1. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)

      Average customer review 4.5 out of 5 stars16 reviews

      A perfect set of graduated dildo dilators for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you're brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time or are still a virgin, these five silicone protractors ease you in gently.


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      1. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)

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    1. Product Description

      A perfect set of graduated dildo dilators for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you're brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time or are still a virgin, these five silicone protractors ease you in gently.

      Each dildo is tapered and curved for smooth, easy insertion that's comfortable and offers gentle expansion with an oh-so tender touch. Designed as a training set to prepare your body for other internal pleasure, this kit takes you all the way from pinky-finger penetration right through to the size of a well-endowed erect penis.

      To get the most from your kit (whether using for vaginal or anal exploration) we recommend applying plenty of water-based lubricant to the toy and yourself and slowly teasing the entrance of your chosen orifice with the tip. Apply gentle pressure and allow your body to gradually accept as much length as you feel comfortable inserting.

      Stick to mastering one dilator at a time, and only move onto the next step once you're 100% happy and comfortable using the step you're on.

      Although these are safe for anal exploration, we don't recommend wearing them as butt plugs due to their non-flared base. Always keep a secure grip on the finger loop when inserting anally.

      As well as the above, these dildos are perfect for women with medical conditions which require dilation, and post-op male-to-female gender realignment dilation.


      Dilator #1: 3 inch insertable length, 1.5 inch circumference

      Dilator #2: 3.75 inch insertable length, 2.5 inch circumference

      Dilator #3: 4.75 inch insertable length, 2.9 inch circumference

      Dilator #4: 5.5 inch insertable length, 3.5 inch circumference

      Dilator #5: 6.5 inch insertable length, 4.25 inch circumference

      Key Features:

      • A set of 5 dildos for progressing internal massage play
      • Range from petite (3 inch length x 1.5 inch girth) to large (6.5 inch length x 4.25 inch girth)
      • Tapered and curved for easy, comfortable insertion
      • Perfect for advancing vaginal and anal exploration
      • Made from premium silicone for hypoallergenic use
      • Sturdy finger loop enables seamless control at all times
      • A percentage of each sale goes to the "Living Beyond Cancer" charity
    1. How it measures up

      • Base type: Finger Loop
      • Circumference: 4.25 inches
      • Insertable Length: 6.5 inches
      • Length: 8.5 inches
    2. How it feels

      • Contains latex: No
      • Contains phthalates: No
      • Flexibility: Firm
      • Material: Silicone
      • Waterproof: Submersible
    3. Essential info

      • Harness Compatible: No
      • Has balls: No

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    1. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)

      A brilliant set of graduated dildo dilators for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you are brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time or are still a virgin, these five silicone protractors ease you in smoothly.

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    1. Customer Reviews

      Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece) 16 4.5 out of 5 stars 4.5 out of 5

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    1. Incredible product

      Reviewed: July 11, 2019 by deb1991, a Gay Going Steady Female

      Like many others, I bought this set to help with painful penetration. I didn't use it much at first, but then I got a partner and some of the things both she and I would like to do to me are unfortunately too painful/intimidating.

      I've only used the first 3 in the set but I'm already so happy with the results! I went from the second to third smallest one pretty quickly and I was actually stunned at how easily it went in.

      Make sure you use plenty of lube (too much is better than too little) and give yourself plenty of time to lie back and relax into it. I would slowly push it in and out for maybe 20 mins after which it was almost unnoticeable.

      Definitely a good investment!

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Easy insertion, not intimidating, nice feel.
      Bottom line
      A must-have for someone worried about penetration.
    3. 4 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Unintimidating and perfect for people experiencing anxiety around penetration

      Reviewed: March 13, 2019 by Leafy0, a Straight Single Female

      I purchased these after experiencing a lot of trouble trying to have penetrative sex for the first time. My partner's penis literally wouldn't go into my vagina, no matter how hard we tried, and even my partner just inserting a finger was very painful. (I later realised this is actually very common, so if you're in this position don't lose hope! Most likely, all you need to do is become comfortable with penetration on a smaller scale first).

      I decided to buy this set and am very very happy with it. The ring around the base is incredibly reassuring to hold onto and control (and you could slip a vibrator into it for added fun when you're feeling more confident!), and the tapered tip makes for easier gradual insertion. The dilators are solid and feel high quality, and the silicone is super soft and unintimidating. I found many other dilator kits online but they all looked oddly clinical compared to these, and also lacked the tapered tip. I had become quite scared of penetration by this point so these were a great unintimidating way to restart the process and 'warm up'. They also boosted my confidence by allowing me to track my progress by working up the sizes.

      How I used them (after painful first-time sex attempts).

      There are some great reviews left earlier which I used and found very helpful, so definitely give them a read! But here's my personal experience for helping with first-time penetration:

      1. I began by lying in my bed with a pillow under my butt so that my hips were slightly raised at an upward angle, and I spread my legs apart to a comfortable distance.

