The Lovehoney Guide to Sex Toys for Men

Discover the wide range of sex toys that are specifically designed for people with penises.

Sex toys truly are for anyone who wants one. Whether you’re a proud owner of a vulva or a penis, your perfect adult toy is waiting to be discovered.

While sex toys used to be synonymous with female pleasure, this is no longer the case. Now, men are exploring the joys of adult toys and experiencing enhanced masturbation and sexual satisfaction.

So, what sex toys are out there for men and people with penises? Loads! There are many different types, shapes and sizes - it all depends on where you would like to stimulate and how. If you’re not sure where to start, this guide will help you find the right male sex toy for you.

Why Use a Male Sex Toy?

D’uh - ‘cuz it’s fun as hell. But, there are surprising benefits to using male sex toys:

  • Strokers can help with training yourself to last longer in bed
  • Cock rings can potentially make your stiffy stronger and last longer
  • Prostate massagers tune you into the joys of P-spot stimulation
  • Vibrating male sex toys may intensify your orgasms

The Different Types of Male Sex Toys

Whether you’re looking for something to use with a partner, to help enhance the size of your Old Fella, or to have the best solo session of your life, Lovehoney has got you covered. We've broken down our bucketload selection of toys into the main categories, so all you have to do is choose a product and explore further.

Time to venture down below deck, boys.

Male Masturbators


A male masturbator - also referred to as a stroker or stroker sleeve - is a great place to start if you’re a newbie to the world of male sex toys. Sporting a non-realistic appearance, you'll never feel too intimidated to envelop your donger in these slippery sensations.

Male masturbators are fairly basic but they pack a wallop and are great value for money. They're also easy to clean, only needing warm water and sex toy cleaner to freshen up after use.

While sleeves are perfect for levelling up your solo play, couples can also use the toy to boost sensations and suspense during foreplay. Simply use these toys (and many others) with a water-based lubricant to make sure everything stays smooth and slippery downstairs.

Start with: Lovehoney Head Master Double Texture Blow Job Stroker

Read more: How to Use a Male Masturbator

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Pocket Pussies & Realistic Vaginas


Unlike the non-realistic male masturbators, these sex toys are designed to look and feel just like the real thing.

Pocket pussies are handheld toys that deliver the same lifelike sensations as real love ovens. With no vibrations or complicated accessories, pocket pussies are simple but very effective. Beginner male sex toy users love ‘em to bits.

If you're looking to enhance the real-life rhythms further, realistic vagina male sex toys can offer even more benefits than pocket pussies. With lifelike shapes, sensual internal textures and hand-painted details, a realistic vagina provides a totally natural feel during solo play.

Start with: THRUST Pro Mini Ella Realistic Pocket Pussy

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The Fleshlight is one of the most highly recognizable male sex toys around. They come with a discreet case and a removable sleeve that produces ultra-realistic sensations.

These honeys are built with a patented real-feel SuperSkin material that feels like heaven on your wang. They offer a choice of openings - anus, vagina, mouth, and non-anatomical - and textured inserts to vary the love tunnel feel, so you can see why Fleshlights are popular.

Start with: Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator

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TENGA Strokers


Whereas the Fleshlight is a realistic male sex toy, anything TENGA makes is better than real!

Available in this category are the TENGA Onacups, Eggs and Flip Hole - a fabulous range of masturbators with something for everyone. Ranging in price from super affordable to a luxury treat, TENGA products come in sleek packaging and are unique in both looks and sensations.

Start with: TENGA Egg Lovers Heart Textured Male Masturbator

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Male Vibrators


Why should people with vaginas get to have all the fun that cums with vibrators? Male vibrators level the erotic playing field and give dong owners the same thrills.

These male sex toys offer the latest in sex toy tech to stimulate you in new and exciting ways that your hand alone just can't deliver.

There are tons of types to choose from, including vibrating sheaths that fit over your peen, and premium toys you whack your wang into that do all the work for you.

Start with: Blowmotion Warming Rechargeable Vibrating Male Masturbator

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Prostate Massagers


The prostate gland is a hidden gem tucked up inside the male pelvis. It’s packed with nerves that feel sensational when stimulated.

