1. Beginner's Guide to Male Sex Toys

    Sex toys for men are a relatively new thing. Blow-up dolls and penis pumps have been around for years, but these are often seen as gag gifts to embarrass your mates.

    But what about those male sex toys that are designed for pleasure, either during solo sex or as foreplay with a partner? There are tons of brilliant toys to choose from now, from many well-loved brands like Fleshlight, TENGA and Doc Johnson.

    To help you sort the wheat from the chaff, we've put together an overview of male sex toys, what they do, and where to get started.

    If you’re buying for yourself or your partner, this guide will definitely come in handy.

    Get started by choosing an area to explore from the options below...


    Our Best-Selling Sex Toys for Men


    Penis Toys

    There are loads of toys available to bring penis pleasure to the forefront of play time. They range in price from rock-bottom all the way up to extreme luxury, and can be used to enhance masturbation or for foreplay with a partner.

    Male Masturbators

    Also known as strokers, pocket pussies, and fake vaginas, male masturbators are an extremely popular sex toy for men. They're usually made from soft, realistic-feeling material, and can feature internal textures for additional penis stimulation during use. Male masturbators are great for first-time sex toy users, and come in a variety of different shapes, sizes, entrances, and price points.

    You can choose between non-realistic sleeves or sleeves that resemble body parts like the mouth, vagina or anus – some sleeves even come with multiple entry points so you can use the one you prefer. Other male masturbators add vibrations to really send pleasure skyrocketing.

    Male masturbators are easy to use: just get both yourself and the toy ready with water-based lubricant, and penetrate! Afterwards, clean your toy with sex toy cleaner and dust with renewer powder to keep the material feeling soft and supple.

    Non-realistic

    BASICS Neutral Beaded Male Stroker

    BASICS Neutral Beaded Male Stroker

    BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker

    BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker

    Tracey Cox Supersex Supertight Clear Stroker

    Tracey Cox Supersex Supertight Clear Stroker

    Great for first-time sex toy users.

    Great for those looking to experience sensations similar to oral sex.

    Great for super tight stimulation.

    Entrance width 0.25 inches

    Entrance width 1 inch

    Entrance width 1 inch

    Internal length 4 inches

    Internal length 2 inches

    Internal length 5.5 inches

    Realistic Vaginas

    THRUST Pro Mini Lea Super Ribbed and Bumps Pocket Pussy

    THRUST Pro Mini Lea Super Ribbed and Bumps Pocket Pussy

    Riley Reid Utopia Textured Fleshlight Girls

    Riley Reid Utopia Textured Fleshlight Girls

    THRUST Pro Ultra Chloe Super Ribbed and Bumps Vagina

    THRUST Pro Ultra Chloe Super Ribbed and Bumps Vagina

    Great for newcomers to realistic male masturbators.

    Great for fulfilling sexual fantasies.

    Great for exploring dual textures.

    Entrance width 0.25 inches

    Entrance width 0.5 inches

    Entrance width 0.5 inches

    Internal length 5 inches

    Internal length 9 inches

    Internal length 6 inches

    Realistic Butts

    THRUST Pro Mini Andi Super Ribbed Pocket Ass

    THRUST Pro Mini Andi Super Ribbed Pocket Ass

    Doc Johnson Balls Deep Extra Long Ass Male Masturbator

    Doc Johnson Balls Deep Extra Long Ass Male Masturbator

    THRUST Pro Elite Sophia Realistic Vagina and Ass

    THRUST Pro Elite Sophia Realistic Vagina and Ass

    Great for trying out anal sleeves for the first time.

    Great for extra-strong suction.

    Great for an authentic anal sex feel.

