Lie with your back against a wall, or in bed with your legs up and crossed. Squeezing your thighs together, reach your non-dominant hand down between your legs, and get down to business. Why? This position allows you to take your time and slowly build the intensity as your fingers tease and stroke your intimate areas. As your non-dominant hand won’t be as skilled when it comes to getting you to the finish line, this technique should delay orgasm, too.

Kneel on the bed or sofa and place two pillows in front of you side by side. Wedge your chosen toy between each of the pillows and lean forward slightly to position yourself against, or into, your toy. You can use your hands for support, holding on to the headboard or sofa cushions to keep a steady pace. Dependent on the toy of choice, you can gently (or passionately) rock, thrust, hump or rub until you gradually reach the ultimate climax. This is a great position for exploring self-pleasure with little or limited need for effort.

Stand comfortably in the bath, and brace one leg against the edge so it’s easy to spread your thighs apart (we also recommend investing in some anti-slip treads for your tub). If you have a shower cubicle and don’t have a sturdy ledge to use, bring a waterproof seat to give you the leverage you need. Once you’re in position, take your shower head in hand and aim the water towards your erogenous zones. The warm water provides a firm massage on your hotspots, while also flowing into erogenous areas you may not always consider, like the backs of your thighs. Plus, clean-up couldn’t be easier.

Stick your suction-cup dildo to a sturdy, flat surface. This could be the floor, a chair, or a mirror. Stand over it with your feet shoulder-width apart, then slowly lower yourself onto the dildo. If you find squatting difficult, rest your hands against a wall or a bed to keep your legs nice and balanced. Why? This squat-like position allows you to easily control the depth and speed of penetration, so you can spoil your sweet spots with sensational anal pleasure. With your hands free, you can stimulate your other erogenous zones, such as your nipples and genitals.

Sit next to each other and take hold of each other’s hands. Keep your eyes closed and touch your lover's body, listening to their responses and letting their reactions guide you. With your eyes closed, you and your partner can relax and focus on every touch and caress. Imagine your lover’s expressions and explore your inner fantasies. Holding hands can be a form of silent communication, as every squeeze and change in grip allows you to convey your desires. You can also subtly sync your movements to feel even more connected. This position also lends itself to inclusion of your favorite toys.