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Sarah Tomchesson

Certified Sex Educator

Sarah Tomchesson advocates for sexual liberation through her work as a sex educator, sex toy evangelist, consent-forward artist, and podcast host. Sarah's passion for helping people connect to their authentic sexual expression is driven by a firm belief that when people experience and access pleasure in a meaningful way it improves their confidence and overall wellbeing. She brings an inclusive, informed and approachable teaching style to a range of topics, specializing in body literacy, embodied somatic techniques, kink, queer sexuality, and sex toys. Sarah is able to speak to all experience levels, sexualities, genders, kinks, and relationship statuses. Sarah's podcast, F*ck Yeah, disrupts traditional ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, the patriarchy, parenthood, and femininity and her online education program, Pleasure Practices, supports cultivating personal power through pleasure exploration. Sarah advocates for inclusion of comprehensive sex education curriculum in K-12 schools through her role as Vice Chair of the Board of Directors for SIECUS - Sex Ed for Social Change.


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