1. Position of the week: The Mermaid

    How to Combine Sex and Mindfulness

    We’ve all had mindless sex at some point. I’m talking about the drift into mind-wandering that can happen during some of our greatest pleasures, consciously or subconsciously.

    From picturing your favorite porn scene or delectable fantasy, to dealing with anxiety ridden evaluations of our bodies or performance, to fearing contraception failure, or your neighbours overhearing through your paper thin walls.

    There are hundreds of opportunities for your mind to wander away from what’s happening in front of you, or to you.

    I’m pretty much a stranger to mindfulness.

    In fact, when trying to learn about what it was, I watched a video on x2 playback to take in the information more quickly. Ironic, huh?

    From what I’ve learnt, I think that mindfulness could be the answer to those mid-sex distractions.

    The thoughts will still appear, but rather than allowing them to absorb us completely, we can use mindfulness to bring us back into the zone to connect with ourselves, our sexual partner(s) and ultimately, experience more pleasure.


    Sunny Rodgers is a Certified Sex Coach, Clinical Sexologist, and serves as Ambassador for the American Sexual Health Association.

    She is also the Brand Manager and Sexual Health Educator for three top intimate products manufacturers: Pipedream Products, Jimmyjane and Sir Richard's.

    Since 2000, Sunny Rodgers has worked in the pleasure product industry, helping thousands improve their relationships and understand how pleasure products can enhance their sex lives.

    She has made it her mission to help educate people on the intersection of pleasure products and sexual wellbeing.

    Sunny uses her two decades of experience to help people reach their intimate goals and experience successful sex lives.

    Position of the week: The Pillar

    How to Boost Your Sex Drive

    Do you enjoy having sex but find that you’re not often in the mood to initiate?

    Do you wish you could get aroused more easily or desire your partner more often?

    Put your seatbelts on because we’re going on a quick tour around the sex drive.

    Sex drive or libido is basically how much or often someone desires sexual activity. It varies from person to person and there’s no such thing as a “normal” sex drive because everyone is different!

    There’s nothing wrong with a lower sex drive as long as you’re happy, but if you decide you’d like to increase your sex drive there are a number of simple methods you can try.

    Here’s my list of the best lifestyle changes you can make to put that sex drive into overdrive.

    Lovehoney Sexpert Interview Dr Lanae St John

    Dr. Lanae St.John, DHS, ACS, is a board-certified sexologist, sexuality educator, and writer. She received her Doctorate in Human Sexuality from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality where she focused on Child and Adolescent Sexuality.

    She develops curriculum, teaches classes, and works with clients to normalize conversations about sexuality between parents and children. Her writing and sex expertise have been featured in various publications, websites, radio shows, and on YouTube.

    She believes that we must help adults discover a positive outlook on sexuality before they can impart wisdom to the young people in their lives. By teaching parents to nurture the budding sexuality of their children in ways that foster self-respect and acceptance for the totality of their personhood, she helps them raise children who become empowered, beautiful, strong, sexually healthy adults.

    She often incorporates pop culture, current advertising, music, and movie references into her teachings and blogs about sex, parenting, relationships, and gender at TheMamasutra.net.

    Position of the week: Jigsaw

    Just in case you've been living in a hole for the past 3 year and missed the memo: Lovehoney (that's us!) make sex toy videos and post them on YouTube every Friday!

    We make our sex vlogs to help you get the most from your sex life (and sex toys!) and help you make the best decisions when shopping.

    We also love it when you get involved and comment on our videos... In fact, we actively encourage you to ask us questions and share your thoughts.

    In this weeks video, we're going through some of your comments and answering the most frequently asked sex and sex toy questions.

    Got a burning query you think we missed? Comment on the blog, or head over to YouTube and tell us!

    5 Things They Never Tell You About Anal Play

    Anal play is classified as any sexual activity involving the anus and is sometimes used to referred to sexual activities that incorporate the butt in general.

    Homosexuality and anal sex was legalized in the US in 2003.

    Ignorant and homophobic attitudes still exist, but many organizations and individuals are dedicated to fighting against them.

    So, there's no reason to shy away from the topic of anal sex, and there's no reason not to bust some major myths about booty action.

    Here are 5 things they never tell you about anal play.

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    Resolutions schmesolutions. Who even keeps them anyway?

    A sexy bucket list, on the other hand, sounds much better, don't you think?

    To help you kick of the new year with the best bang, here are our top 7 best sexy things we think people with a vulva have missed out on in 2018, and might like to try in 2019.

    Think we missed something? Pop it in the comments!

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