      2. Sometimes I'd stay in this position for a while just to get used to it (being naked, legs spread) and read a book or something, just to become calm and comfortable. I then used some handy material get turned on and, personally, I didn't touch my clit so that I'd crave stimulation no matter what kind - this is just something that worked for me, but might not for you! If it helps to touch your clit, do! Basically just do whatever you need to do to get comfortable, wet, and ready to begin (wetness isn't mandatory, but it physically helps with insertion and mentally will help you associate what you're doing with pleasure. For me, that was the end goal: less pain, more pleasure).

      3. I then took the smaller dilator and gently rubbed it over my body, not inserting it, just getting comfortable with it.

      4. I then lubed up the dilator (with Yes organic lube - make sure it's compatible with silicone!) and began to very very *very* slowly to insert it into my vagina. Remember, there is absolutely no hurry and you don't have to insert it any further than you're comfortable with. Personally, I found that I'd get a little bit in, it would hurt a little, and I'd panic a bit, so I'd hold it there and just take deep breaths. As I calmed down, my vagina would relax, the little bit of pain would ease, and I could slip a little more in. Remember that this is a process, and it's completely okay if you can't get the whole thing in during one sitting - I didn't at first! If you're taking it slowly, you will not feel too much pain.

      5. These were not very painful to insert, and in fact mostly painless, but at the time I was experiencing a lot of anxiety/panic around penetration. So the first few times I'd get a little in, then have to stop and cry - but crying actually helped me to release that pent-up anxiety and relax, so I'd try inserting the dilator again after and it would work. I'm saying that just so you know that it's okay and helpful if you need to stop and let feelings out. You probably won't experience this, but it's something I was surprised and honestly quite ashamed and frustrated by at the time. Just keep reminding yourself of your progress. :)

      6. Let the dilator sit inside your vagina for as long as you're comfortable with (I aimed for 10 minutes), even if you couldn't get it fully in. If you're feeling confident, you can twist it or move it in/out slowly, just get used to the sensation (this can also make you cum).

      7. Slowly remove the dilator, your vagina will probably naturally 'push' it out slowly. Personally, after finishing a session with a dilator, if I didn't already cum, I rubbed my clit to finish. It was important for me to associate the dilators with pleasure rather than a 'chore'.

      In conclusion from this very long TMI essay of a review, I'd recommend these. If you're comfortable with fingering, definitely try doing that first, since it's free (yay) and it's healthy for you to feel inside your vagina (so you can keep check of things in there!). But if you're unable to do this, these dilators are a great step for first-time penetration prep. I was finally able to have great sex after. The two largest dilators also work as 'regular' dildos for me now too, so I can continue to use them. :)

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Quality solid feel, soft outer material, tapered tip, ring base for control, quick discreet postage.
      Very expensive! Second and third dilators very close in size.
      Bottom line
      Unintimidating way to ease into penetration and become more comfortable.
    3. 16 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Cured

      Reviewed: January 27, 2019 by skoshgord, a Bisexual Going Steady Female

      Nothing to say other than: this has cured my vaginismus.

      I had been struggling with penetration even just from using fingers since forever. It was extremely painful for me with no pleasure whatsoever - now years later, after spending some time with this set, I can finally enjoy penetration and I couldn't be happier.

      100% worth the price.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Cured my vaginismus.
      Could've done with one more bigger sized dilator.
      Bottom line
    3. 5 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Feeling confident again

      Reviewed: January 8, 2019 by Sweet Little Teacup, a Bisexual Going Steady Female

      I've been suffering from vaginismus for a long time now and haven't been able to achieve fulfilling sex with my OH for so long and it's been so hard to deal with for us both.

      My doctor recommended that I try this and my partner was on board, in fact, he got me it as a Christmas gift to us both. I've only been using them for just over a week and am on the second to largest size already! My body is starting to remember how good sex felt and I'm so excited.

      These are literally life-changing for anyone suffering from the same condition that I am.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      All of it, the silicone is so delicate and the design is non-intimidating.
      Bottom line
      Life changing and confidence building.
    3. 2 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. A non-intimidating adventure

      Reviewed: December 14, 2018 by OwlFlight

      I found this a non-intimidating way to explore internal toy use for the first time.

      The graduated sizes were essential in my personal circumstances. I was surprised I could use the two smallest sizes easily and without any discomfort. I was even more surprised that with time, relaxation, lubricant, mind that I could progress to the next two sizes. The final size is still a little bit much of a challenge, but I can already see that working with this kit has made a difference.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Small starting size, smooth, silky, easy to clean, non-intimidating.
      Could have done with a couple more sizes.
      Bottom line
      Non-intimidating and useful.
    3. 2 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes