1. Squirting and Female Ejaculation: Every Question Answered

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    Squirting and Female Ejaculation: Every Question Answered

    Squirting – or female ejaculation – may have been around for centuries, but despite its history, the act of squirting still seems to be a bit of an enigma – and with mystery comes questions.

    So, if you’re ready to try your hand at squirting but want to get clued-up on the whats, whys and hows first, we’ve created this expert guide on everything you need to know about female ejaculation.


    What is Squirting?

    Female ejaculation – or squirting – is the involuntary release of fluid that many people with vaginas experience during sex or stimulation of the vulva.

    There are many different forms of squirting. Depending on the strength of your vaginal muscles and how long you’ve been aroused for, female ejaculation can be everything from a small dribble of fluid to explosive gushing. All are normal and all should be celebrated.


    What is Female Ejaculation Made of?

    One common question around squirting is ‘is female ejaculation urine?’ – the short answer is no.

    After many scientific studies, it has been confirmed that female ejaculate is made up of 90% prostatic fluid, 10% glucose and a small amount of urea. This is similar to male ejaculate, which has 0.5% urea.


    Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?

    The fluid produced as a result of vaginal ejaculation is secreted from the glands surrounding the G-spot, which are called the Skene’s glands.

    The fluid is similar to what's secreted by the male prostate when stimulated, which is why some people call the Skene’s glands 'the female prostate'.


    What Does Female Ejaculation Look Like?

    Female ejaculation is a whiteish color and is quite thick in texture – a bit like watered-down milk.


    What Does Female Ejaculation Feel Like?

    Everybody is different – some women will feel incredibly aroused when their G-spot is stimulated, and others might not get much pleasure from it at first. But many women find that the key to squirting is having your G-spot touched (although it is possible through clitoral stimulation, too), so the more practice you do and the more you get used to it, the better the sensations will become.

    The feeling of squirting can be very similar to that of urinating. This can make a lot of women anxious about trying it. To prevent this feeling, we'd recommend going for a pee before you try squirting – this way you can focus on the pleasure without the fear.


    What Does Female Ejaculation Smell Like?

    Female ejaculation doesn't smell like urine. The fluid secreted should be odourless.


    How to Squirt

    1. Relax

    Attempting to squirt is much more pleasurable when you’re going into it with a calm attitude and open mind, free from the stresses of the day.

    2. Clitoral stimulation

    Before you even get started, it's important to feel aroused. Stimulating your clitoris or even reaching clitoral orgasm is recommended to awaken your senses before going for the G-spot.

    3. Find your G-spot

    To find your G-spot, place a finger inside your vagina, against the vaginal wall, and hook your finger towards the front of your body.You should be able to feel a raised, textured area.

    female anatomy

    4. Stimulate your G-spot

    You can stimulate your G-spot using your fingers, your lover's penis, or a G-spot vibrator.


    How to Squirt With a Vibrator

    Once you've found the G-spot with your fingers, insert a vibrator – you can use lube to help – and start stimulating the G-spot with it using firm but not too rough movements. This will take some practice as you listen to your body and respond to the motions it likes best.

    We'd recommend firm metal, glass dildos and G-spot vibrators as they are curved in shape. The all-important Skene's glands respond best to a firm caress, so it's the less flexible toys that work better.

    If you start feeling like you need to pee, that just means it's working. Keep stimulating until you feel an intense sensation deep in your vagina; this will build to an orgasm. When you're close to climax, push out your PC muscles (pubococcygeal/pelvic floor muscles), which should relax the Skene's glands and result in female ejaculation.


    Best Vibrators for Squirting

    There are many vibrators, dildos and rabbits out there, but here are the best sex toys for squirting that we’d recommend.

    1. 1. Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo

       Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo

      Luxurious and lustrous, crafted from the smoothest stainless steel, this luxury dildo from Lovehoney has been designed to fulfil your every Desire.

      8 inches of intensely bulbed and carefully curved shaft are designed to deliver intimate internal massages.

      What they say:

      " Just perfect for my wife, being able to pinpoint the G-Spot easily resulted in her squirting extremely quickly. I think this has got to be our favourite so far. "

    2. 2. Desire Luxury Rechargeable Curved G-Spot Vibrator

      Desire Luxury Rechargeable Curved G-Spot Vibrator

      Let waves of pleasure ripple through your intimate canal with the Desire G-spot Vibrator.

      A heavenly curved creation crafted from soft silicone that offers sensuality and blissful sensations from its 8 vibration patterns and 12 levels of intensity.

      What they say:

      "I love the way the shape perfectly hits my G-spot! I haven't climaxed with a G-spot vibrator like this before! It's great for clitoral stimulation and then onto the G-spot! It definitely gets a 10 on the O factor every time!"

    3. 3. Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit

      Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

      Tailor-made orgasms are on hand with Greedy Girl, a G-spot rabbit vibrator that combines silky silicone with 36 possible vibration mode combinations.

      USB rechargeable and waterproof, with 2 powerful motors that deliver intense G-Spot massages and sensational blended orgasms.

      What they say:

      "With loads of different pulse and strength settings, we were able to start soft and slow and build up to full strength. I am a puddle every time now!"

    1. 4. Lovehoney Power Play Slimline G-Spot Vibrator

      Lovehoney Power Play Slimline G-Spot Vibrator

      Not all knights have shining armour; not all villains come clad in black.

      Tall, dark and powerful, the Power Play Vibrator cranes its considerable neck into a gentle angle, ripe for G-spot stimulation. Crank up the multi-speed vibes wiith a simple twist of the base, and go, go, go.

      What they say:

      " My OH loves to use this on me. I have had countless orgasms and even has been able to make me cum. And not just cum... squirt!"

    2. 5. Lovehoney Curved G-Spot Sensual Glass Dildo

      Lovehoney Curved G-Spot Sensual Glass Dildo

      Introduce this gorgeous glass dildo to your play times and your G-spot or P-spot will be sending your thank you cards for all eternity.

      Its form is silky smooth and specifically shaped to give both him and her the most satisfying of conclusions.

      What they say:

      "The slight curve of the shaft was hitting the right places and within about 20 minutes, I had squirted all over my bed... something I haven't managed to do on my own for some time."

    3. 6. Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant 250ml

      Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant 250ml

      Versatile and silky-smooth, Enjoy is the perfect partner for intimate play.

      A little squeeze of the water-based formula is all you need to introduce extra slippery, long-lasting pleasure to solo or intimate play with a sex toy or partner.

      What they say:

      " The bottle is easy to use and less messy than using tubes and always quick and easy to find in a cluttered bedside table. Works great for sex and definitely a must for when playing with the toys. "


    Sex Positions for Squirting

    You can achieve squirting during penetrative sex however many consider this a slightly more advanced technique. The following positions have been known to result in some possible squirting action.

    1. Doggy Style

    The angle achieved during Doggy Style is ideal for the stimulation that squirting requires.

    You can heighten the position by placing a pillow under your stomach and placing your front slightly forwards and down.

    doggie style sex position for squirting


    2. Girl on Top

    Leaning back slightly while you're on top will allow the penis to rub against the front wall of the vagina.

    This constant contact and stimulation of the G-spot creates the perfect squirting scenario.

    girl on top sex position for squirting


    3. Missionary

    Standard missionary alone might not be enough, but placing a couple of pillows under your butt with your feet flat on the bed and knees bent will position your vagina in a way that creates G-spot contact with the penis.

    For greater intensity, try pulling your legs up higher and spread them wider.

    For a more intense sensation, pull your legs up higher and spread them wider.

    missionary sex position for squirting


    Finally, Take the Pressure off

    Most people with vaginas are capable of producing fluid when their G-spot is stimulated properly, but if you can’t get it straight away, don’t worry. Instead of aiming solely for soaking bedsheets, focus your attention on the pleasure you’re feeling and then just see what happens!