    Entrance width 0.5 inches

    Entrance width 0.5 inches

    Entrance width 0.25 inches

    Internal length 5 inches

    Internal length 9 inches

    Internal length 6.5 inches

    Male Vibrators

    Lovehoney O Force 2 Dual Motor Powerful Male Vibrator

    Lovehoney O Force 2 Dual Motor Powerful Male Vibrator

    TENGA Zero Flip Hole Rechargeable Vibrating Male Masturbator

    TENGA Zero Flip Hole Rechargeable Vibrating Male Masturbator

    Desire Luxury Rechargeable Male Vibrator

    Desire Luxury Rechargeable Male Vibrator

    Great for vibrations focused on the glans.

    Great for tight, textured canal with added vibrations.

    Great for all-around vibrations.

    Entrance width 2.5 inches

    Entrance width 0.5 inches

    Entrance width 2.25 inches

    Internal length 3 inches

    Internal length 6 inches

    Internal length 6 inches

    Brands

    TENGA Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup

    THRUST Pro Xtra Angel Realistic Vagina and Ass

    Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator

    TENGA

    THRUST

    Fleshlight

    Customer favourite: TENGA Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup

    Customer favourite: THRUST Pro Xtra Angel Realistic Vagina and Ass

    Customer favourite: Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator

    Great for innovative and stylish non-realistic male masturbators.

    Great for versatile, bullet vibrator-compatible realistic male masturbators.

    Great for deep canals and a wide variety of textures, with realistic and non-realistic designs.

    Cock Rings

    Cock rings are simple but effective sex toys: they restrict blood flow from the penis, which can lead to harder and longer-lasting erections. Some use cock rings around the shaft, while others use them on the balls – double cock rings can be used around both at the same time.

    Cock rings come in many different varieties, including but not limited to stretchy cock rings, vibrating cock rings, rabbit cock rings, and double cock rings. Many couples enjoy using cock rings together to extend their pleasure, but cock rings can also be used solo to prolong masturbation sessions and encourage more explosive orgasms.

    When you're putting on a cock ring, be sure to lube yourself and the inner part of the ring with lubricant – the product page will tell you what type of lube your cock ring is compatible with.

    Stretchy & Adjustable

    BASICS Comfort Stretchy Cock Ring

    BASICS Comfort Stretchy Cock Ring

    Tracey Cox EDGE Maximum Control Adjustable Stamina Ring

    Tracey Cox EDGE Maximum Control Adjustable Stamina Ring

    BASICS Donut Stretchy Cock Ring

    BASICS Donut Stretchy Cock Ring

    Great for people who have never used a cock ring before.

    Great for precision sizing on sensitive skin.

    Great for super-comfortable erection enhancement.

    Minimum diameter 0.75 inches

    Minimum diameter 0.5 inches

    Minimum diameter 0.5 inches

    Maximum diameter 2.5 inches

    Maximum diameter 8.5 inches

    Maximum diameter 4 inches

    Vibrating & Rabbit

    Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring

    Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring

    BASICS Vibrating Waterproof Cock Ring

    BASICS Vibrating Waterproof Cock Ring

    Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Vibrating Love Ring

    Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Vibrating Love Ring

    Great for super clit stimulation during intercourse.

    Great for exploring vibrations in the bath or shower.

    Great for paired vibration enjoyment.

    Minimum diameter 1 inch

    Minimum diameter 0.75 inches

    Minimum diameter 1.25 inches

    Maximum diameter 4 inches

    Maximum diameter 3.5 inches

    Maximum diameter 4 inches

    Sets

    Lovehoney Get Hard Extra Thick Silicone Cock Ring Set (3 Pack)

    Lovehoney Get Hard Extra Thick Silicone Cock Ring Set (3 Pack)

    BASICS Donut Cock Ring Multipack (3 Count)

    BASICS Donut Cock Ring Multipack (3 Count)

    Doc Johnson Adjustable Silicone Cock Ring Set (2 Pack)

    Doc Johnson Adjustable Silicone Cock Ring Set (2 Pack)

    Great for finding the best size for you.

    Great for trying out multi-ring setups.

    Great for multiple adjustable options.

