Position of the Week:
Double Doggy

Fancy a fourth? Look no further than this magical gathering of lovers – and if you’re the sub in your pair, prepare to be ridden.

Why?

Doggy Style is one of the most popular sex positions, which means it’s a non-intimidating way to try group sex. Whether you're a quirky quad or four strangers, you all already know what you’re doing, so you can focus on making it feel sensational!

For the receivers in the room, you can get really close to each other and watch each other’s sweaty, sexy facial expressions while getting railed. The givers get a great view of the whole scene, and can even direct what’s going on if you like a kinky power dynamic.

Make it even easier

Having sex in front of not one but two people might feel a bit overwhelming at first (even if you’ve preplanned everything). For anyone who feels self-conscious or overstimulated, a blindfold can help you stay present (go for a sleep-mask style that’s easy to slip on or off).

If your receiver’s knees start to wobble from the intensity or if they have limited knee mobility, let them rest on a pile of cushions or a sex wedge for a little extra padding and comfort. A good positioning strap can also help you support their weight.

Make it even better

Who’s usually on top? Classic Doggy with a dong gets the job done, but a strap-on might open you up to pleasure you’ve never tried before.

You can switch up the power dynamics and let the giver become the receiver for once – or you can play with a size you wouldn’t normally experience (check out our hollow strap-ons).

If you’re a lover of stories about conquering kingdoms and riding dragons, swap out your usual dildo with a fantasy dildo. The curious shapes and textures give your regular moves a seductive new feeling.

Expert advice: In a foursome, it’s even more important to keep your gadgets clean. Ideally, you’d all bring your own toys to the party or cover each one with a condom before you play – it may not sound sexy, but neither do STIs!

Make it even kinkier

Signal to the other couple who’s in charge by using a ball gag to silence your sub. Some people love the thrill of being humiliated (with prior discussion and ongoing consent) in front of others. Grab a paddle and deliver sharp smacks to their behind while you chastise them.

Whenever spanking is involved, you can care for your sub by gently massaging the area after each thwack. This encourages blood flow, which can reduce bruising and prolong their stamina for play.

Before using a ball gag, agree a safe action that can’t be missed (like dropping a set of keys). That way you can all be in the moment, enjoying the sweet torment without going too far.

Not the position for you?

No matter who you love, or how you identify, we want you to feel represented on our website. That's why you'll see gay, lesbian, non-binary, and straight couples in our illustrations, and gender neutral language in the description of each position. If this position doesn't quite work for your relationship dynamic, check in next week – you may see something you like!