Nothing quite compares to the feeling of oral sex… or does it?
With 77% of participants saying they experience sex dreams, it’s time to reveal what they actually mean.
So many things can influence our sexual preferences – a partner, a sex scene in a movie, a new sex trend that everyone’s trying – but how have our sexual preferences changed over time? And what will they be in future?
One big benefit of sapphic love is that statistically, lesbians have more orgasms than straight women. Obviously, the lack of country boy quitters in the game helps, plus there’s more focus on the clitoris. STILL, you might find yourself limited on lesbian sex positions, looking for a creative spark.
Maybe your long-term partnership needs a change-up from “you go down, she goes down, you fall asleep rewatching old episodes of Sailor Moon.” Or you’re new to lesbian sex (welcome!) and eager to learn. Whatever your pleasure, we're here to deliver. Below, you’ll find 11 lesbian sex positions to reach new climaxes (and enjoy the journey there).
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Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues.
Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with appearances on The Today Show, The Dr. Oz Show, and NPR.
He lectures frequently on topics related to sex and relationships, with recent presentations at New York University, Yale, Princeton and the Ackerman Institute.
Ian is the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First (Harper Collins), which is the best-selling sex advice book of the last decade and has been translated into more than a dozen languages.
In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and is also a member of the American Family Therapy Academy (AFTA).
Find out more about his work at iankerner.com.
Newton's third law of motion states that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
And while double-ended sex toys probably didn't play a role in Sir Isaac's extensive research, they are a prime example of classical mechanics in action (bet all this physics talk is getting you hot and bothered, isn't it?)
What many people don't realize is that toys with double penetration features aren't just for couples – they're perfect for solo play too.
Think about it. We've been blessed with multiple erogenous zones, so why not light them all up at the same time?
So whether you're riding solo or bringing in a pocket-sized guest star to your couple's play, here are five top-of-the-range sex toys that can double your fun.
Wands are fantastic for delivering super-intense pleasure to all your external hot spots. And, thanks to their incredibly powerful vibrations, they're great for giving sensational and soothing body massages.
But, did you know that wands can also work their magic with anal sex? That's right, wands have their place in your backdoor artillery.
Read on for the top tips on how to enhance anal foreplay and sex with a rumbly massage wand.
After a great session with our favourite bedroom appliance, the last thing we want to think about is cleaning. Luckily, cleaning your toy is actually really easy. It literally can take 30 seconds - and here's how!
Sex dolls are designed to closely match the shape and feel of a real person, making masturbation about as close to sexual intercourse as you can get.
This guide will show you how to instantly upgrade your experience by transforming your love doll with a few simple hacks.
Cowgirl, Missionary, 69—female on top sex positions can be equal parts thrilling and satisfying. Perhaps it’s the magic of climbing on top of your partner, or knowing you get to control the angle, depth, and rhythm of your ride.
Fact is, finding your way to the top can be fun. Whether you're unsure where to start or looking to spice things up, here are eight positions to try.
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Picture this – your new sex toy has finally arrived! You haven't stopped thinking about all the fun you're going to have ever since you clicked 'Add to Cart', and now you're ready to rip off the packaging and dive in headfirst.
No matter what kind of relationship you're in, if you have periods, the question of sex during your period has probably reared its head. It’s a love-hate situation for many, but period sex gets more of negative rap than positive, with many labelling it as ‘gross’ or ‘dirty’.
It’s normal to feel a bit squeamish or uncomfortable about sex during your period. After all, the combination of cramps, hormonal acne and bloating around that time of the month isn’t exactly a winning combination for feeling sexy. Many of us worry about the mess, too.
However, perceptions of what happens when you have sex on your period are far from the reality. You’d be surprised at just how little cleanup is needed, and it can even help reduce cramps and boost your mood!
In this blog, we’ll dive into why it’s good to have sex on your period, along with some top tips on how to have the best period sex possible, so you can make the most of your menses.
You on top, them on top, everyone on their sides... We've all got our go-to sex positions, but don't you find that sometimes, you'd like to try something a little more... unexpected?
