Position of the Week:

Let's Talk About...

Take your clothes off, sit on opposite ends of the couch and engage in a two-way masturbation conversation. Now, Let’s Talk About...

Position of the Week: Let's Talk About...


Position yourselves at either end of a couch, facing each other as you begin stimulating yourselves. Hold each other’s hand, try to maintain eye contact to heighten the excitement and discover what turns your partner on as you indulge in the ultimate mutual masturbation session.


Visually appealing, this position is perfect for couples who love watching each other masturbate. Sitting opposite each other with your legs open while you pleasure yourself can be one of the most sexually liberating things you can do. Plus, it’s super-hot to watch each other, and can also be ideal for introducing toys into your play.


Your fingers may be absolute pros in your pleasure zones, but how about adding a little extra in the sensation stakes? A clitoral suction stimulator, wand massager or stroker introduces a fun dimension and could send your solo sessions straight to climax heaven. And if you feel a little self-conscious about being watched, try dimming or switching off the lights initially and you may find that you gain confidence with each session.

Make it even easier

If you use a mobility aid, this position is great for you, particularly if you have difficulties with balance or standing for too long. Just ensure you have plenty of water-based lubricant or water-based anal lubricant within reach and consider having extra pillows on hand if you need more support.

Make it even better

Invite your partner to get involved in your play with the addition of remote-control toys. A remote-control love egg, vibrating cock ring or vibrating butt plug allows you to add to the voyeuristic element of the Let’s Talk About... position. This is key to helping you learn what makes each other tick and is also an incredible turn-on.

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