Sexy Wedding Anniversary Gift Guide

Sexy Wedding Anniversary Gift Guide

by Lovehoney

on May 1, 2017

Sexy Wedding Anniversary Gift GuideWeddings and wedding anniversaries are steeped in tradition but in the modern age it can be difficult to maintain a sense of traditionalism when it comes to gift-giving. Paper, lace and leather might not seem like the most inspired choices, but the traditional wedding anniversary gifts have vast potential for creative thinking and fun gift-giving.

Celebrating your wedding anniversary as a couple is about celebrating your union as a loving, inseparable partnership and choosing something that better represents your love for one another shows forethought, consideration and also sends the message that you’re still deeply attracted to your husband or wife.

To make your wedding anniversary traditional, romantic and sexy, check out these suggestions for alternative sexy gifts to celebrate your marriage and rekindle some of that wedding night passion.

Pictured: Dreamgirl White Satin and Lace Plunge Chemise

  1. 1st Wedding Anniversary Paper - The Mister by E L James

    First wedding anniversary - paper - erotica

    Leave gifts of money for the family and turn your attention to writing your partner a sexy love note slipped inside an erotic book like The Mister. The letter adds a personal touch to an intensely titillating read.

  2. 2nd Wedding Anniversary Cotton - Bondage Boutique Cotton Rope

    Second wedding anniversary - cotton - bondage rope

    Bed linen is commonly given for the first wedding anniversary, but a length of soft cotton bondage rope like the Bondage Boutique Cotton Rope is much better poised to make your anniversary a memorable one. Maybe the in-laws can buy the new bedding instead.

  3. 3rd Wedding Anniversary Leather - DOMINIX Leather Heart Paddle

    Third wedding anniversary - leather - bondage

    Shoes, handbags, belts? There's much more fun to be had with leather on your wedding anniversary. With so many bondage accessories out there like the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Heart Slapper Paddle, you'll find something to tickle (or spank) your fancy.

  1. 4th Wedding Anniversary Silk - Tease by Lovehoney Black Blindfold

    Tease by Lovehoney Black Blindfold

    A luxurious fabric that begs to be touched and stroked, how can you possibly resist the chance to gift something erotic? A silk blindfold like the Tease by Lovehoney offers a soft and romantic experience that you can take it in turns to share, enhancing your trust and increasing your sexual anticipation for one another’s touch.

  2. 5th Wedding Anniversary Wood - Wooden Spanking Paddle

    Fifth wedding anniversary - wood - spanking paddle

    Giving your partner wood or receiving wood is a wonderfully rewarding experience, but giving it in the right way makes all the difference. Put down that wooden statue of a cat sleeping and pick up the Fetish Fantasy Wooden Spanking Paddle to outdo the leather one from two years ago.

  3. 6th Wedding Anniversary Iron - njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

    Sixth wedding anniversary - iron - steel dildo

    Ok, it may be made of stainless steel and not iron, but the njoy Pure Wand has the beautifully shiny aesthetic that fans of metal sex toys love. This wand is hailed as THE G-spot toy that has helped thousands of women learn how to squirt. Reassuringly weighty with a smooth, cool surface.

  1. 7th Wedding Anniversary Wool - Bondage Boutique Black Rose Pleasure Handcuffs

    Bondage Boutique Black Rose Pleasure Handcuffs

    OK, we admit it. Wool just isn't sexy. Nor are sheep. So what do we do about wool? The only thing we could come up with is either knitting some intimate wear for your partner's privates (don't… just don't) or treating them to the lined Bondage Boutique Black Rose Pleasure Handcuffs which as lined with seductively soft fleece.

  2. 8th Wedding Anniversary Bronze - Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

    Eigth wedding anniversary - Bronze - Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

    A more pleasurable alternative to a genuine bronze articfact, the Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator delivering contactless clitoral stimulation with the hollow silicone tip. Revel in the multiple speeds of non-numbing, pulsating suction.

  3. 9th Wedding Anniversary Pottery - Jimmyjane Contour M Massager Stone

    Ninth wedding anniversary - pottery - Jimmyjane Contour M Massager Stone

    Pottery is the traditional gift for 9 year anniversaries, but that doesn't have to mean buying your lover a teacup or salad bowl. We love the Jimmyjane Contour M Massager Stone, which is perfect for shared intimate pleasure. Beautifully designed, the Contour M can produce a different massage sensation every time you use it.

  1. 10th Wedding Anniversary Tin - Massage Candle

    Tenth wedding anniversary - tin - massage candle

    Once again, refrain from gifting your now long-suffering partner a tin of beans for giggles. A beautiful tin containing a massage candle not only presents itself as a romantic gift, it comes with the promise of loving attention and intimacy so is bound to be a winner. The Lovehoney Oh! Vanilla Massage Candle is lickable too - yum!

  2. 13th Wedding Anniversary Lace - Lovehoney Love Me Lace Chemise Set Black

    Thirteenth wedding anniversary - lace - Lovehoney Unwrap Me Black Babydoll

    Been looking forward to this one? The lace wedding anniversary is practically begging you to invest in sexy lacy lingerie, but did you know it can be a two-way thing? We have a wide range of lacy underwear for men as well (and it gets absolutely amazing reviews!).

  3. 14th Wedding Anniversary Ivory - Lovehoney Pure Romance Ivory Lace Underwired Basque Set

    Fourteenth wedding anniversary - ivory - bridal lingerie

    Enjoy a cruelty-free ivory wedding anniversary by staying away from the real deal and focusing on the colour instead. Our top suggestion would be to have a snoop around the bridal lingerie section and go for something pale, pretty and reminiscent of your wedding.

  1. 40th Wedding Anniversary Ruby - Julian Snelling Ruby Rosebud Butt Plug

    Fortieth wedding anniversary - ruby - butt plug

    After forty years together your sexual experimentation will have reached some exciting piques and investing in some luxury sex toys is an ideal way to celebrate your sexual liberation as a couple. Julian Snelling Rosebud Butt Plug features a crystal in the base and the gorgeous ruby red edition is the ideal substitute for jewellery and cufflinks.

  2. 50th Wedding Anniversary Gold - Lelo Insignia Soraya Rabbit Vibrator

    Fiftieth wedding anniversary - gold - Lelo Insignia Soraya Luxury Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

    Fifty years is an impressive amount of time to spend in a relationship - congratulations! Mark the occassion with something luxury like the Lelo Soraya Waterproof Vibrator.The elegant vibrator features exquisite gold detailing along the smooth shaft, as well as impressive pinpoint stimulation. The ultimate in high-end seduction, this gift certainly won't disappoint.

  3. 60th Wedding Anniversary Diamond - Peekaboos Diamond Nipple Loops

    Sixtieth wedding anniversary - diamond - Peekaboos Ruby and Diamond Star Nipple Loops

    Finding something as unique as your 60 years of marriage is going to be a challenge. If you want something extra luxurious to mark the occasion (without splashing out for a diamond ring), try the Peekaboos Ruby and Diamond Star Nipple Loops.Featuring a gorgeous diamond detailing as the ideal substitute for jewellery and cufflinks.

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Originally published on May 1, 2017. Updated on Aug 5, 2020