Playing with handcuffs can be a hot, exciting, yet simple way to bring BDSM power dynamics to your sex life. And it’s much more common than you think! In fact, bondage is the third most popular type of bedroom accessory (after sex toys and lube) in Washington D.C., as you can see in our US Sex Map.
If you know you and your partner will love the thrill of a little lock-and-key, you’re in luck. Many of your go-to sex positions can be easily switched up with bondage gear. Here are some tips if you're looking to (safely) unlock all the possibilities of sex with handcuffs.
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We get so caught up in using our vibrators for solo play that we often forget to bring our sex toys to the party!
Vibrators are great for masturbating with, but they also have the ability to take sex with a partner from fun to phenomenal.
What's more, if you are someone who can't orgasm from internal stimulation alone (and believe us, you're not the only one!) then incorporating your favourite vibe into your sex life could be a game-changer.
Here are 7 of the best sex positions for adding in your vibrator – there are countless more but those are for you and your vibe to discover first-hand!
While missionary can be A-okay, sometimes you just want to mix it up a bit to keep things exciting. That’s where Reverse Cowgirl comes in, a woman on top position that is a sexy twist on the all-time favorite Cowgirl.
Contrary to popular belief, research shows that Gen Z is actually having less sex than previous generations. So what's causing this change in sexual behavior?
How do you feel about asking for what you want in bed? We surveyed 2,000 US adults to find out.
Harder. Tighter. Faster. Stronger. If these are qualities you'd like to add to your intercourse or orgasms, The Knot is the position for you.
In anticipation of Valentine's Day we asked some of our favorite sex experts to send a little bit of loving advice our way. Being the kind, loving and sexy people they are, they obliged and sent us some quick tips, inspirations and ideas to make things even hotter and sexier this year.
Many thanks to our contirubtors for their thoughtful advice, which may just inspire you to try something new and exciting. Looking for an idea to change up your routine this Valentine's Day? These pros have got some ideas for you, and they don't have to cost a thing! You might even find a way to make some money if you're exhibitionist side comes out.
We'd love for you to share your thoughts and insights in the comments below and join the conversation with us on twitter @lovehoney_com
Happy Valentine's Day to all of you, no matter whether you're single, coupled or in a more complicated situation - you deserve love and sexual happiness!
Sex toys are not just for the V. There are so many amazing toys on the market, specifically designed to treat your (or your lover's) meat.
If you're on the hunt for a gift your partner will love, look no further. We've compiled a list of 6 of our best-selling male sex toys. From strokers to butt plugs, we've got them all.
No matter your budget, we've got the perfect toy for your boy.
The Babe Bendover is a strap-on sex position perfect for those looking to add a touch of power play into their usual antics. Not only can you achieve incredibly deep penetration, but the giver gets one heck of a VIP view all-session-long.
The G-spot may be the most talked and least understood part of female anatomy. Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg is credited with discovering this erogenous zone in the 1940s (hence the name G-spot), but he probably wasn’t the first. Indian scripts from the 11th century mention something similar.
In the decades (or centuries) since, countless people have gone on quests to find their own. The G-spot may be tricky to locate, but the intense orgasms can be worth it.
Whether you’re finding it for the first time ever or the first time this week, here are the six best positions to hit your G-spot – with tips for making each one even better!
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Happy (almost) 4th of July, everyone!
We recently asked you to complete our Sexy Summer Survey, and you came out in your droves to tell us all the details of your fun in the sun. Well the results are in, and they speak for themselves!
It won't come as any surprise that as a nation, we love celebrating July 4th. It's also clear that we love sex too. But who knew we were so good at multi-tasking?!
That's right, something about this day must make us frisky, because a whopping 75% of us have had sex on July 4th, while a quarter of Americans have snuck off during 4th of July celebrations for a quickie with their partners!
We're delighted the US as a nation is so patriotic and happy to get down and dirty for our good country. But the revelations don't stop there! Read on for more of the shocking results…