    Minimum diameter 1.2 inches

    Minimum diameter 0.5 inches

    Minimum diameter 1 inches

    Maximum diameter 4 inches

    Maximum diameter 2 inches

    Maximum diameter 2 inches

    Love Dolls

    Also known as blow up dolls, these as-large-as-life toys give you the chance to try out new sexual positions before enjoying them with a playmate. They can feature vaginal, anal, and oral entrances, and some include vibrators for added stimulation.

    Love dolls usually made of vinyl, silicone, or real-feel material, with soft, textured entrances to enhance the realism of your experience. If you're looking for a new playmate or thinking of adding a third player to fun with your partner, why not try out a love doll?

    It's important to use plenty of water-based lubricant when playing with love dolls to preserve their special material. After play, be sure to clean thoroughly with sex toy cleaner, and dust any realistic feeling material with renewer powder to preserve it.

    Blow-Up Dolls

    Leticia Realistic Vagina and Ass Vibrating Inflatable Sex Doll

    Leticia Realistic Vagina and Ass Vibrating Inflatable Sex Doll

    Pipedream Extreme Dollz Allie McSqueal Life-Size Love Doll

    Pipedream Extreme Dollz Allie McSqueal Life-Size Love Doll

    Hannah Harper Realistic Vagina and Ass Inflatable Sex Doll

    Hannah Harper Realistic Vagina and Ass Inflatable Sex Doll

    Great for enjoying realistic play with a doll.

    Great for first time love doll users.

    Great for an easy clean-up experience afterwards.

    Silicone & Real Material Dolls

    THRUST Pro Elite Alicia Realistic Vagina, Ass and Tits Masturbator

    THRUST Pro Elite Alicia Realistic Vagina, Ass and Tits Masturbator

    Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll

    Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll

    THRUST Pro Elite Alana Ribbed Vagina and Ass Mega Masturbator

    THRUST Pro Elite Alana Ribbed Vagina and Ass Mega Masturbator

    Great for super-realistic play with a doll.

    Great for anal penetration adventures.

    Great for tight canals in an authentic rump.


    Ball Toys

    Don't forget about the balls! The testes and perineum are full of nerve endings and can really add pleasure to play when stimulated.

    Many anal toys also stimulate the perineum – just look for ribbing or texture on the external part of the toy.

    When you're using ball toys, be sure to lube yourself and the toy with lubricant – the product page will tell you what type of lube your toy is compatible with.

    Ball Bags & Stretchers

    Colt Pure Silicone Stretchy Weighted Cock Ring

    Colt Pure Silicone Stretchy Weighted Cock Ring

    Bad Kitty Adjustable Cock Ring with Ball Bag

    Bad Kitty Adjustable Cock Ring with Ball Bag

    Adjustable Weighted Silicone Ball Stretcher 87g

    Adjustable Weighted Silicone Ball Stretcher 87g

    Great for easing into to tugging sensations.

    Great for adding vibrations right on the scrotum.

    Great for adjustable ball weighting and stretching.

    Minimum diameter 1.75 inches

    Minimum diameter 1.5 inches

    Minimum diameter 2 inches

    Maximum diameter 2 inches

    Maximum diameter 6 inches

    Maximum diameter 2.5 inches

    Cock & Ball Rings

    Lovehoney Double Ring Stretchy Silicone Cock and Ball Ring

    Lovehoney Double Ring Stretchy Silicone Cock and Ball Ring

    Bondage Boutique T-Style Cock Ring with Ball Divider

    Bondage Boutique T-Style Cock Ring with Ball Divider

    Oxballs UNIT-X Stretchy Cock and Ball Sleeve

    Oxballs UNIT-X Stretchy Cock and Ball Sleeve

    Great for gentle constriction with a focus on comfort.

    Great for firm stimulation with two different sizes

    Great for super stretchy versatility with two ways to wear.

