Pleasure Wand Stainless Steel Beaded Dildo

Life’s got hectic for me and as a result I haven’t reviewed most of the stuff I’ve recently bought but I just couldn’t resist reviewing this one. This metal dildo is heaven. If you’ve experienced it you’ll know what I mean but for the (yet) unenlightened, I’ll explain what it’s like.

So I went into this having never tried a pure dildo before, or at least, not a conventional one. I’ve been a vibes gal and I have to admit, investing in this I was nervous. I was half convinced it wouldn’t do anything for me, that the lack of vibrations would mean I was unable to climax, but my god how wrong that proved to be! I wanted a metal and glass dildo to complete my toy collection, so when this went on sale I decided to go for it. Having now used it I would pay the money again and not on sale for this pleasure.

I have a few sex toys by this point, and up until now I’ve not had a favourite. Everything changed when this walked through my door and since then I’ve taken it away with me and while at home it’s lived on my bedside table. I’ve only used my trusty internal vibes once since getting this, it’s just that addictive. I’ll admit here, I use it in combination with a bullet vibe but for people who don’t require simultaneous stimulation I doubt you’d need that.

Metal is an amazing material, it always feels cold to the touch when you pick it up (although you can easily change that with a quick run under hot water). At first I found it distinctly odd to have something so cold down there, but as I’ve got used to it I’ve come to crave that first sensation, particularly when I’m very in the mood. There’s nothing that makes you perk up and notice something sliding inside you quite like the heavy cold bulb of this dildo. Speaking of, apart from the temperature, the other thing you immediately notice when you pick it up is weight. It doesn’t feel that heavy in your hand, but I can promise you, once you’ve been using it for awhile you notice the weight. I’m not in shape if I’m honest, but using this certainly gave me a good workout. The first few days of use I found my arm ached while using it and I’d sometimes struggle to climax a second time because that was distracting me, but over time I think the muscles in my arm must have grown slightly stronger because I hardly notice it as much now.

The one thing I would point out, however, (that I nearly forgot to add -> which should show you how insignificant it’s become) is the size. It’s probably about comparably sized to the desire luxury beaded stainless steel dildo (go check out that page, they have a picture comparison to a model’s hands), meaning that it stands at around 20cm. This is all well and good until you realise it’s split into two sides, and so both sides only occupy around 10cm, which for a toy, feels small to me. It is also not very girthy, at the widest point probably only 2.5cm in diameter. All this meant that when it arrived and I opened it up I was actually rather disappointed. In addition, stainless steel is fairly easily scratched. This shouldn’t be too much of an issue and mine is still incredibly stunning and shiny, but if you cause decent damage to it, you’re going to need to sand that down very gently to keep it safe. There are plenty of guides for that online to help out though. As you can probably tell from the rest of this review, however, none of this has been a detractor in use. With regards to size, I do sometimes wish it had slightly more length and/or girth, but I feel this just makes me more desperate and hardly detracts from its use.

On the topic of use, it’s incredible. I’d 100% recommend it. Both ends in fact; sometimes I find I’m in the mood for one of them and sometimes the other, but I always switch between them, so I’m incredibly glad I chose this one with too ends for the price of one!! I don’t use the beads anally, but I’m very much looking forward to trying that out on my boyfriend (pros of steel toys you can thoroughly sterilise). Having just come from using it I can say nothing else compares to how heavy and full it is inside you, hitting all the right spots. It slides in incredibly easily due to the steel, and although I still prefer to use it with lubricant it honestly doesn’t need any most of the time.

On top of all that, as if it wasn’t already incredible enough, it comes in a beautiful black and red box, although mine had a barcode sticker on the top which I didn’t appreciate. Once off though it make a very nice presentation box and finds a home as mentioned on my bedside table. I have to say, it was the most expensive of the toys I have but it is so worth the money, and by far the best I have. On top of that, it will last. Stainless Steel is a lifetime investment -> when you consider that, it’s an absolute steel…

What more can I say? I thoroughly recommend this and implore you to give it a very thorough trial!!