimulation on a person with a vulva.

    But what is the fluid? And why does it occur?

    Jess tells you everything we know about squirting orgasms in this weeks YouTube video.

    Come back next week to find out how to squirt!

    sex-expert-interview-barbara-carrellas

    Barbara Carrellas is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships, Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. She is the founder of Urban Tantra®, an approach to sacred sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of conscious sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM, and the Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program, a comprehensive training program in the practice and application of conscious sexuality. Her pioneering Urban Tantra® workshops were named best in New York City by TimeOut/New York magazine.

    Barbara brings a holistic, metaphysical, practical, humorous, entertaining, and gender-fluid approach to conscious sexuality and to all her work. Her books, workshops, lectures, and coaching sessions are an eclectic mix of sexual and spiritual practices designed to encourage readers and participants of all sexual preferences and genders to expand their capacity for both pleasure and spiritual fulfillment.

    Find more about her work here.

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