    Minimum diameter 1 inch

    Minimum diameter 2 inches

    Minimum diameter 1.75 inches

    Maximum diameter 2.5 inches

    Maximum diameter 2.5 inches

    Maximum diameter 2.5 inches


    Butt Toys

    Rounding out your pleasure places is the anus. Full of nerve-endings and featuring the extra-stimulating prostate gland or P-spot, the anus is a great place to explore by yourself or with a partner.

    When starting out with anal play, make sure to take your time to become fully aroused before you put any toys inside you – being aroused helps your muscles to relax, which in turn makes toys easier to insert.

    One of the primary concerns with anal play is safety. You'll be happy to know that anal play is safe provided the toy has a flared, looped, or T-bar base and plenty of anal lubricant is used to ease entry.

    Anal Beads & Dildos

    Lovehoney Classic Silicone Anal Beads 10 Inch

    Lovehoney Classic Silicone Anal Beads 10 Inch

    Lovehoney Get Started Beginner's Anal Kit (4 Piece)

    Lovehoney Get Started Beginner's Anal Kit (4 Piece)

    Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 5 Inch

    Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 5 Inch

    Great for newcomers to bead insertion, with graduated sizing for ease and comfort.

    Great for working your way into anal play.

    Great for first-timers looking to stimulate the P-spot.

    Maximum circumference 3.75 inches

    Start with the smooth non-vibrating butt plug.

    Maximum circumference 3 inches

    Insertable length 10 inches

    Then try the vibrating toys and anal probe.

    Insertable length 5 inches

    Butt Plugs

    Butt plugs are unobtrusive toys to add to play with a partner, or can be used during solo sessions for enhanced sensations. Once inserted, butt plugs deliver a full feeling that's hard to match.

    Butt plugs come in a variety of materials, like skin safe rubber, silicone, and metal, and can be vibrating or non-vibrating. It's best to start out with smaller plugs if you're unsure about sizes – you can always work your way up.

    Lovehoney Butt Tingler 10 Function Vibrating Butt Plug 3.5 Inch

    Lovehoney Butt Tingler 10 Function Vibrating Butt Plug 3.5 Inch

    Lovehoney Jeweled Metal Beginner's Butt Plug 2.5 Inch

    Lovehoney Jeweled Metal Beginner's Butt Plug 2.5 Inch

    Lovehoney Booty Buddy Silicone Butt Plug

    Lovehoney Booty Buddy Silicone Butt Plug

    Great for sleek insertion with optional vibrations.

    Great for trying out weighted or temperature play with the perfect shape for beginners to insertion.

    Great for smooth insertion that matches your body's curves.

    Maximum circumference 3.5 inches

    Maximum circumference 3.75 inches

    Maximum circumference 2.75 inches

    Insertable length 3.5 inches

    Insertable length 2.5 inches

    Insertable length 4 inches

    Prostate Massagers

    Prostate massagers are the male equivalent of G-spot vibrators and dildos, designed to find and stimulate the prostate gland. A highly pleasurable bundle of the nerves, the prostate is often referred to as the male G-spot, and stimulating it may lead to deep, full-body orgasms.

    P-spot toys can be vibrating or non-vibrating and generally featured an angled tip to stimulate the ellusive gland. A bigger tip may make the P-spot easier to find, but we have a great guide to using prostate massagers if you're having trouble.

    Lovehoney P-Play Silicone Prostate Massager

    Lovehoney P-Play Silicone Prostate Massager

    Lovehoney Curve Cruiser 5 Function Vibrating Prostate Massager

    Lovehoney Curve Cruiser 5 Function Vibrating Prostate Massager

    Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Massager

    Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Massager

    Great for rigid P-spot stimulation.

    Great for using the bulbous tip to find your P-spot for the first time.

    Great for P-spot stimulation with vibrations.

