Fleshlight for Men

Fleshlight has become the go-to in male masturbation for a reason. These realistic strokers are made to mimic vaginal, anal, or oral stimulation with textured canals and plush materials that feel lifelike. Enhance solo sessions, improve stamina, and increase overall pleasure with a realistic Fleshlight for men. Learn about How to Use a Fleshlight.

What is a Fleshlight?

A Fleshlight is a type of sex toy for people with penises, also known as a male masturbator. They are designed with an artificial opening that can be made to look like a real vulva, mouth, or anus, as well as less lifelike openings, which aren’t usually gendered or flesh-colored. Fleshlight sex toys are also made with a canal, which can feature different textures as well as a suction adjuster to enhance stimulation as you thrust.

Created for discretion, Fleshlights come in a sturdy plastic casing, making them look just like a flashlight sex toy… (get it?!) This means you can keep your little secret next to your bed or take it on your travels and no one will be any the wiser.

What’s more, Fleshlight sex toys aren’t just for solo fun - they can also take foreplay as a couple to a whole new level. Why not hand over control to your partner and let them tease you with your Fleshlight… Just don’t forget the lube!

Find the Best Fleshlight for You

Choosing a Fleshlight can be a tricky business, but luckily for you, we’ve got a wide array to choose from… with everything from travel-friendly Fleshies to those modeled on porn stars' vaginas. So whatever your preference, you’re sure to find one you love.

Here’s a few of our favorite Fleshlight types:

Best Fleshlight Texture

From crisscrossing to ribbing, bumps to ridges, the inner canal of Fleshlights can have all kinds of textures. The best Fleshlight sleeves for you will depend on the level of intensity you want when using one. A realistic Fleshlight tends to have smoother inner canals to mimic a real body, while more intense Fleshlights like the Fleshlight Go Torque Male Masturbator usually have the biggest variety of textures inside them.

Best First Fleshlight

If you’re new to Fleshlight sex toys, we’d recommend the Fleshlight Flight Aviator Male Masturbator. This compact design is ergonomically-crafted for easy use and comes with a chamber of tight internal rings to stimulate the head and shaft. The SuperSkin material warms up as you’re using it and is clear, so you can let your imagination run wild.

Best Anal Fleshlight

If you’re looking for a Fleshlight anal toy, check out the Fleshlight Girls Butt Eva Lovia Spice Texture. Modeled on porn star Eva Lovia’s derriere, this design is crafted with textured walls and ridges for unreal pleasure and thrilling fantasy play. If you’d prefer a male anus instead of a Fleshlight Girls Butt, check out the Fleshjack Boys range. These toys are crafted on your favorite male porn stars, with this Levi Karter Fleshlight being a firm favorite.

Best Fleshlight for Stamina Training

The best Fleshlight to improve stamina would have to be the Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit STU. With over 200 reviews and a near five-star rating, this vagina-style Fleshlight is one of the most popular for stamina-seekers. Using this male masturbation toy will help you last longer, improving your confidence in the bedroom and drawing out even better orgasms.

Best Travel Fleshlight

A travel Fleshlight is much smaller and more discreet than any other Fleshlight sex toy, making them more portable and perfectly suited for male masturbation on the go. One that is perfect for trips away is the Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator. At 6.5”, this design is compact enough to slot in your carry-on and stimulate your whole penis, while the sleek black casing is super unassuming.

Video: Which is The Best Fleshlight

If you’re unsure which one you’d prefer, our resident sex experts Jess Wilde and Sammi Cole talk through some of our top rated Fleshlight toys in this video.

Fleshlight Guides

Check out our collection of guides to help you navigate the exciting world of Fleshlight sex toys and enhance male masturbation.

How to Use a Fleshlight

Beginner's Guide to Sex Toys for Men

How to Clean Sex Toys

How to Use a Male Masturbator

Yes, when used with plenty of lube, Fleshlights are totally safe. Be sure to clean your toys properly before and after use to keep them hygienic. They’ll last longer this way too. This can be done using hot, soapy water or a sex toy cleaner.

Thanks to their inner canals and array of textures, penetrating a Fleshlight can feel pretty incredible, just like the real thing! Take it from our customers: "As for the toy itself, it feels damn good, can't lie. The internal ribs and textures just make it almost impossible not to enjoy." - Velvet Thunder

Yes, absolutely! The wetter the better, in fact. A hearty slathering of lube not only ensures your Fleshlight feels like the real deal but makes it easier to penetrate too.

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