Position of the Week:
Two of Diamonds

Lie back and think of decadent things as we use a unique leg position to achieve some seriously intense G-spot or P-spot stimulation.

Why?

If you’re craving depth, this one delivers. The legs are open and relaxed, which can make deep penetration easier (just be sure to use plenty of lube). Plus, it works for vaginal or anal sex, depending what you’re into. The angle is intense, and very, very good.

As the giver, you’ll get a fantastic visual and a firm grip point, which means more control over pace and depth. Meanwhile, the receiving partner can easily caress their chest, clitoris, or penis, so you can layer sensations instead of relying on penetration alone.

Make it even easier

If you’re the receiver and your hips feel tight just imagining this position, try resting your knees on your lover’s thighs or a stack of pillows. This should help ease some of that strain. You could also try raising your lower back with pillows and wrapping your legs around the giver’s torso instead.

As the giver, you might find kneeling tough. If so, try standing at the edge of the bed instead. Bring your lover’s butt close to the edge of the mattress, raising their hips on pillows if needed, so you can still get that good angle.

Make it even better

You can deliver more targeted pleasure for your lover by thrusting your hips in a slightly upward motion. Stay with us here! Deep penetration can feel great, but you’ve got more chance of stroking the G-spot if you focus around two inches up on the front vaginal wall (i.e. towards the belly rather than the booty). Same goes for the P-spot; the prostate can be stimulated by pressing towards the belly around two inches inside the anus.

For receivers with a vulva, this position is basically an embossed invitation for clitoral play. Hold a suction toy against the clitoris and gradually up the intensity while your partner maintains a steady rhythm. The contrast between deep internal pressure and focused, pulsing suction is outrageous. It turns the position from “wow” to “oh my god don’t stop” in about thirty seconds flat.

Make it even kinkier

The Two of Diamonds begs for clitoral stimulation... but what if you forbid it? Bind the receiver with wrist to thigh restraints and tease them while you thrust.

With the tips of your fingers or the soft straps of a flogger, lightly stroke their inner thighs, getting ever closer but never reaching the vulva as you say, “I bet you really want me to touch your clit right now.” The anticipation can feel incredible, so let your lover beg.

This works for prostate play too; if you resist masturbation while stimulating the P-spot, this could help the receiver experience an elusive, yet explosive, prostate orgasm. It can be hard to master but, when it happens, it feels like intense waves of pleasure that just keep rolling...

Not the position for you?

No matter who you love, or how you identify, we want you to feel represented on our website. That's why you'll see gay, lesbian, non-binary, and straight couples in our illustrations, and gender neutral language in the description of each position. If this position doesn't quite work for your relationship dynamic, check in next week – you may see something you like!