The Sexual Happiness Podcast S2.E13: Why Non-Penetrative Sex is the Best

by Vicky

on Dec 10, 2020

This week Nick, Anna and Violet are talking about non-penetrative sex and why it can totally rock your world!

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Did you know that 'outercourse' is an actual word and that this external form of erotic play is actually an incredibly powerful and versatile way to stimulate all manner of hot spots and erogenous zones.

Is defining penetrative sex as the only 'real' form of sex, heteronormative and limiting? Some people just don't like it, and find it less pleasurable, unable to orgasm and even painful.

There are many reasons why external stimulation is often the best sex that you will ever have. So, what are some of the ways you can have mind-blowing outercourse... and just for the record, here at Lovehoney, we passionately believe that sex is all inclusive and means whatever in this wonderful wild world you want it to mean!

Alongside this hot topic the team share some little-known sex facts and the answers to your questions.

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Written by Vicky. Lovehoney Editorial Team
Vicky is Lovehoney's Agony Aunt, giving you advice on all things sex and relationships.
An avid global trotter and experienced Generation Xer, Vicky also pens blogs on everything from fabulously fearless LGBTQ+ warriors, to body positivity and the ins and outs of Tantra.

Originally published on Dec 10, 2020. Updated on Dec 10, 2020