By using a prostate massager, you can reach this divine area via the bum hole. Some fellas report incredible full-body orgasms and climaxing from prostate play alone. OMG, you must try it.

Start with: Lovehoney High Roller Remote Control Rotating Prostate Massager

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Penis Pumps


Penis pumps can help guys with erection issues, and when used regularly may give a long-lasting increase to your size. The suction action engorges your joystick with blood, which feels great.

It can be used prior to boinking, and your shaft should maintain its extra length and girth while you get down to the mattress mambo.

Start with: Tracey Cox EDGE Ultimate Performance Stamina Penis Pump

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Penis Extenders


These male sex toys are fun to try if you want to be hung like a horse. You may be unhappy with your current John Thomas size or maybe you just want to try something a little bit different.

No doubt, a penis extender is a cost-effective way to change up your length and girth. Simply slip one over your peen, secure it in place and give your partner the ride of their life.

Start with: Lovehoney Mega Thick 2 Extra Inches Penis Extender with Ball Loop

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Cock Rings


Designed to gently trap blood in the penis once you have achieved an erection, cock rings are available in many different materials, sizes and shapes.

A c-ring can improve the firmness of the penis and may also help increase your stamina.

Cock rings can be used during sex to enhance both your and your partner's enjoyment, or you can slip one on before using a penis pump for a potentially longer-lasting erection.

Start with: Lovehoney Get Hard Extra Thick Silicone Cock Ring Set

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Vibrating Cock Rings


Vibrating cock rings provide the same benefits as non-vibrating ones, but with added oomph. These male sex toys also provide you with sensational vibrations that you and your flame can both enjoy.

You can also attach a vibrating cock ring to your fav stroker for additional thrills. Or grab it in hand and apply it to your lover’s hot spots for more fun and games.

Start with: Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Cock Ring

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Ball Toys


Why let your penis steal the show when you could add tantalizing testes play and amplify satisfaction ten-fold? Ball stretchers, dividers, and separators are a great way to give your sac the stimulation it's been secretly craving.

Ball stretching makes your boys even more sensitive to the touch, increasing opportunities for pleasure (or pain, if that’s your thing). Testicle toys can also prolong and intensify your orgasm - pretty sac-sational, right?!

Start with: Oxballs Squeeze 2-Inch Ball Stretcher

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Urethral Sounds


Did you know your pee hole can be a point of eroticism? If you didn’t before, now you do! Penis plugs and sounding rods penetrate the urethra, providing a uniquely titillating sensory experience.

Penis owners can achieve prolonged hard-ons, heightened sensitivity, and stronger Os by using urethral toys. If you’re ready to arouse nerves oft unexplored, sounding rods and penis plugs can open up a whole new world of saucy excitement.

Start with: Master Series Silicone Urethral Sound Set

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Anal Toys


Though the prostate is a VIP in anal play for penis owners, P-spot massagers are hardly the only way for your booty to get its rocks off. Butt plugs and anal beads, regardless of whether their design centers around the prostate, can produce ass-tounding sensations for penis owners.

From fullness to stretching and even rimming simulation, you can find an abundance of anal delights through anal plugs and beads. And, yes, they can stimulate the prostate, too!

Start with: Lovehoney Get Started Beginner’s Anal Kit

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Cock Cages


If your cock craves kink, you may enjoy the raunchy restriction cock cages bring to the table. Cock cages are chastity devices that house flaccid penises, preventing them from obtaining a full erection.

Most penis cages come with a lock so wearers can hand the key, and erotic control, over to a dominant partner for BDSM power play.

Start with: CB-6000S Short Male Chastity Cage Kit

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Nipple Toys


It’s not just boobs that can benefit from nipple play - if you have nipples, there’s a good chance they’ll enjoy a bit (or a bunch) of stimulation! Nipple clamps and suckers increase blood flow to your nips, thereby enhancing their sensitivity once removed.

Nipple suckers are gentler than clamps, making them a better option for first-timers. Nipple clamps offer more intensity, the severity of which users can customize thanks to their adjustable design.

Start with: Lovehoney Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers

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