Sex Education: 7 Mantras To Get You More
on Jun 22, 2014
Why not learn some new moves (Learn How to Squirt), or read up on some interesting fetishes (Intro to Rope Bondage)? Or maybe you'll take the time to practice a new skill, try some new positions, or increase your sexual communication?
Sometimes it seems like sex rules the world, and it's often our main motivation. Getting better at sex, and having more pleasurable sexual encounters just makes life better. For true sexual happiness, you can't get too much sex education.
The more you know, the more you can use your powers for pleasure. We challenge you to open your minds and acquire some new sexual knowledge inspired by this post.
Here are 7 things to consider for improved sexual pleasure. Let #AdultSexEdMonth inspire you to step your game up and be a better lover and companion, you're worth it!
Sex education is important at any age, unfortunately the sex ed many of us received when we were young was terribly inadequate. Now that we're grown, we realize we want more.
Important aspects of sex education include: consent, exploration, and techniques for more pleasure. Our goal at Lovehoney is to help all of you find sexual happiness, which means something different for every individual. Learn about your own body and your partner's too and get even better at receiving and giving pleasure. Here are 7 simple things you can do right now:
1. "Sharing is caring" Communication:
Talk to your lover about your fantasies and be honest about your desires. Often it's a good idea to have the conversation about trying something new before things start to get hot and heavy.
The only way to find out if your partner has similar interests, or would also be curious to learn more about your passion or fetish, is to ask.
Saying out loud the things that we want to do, or have done to us, is suggestive and seductive. Talking dirty is communication too!
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2. "Learning equals growing" Maximize what you've got:
Sometimes people obsess over the body parts they have, comparing them to other people's parts instead of enjoying them to their full potential. Take some time to learn about how your parts feel and help them to reach new heights.
When you know how to turn yourself on, and make it last, you can share your extended pleasure with a delighted lover.
Try a cock ring to keep things harder longer or add vibration for both of you to enjoy. Put negative and body shaming thoughts out of your head and work with what you've got.
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3. "Happy wife, happy life" Pleasure for her:
A lot of the time sex has a tendency to be all about the orgasm. Heterosexual sex often ends with the male orgasm, or "money shot".
It's a great idea, and much appreciated, when a man knows multiple ways to enhance their partner's pleasure. Try added vibration or a firm dildo to take her over the edge after you've already gone there.
Learn more: More Orgasms With Less Effort
4. "If you can't love yourself…" Masturbation:
Learn your body - love your body. Masturbating and trying new things while you're alone is a wonderful way to learn about what you enjoy, what turns you on, and what you might like to try when you have a lover with you.
Mutual masturbation is some of the safest most gratifying sex you can have, and the visuals of yourself in the mirror or your love next to you are great fodder for alone time too.
Stamina training through masturbation helps you to last longer and provide even more intense and explosive orgasms. Are you ready?
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5. "More than one way to get wet" Lubrication:
Lubrication is the key to great sex. A little bit of friction is a good thing, but too much can make a potentially pleasurable encounter end in pain, discomfort, or even a broken condom.
That's why we consider a good lubricant a sex necessity. Lube will enhance your experience alone - for slippery solo masturbation, or with a partner - for more comfortable penetrative sex.
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6. "Enjoy the journey…" Foreplay:
Whether it's women or men who enjoy foreplay more, many of us just can't get enough. The build up provided by kissing and caressing is intoxicating.
Over at Blogher, a very reputable site for women bloggers everywhere, EveIateyourdamnApple pleads - Dear Men: Stop Skipping the Foreplay! And helps out with some helpful diagrams. Slow down, enjoy the ride, there's no need to rush to the end!
There are many ways to orgasm that you might have not even discovered yet. Explore your partner's body, not just the most intimate places, and feel the pleasure build.
Learn more: Little Known Ways to Orgasm
7. "Let me blow your mind" Multiple Orgasms:
Multiple orgasms are very real. No matter your gender or body parts you can train yourself (Kegel time!) to have longer lasting and stronger orgasms.
Learning about how to stimulate little known areas such as the prostate or G-spot, and anus simultaneously to increases your pleasure.
Explore and go slow, the build up will help to intensify every touch enhancing your climax exponentially, making it ebb and flow and last longer than ever before.
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There's always more to learn when it comes to sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Follow along with #AdultSexEdMonth, talk sex on a forum and take some time to open your mind to the possibilities of the your best sex life now!
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