    Maximum circumference 3.5 inches

    Maximum circumference 4 inches

    Maximum circumference 4 inches

    Insertable length 4 inches

    Insertable length 5 inches

    Insertable length 4 inches


    Other Erogenous Zones

    Of course, these are plenty of areas on the body that are open to stimulation. Everyone can benefit from a bullet vibrator, whether it's inserted into toys or run around sensitive spots – just be sure not to insert them anally, as they don't have a flared or looped base for anal safety.

    Nipple Suckers & Clamps

    Lovehoney Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers

    Lovehoney Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers

    BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps

    BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps

    BASICS Nipple Pump Set (6 Piece)

    BASICS Nipple Pump Set (6 Piece)

    Great for heightening nipple sensitivity.

    Great for tugging nipples to attention.

    Great for swelling your nipples and keeping them erect with rings.

    Ticklers & Finger Vibes

    BASICS Finger Stimulators (2 Pack)

    BASICS Finger Stimulators (2 Pack)

    Lovehoney Oh! Feather Tickler

    Lovehoney Oh! Feather Tickler

    Fifty Shades of Grey Secret Touching Finger Ring Vibrator

    Fifty Shades of Grey Secret Touching Finger Ring Vibrator

    Great for teasing sensitive areas.

    Great for awakening nerve-endings.

    Great for stimulating vibrations to get yourself started.


    Better Sex

    Interested in having better sex as a couple? The following toys are mostly designed for people with penises, but both partners can benefit from their inclusion in the bedroom.

    Penis Extenders & Sleeves

    Lovehoney Mega Mighty 3 Extra Inches Clear Penis Extender with Ball Loop

    Lovehoney Mega Mighty 3 Extra Inches Clear Penis Extender with Ball Loop

    Lovehoney Twin Teasers Textured Penis Sleeves (2 Pack)

    Lovehoney Twin Teasers Textured Penis Sleeves (2 Pack)

    BASICS Vibrating Penis Sleeve with Clitoral Rabbit Vibrator

    BASICS Vibrating Penis Sleeve with Clitoral Rabbit Vibrator

    Great for adding up to three inches to your length.

    Great for exploring new textures duing penetrative sex.

    Great for first-time sleeve users wanting to add vibration.

    Maximum circumference 5.75 inches

    Maximum circumference 4.5 inches

    Maximum circumference 5.5 inches

    Insertable length 8.5 inches

    Insertable length 6 inches

    Insertable length 4.5 inches

    Strap-Ons

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On 8 Inch

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On 8 Inch

    Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 5 Inch Pegging Dildo

    Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 5 Inch Pegging Dildo

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow Strap-On 6 Inch

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow Strap-On 6 Inch

    Great for including vibrations in penetrative sex with your partner.

    Great for trying out pegging together.

    Great for adding length and girth to fun with your lover.

    Maximum circumference 6.25 inches

    Maximum circumference 3 inches

    Maximum circumference 6 inches

    Insertable length 4 inches

    Insertable length 4.5 inches

    Insertable length 6 inches

    Penis Pumps

    Check out our guide to using penis pumps before you try one for the first time. It's important to observe safety recommendations when using penis pumps; in particular, make sure to use the pump for no more than 20 minutes at a time. The penis should be allowed to return to normal before using the pump again.

    Tracey Cox EDGE Ultimate Performance Stamina Penis Pump

    Tracey Cox EDGE Ultimate Performance Stamina Penis Pump

    BASICS Textured Penis Pump

    BASICS Textured Penis Pump

    Lovehoney Pumped Up 7 Function Vibrating Penis Pump

    Lovehoney Pumped Up 7 Function Vibrating Penis Pump

    Great for newcomers to pumping, with instructions included.

    Great for finding out if penis pumping is for you.

    Great for incorporating vibrations in your pumping routine.

    Video Guide to Male Sex Toys

    Above: Still wondering? Watch our sex toy guide video with Sammi Cole to learn the differences between penis pumps, strokers, cock rings and more.


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