Jen Schwartz

Sexuality Writer

Sexual wellness and sexuality writer Jen Schwartz is the real-life Carrie Bradshaw, meaning she writes about sex for a living and makes admittedly questionable fashion choices.

Featured Articles from Jen

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Understanding Bisexuality

What it means to be bi+

When it comes to sexual orientations, a significant portion of representation, and therefore a more universal understanding, is given to straight, gay, and lesbian individuals (with the former orientation receiving far more attention than the latter two). This disproportionate portrayal of sexuality can leave other orientations (such as bisexuality) in society’s dust, contributing to a lack of awareness and acceptance.

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How to Use a Blindfold

How to go from mild to wild.

Kink things up a notch or two – we’ve got blindfold play ideas for every step of your journey. When it comes to bondage toys, blindfolds are a great entryway as they’re rather unintimidating. I mean, think about it – many of them resemble your standard sleep eye mask; not so scary, right? But don’t let their nonintimidating form fool you – blindfolds can make a powerful impact on sexual encounters.

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Sarah Tomchesson

Certified Sex Educator

Sarah Tomchesson advocates for sexual liberation through her work as a sex educator, sex toy evangelist, consent-forward artist, and podcast host. Sarah's passion for helping people connect to their authentic sexual expression is driven by a firm belief that when people experience and access pleasure in a meaningful way it improves their confidence and overall wellbeing. She brings an inclusive, informed and approachable teaching style to a range of topics, specializing in body literacy, embodied somatic techniques, kink, queer sexuality, and sex toys. Sarah is able to speak to all experience levels, sexualities, genders, kinks, and relationship statuses. Sarah's podcast, F*ck Yeah, disrupts traditional ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, the patriarchy, parenthood, and femininity and her online education program, Pleasure Practices, supports cultivating personal power through pleasure exploration. Sarah advocates for inclusion of comprehensive sex education curriculum in K-12 schools through her role as Vice Chair of the Board of Directors for SIECUS - Sex Ed for Social Change.

Javay Frye-Nekrasova

Masters of Education, Sex Education

Javay Frye-Nekrasova, also known as Javay da BAE, MEd, or The Millennial Sexpert, is a sex educator, content creator, pleasure professional, academic, and media personality. As a sex educator, her work focuses on comprehensive, inclusive, accessible sex education for all. Her areas of expertise are pleasure, communication, and sex toys. She is currently earning a PhD in Human Sexuality from the California Institute of Integral Studies in San Francisco, CA and a second PhD in Communication & Media Studies at the University of Oregon in Eugene, OR. Her research focuses on sex work, kink/BDSM, porn, and media’s influence on one’s understandings and beliefs about sexuality. Javay provides sex education via YouTube and Instagram her digital series In Bed With a Millennial.

Domina Doll

Sexuality Writer

Domina Doll (she/her) is a Passion, Pleasure, and Empowerment Expert who enjoys teaching women how to harness their sexual superpowers so they can embrace their feminine magic and live empowered lives. She believes women can cultivate their Shakti creative energy through self-love and pleasure embodiment practices using ancient Tantra and Taoist sexuality techniques.

As a sex writer, her work has been published in, Bustle, Kinkly, YourTango, SheKnows, Slutty Girl Problems, Thought Catalog, and Women's Health. She is the managing editor of, as well as the author of: "Jillin' Off: A Girl's Guide to Solo Sex". With a BFA in art, photography and filmmaking, and a BA in Women's Studies, Domina enjoys using her creativity in her work to both communicate with and educate adults about their pleasure potential.

Domina believes knowledge is POWER and is a lifelong learner. She has studied in a variety of holistic modalities including Kundalini, Reiki, Belly Dance, Qi Gong, Female Embodiment, Taoist Sexuality, Tantra, Magic and Metaphysics, Goddess Circles, and Sex Magic Manifesting. She is a graduate of Loveology University as a Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, and has been mentored under Dr. Ava Cadell.

She lives in Port Saxon, by the ocean with her dog Whiskey, her brood of hens, 1 rooster, and her life partner and soul mate. In her spare time she loves gardening, being in nature, feeding the deer, taking long baths and binge-watching Netflix.