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Discover the intimate pleasure of strap-on play with the help of strap-on harness and dildo kits at Lovehoney. Our dildo harness kits for men and women give you everything you need to get started with strap-on sex or pegging.

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What is a Dildo Harness?

A dildo harness (otherwise known as a pegging harness) is a strap-on harness that is specifically designed to be worn during pegging and strap-on play between couples for arousing penetration and pleasure.

A strapon harness can be used by anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and come in various sizes and materials for the ultimate comfort. A pegging harness is used in female-to-male penetrative anal sex to stimulate his prostate for the ultimate in male orgasms.

New to strap-ons? No problem! Read our Beginner’s Guide to strap-ons or find out How to Use a strap-on Dildo.

Types of Strap-On Harness

There are many styles of strap-on harnesses to choose from, so it is important to get the best one to suit your specific needs.

The two basic types of strap-on dildo harness styles are:

The dildo harness
The strapless strap-on

Let’s break that down.

The strap-on dildo harness consists of two separate parts: the harness and the dildo. Often, they can be bought together as strap-on kits, but are also sold individually so you can mix and match to your unique style.

The Basic Harness for Strap-On Play

The basic style of strap-on harness is adjustable and fits around the waist (like a dildo holster). It features an O-ring in the front that holds the dildo against a padded material which acts like a shock absorber on the pubic bone for comfortable penetration. This style often has jock strap leg bindings that help keep the harness in place and stabilise it while leaving the wearer's intimate areas exposed for easy access. Most basic strapon harnesses come with interchangeable O-rings so you can wear different sized dildos.

Not sure which dildo goes best with which strap-on? Hey, we got you covered with our Strap-On Harness Compatible Dildos and O-Rings Guide.

Double Penetration Strap-Ons

These saucy double penetration strap-ons are used for penetrating both the vagina and anus at the same time for dual pleasure and blended orgasms. They come in two different styles:

1. Cock and Ball Ring Style: This style works using twin cock and ball rings that fit at the base of the penis and around the balls to secure the toy during use. The compression rings help enhance erections for rock-hard penetration and long-lasting staying power. The extra dildo is attached below the penis, providing double-penetration play for your partner.

2. Double Dildo Style: This type is designed more for vulva-owners and features two dildos in one toy which are compatible with most basic strap-on harnesses.

Hollow Strap-Ons

Hollow strap-ons are a style of strap-on harness for men. The dildo part is like a penis extension that fits over the penis, whether soft or hard, for never-ending erections. This allows men to maintain stiffness and continue enjoying sexual penetration with their partner, regardless of their physical performance. Hollow strap-ons help men with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation issues, as well as extending girth and length of their penis size.

Learn more about How to Use a Hollow strap-on.

Vibrating Strap-Ons

Many strap-on dildos feature a vibrating component for extra pleasure and sensation, both for the wearer and the partner being penetrated.

Strapless Strap-Ons

These innovative style of strap-ons are worn by vulva-owners. They feature one bulb that nestles snuggling inside the vagina, with the dildo appentange free to peg or penetrate their partner with. The exciting thing about strapless dildos is that they give the wearer extra stimulation internally as they wield their faux-penis and often feature vibration as well.

Dildo Harnesses Materials

Dildo harnesses come in a variety of evocative materials including the leather strap-on harness, faux leather or pleather, as well as polyester style, cotton briefs and harnesses with soft velvety inner linings. Most harnesses are machine-washable for ease of care after use, but make sure to follow manufacturer’s guidelines when caring for your new dildo harness.

Strap-On Harness Underwear

A popular type of harness is strap-on harness underwear style, which is worn just like a pair of briefs. These are very fashionable in styles like boy shorts, boxers and even lace overlay cotton-spandex blends, making them soft and stretchy, and super comfortable to wear.

Pegging Harness Kits

The pegging harness kit features a basic dildo-style harness with accessory dildo or dildos, depending on which kit you buy. Most pegging kits come with smaller-sized dildos - perfect for your first-time pegging experience. Other kits come with up to three different-sized dildos so you can work your way up as your partner gets used to anal play and a bit more adventurous.

If you are new to pegging, we recommend reading our Beginner’s Guide to Pegging for women who want to try it out with their partner, or Pegging: The Easy Guide to Anal Sex for Men, for guys who are curious about exploring anal and prostate play with your love honeys! If you are pegging prolific, then check out our Pegging Sex Positions Guide for new exciting positions to try out.

Strap-on harnesses are truly innovative toys and versatile to suit your every need, purpose, body type, personality, and style, giving you ultimate confidence when it comes to sexy play with your lover.

How to Use a Harness Strap-On?

Our strap-on harnesses come with a hole or an O-ring to slot your dildo into. Attach the dildo to your harness and adjust it to fit comfortably.

Next, get pumping and let the harness hit your desired G-spot or P-spot for toe-curling pleasure.

Your best experience will come down to the right speed, thrust and position that suits your needs.

Video: How to Use a Harness Strap-On Dildo

Watch our resident Sexpert, Sammy Cole, show you how to use a harness strap-on dildo with this handy video.

Strap-On Harness Guides

Strap-ons are fun for both the wearer and receiver, fulfilling your steamiest fantasies. Not matter what your fetish, Lovehoney carries a diverse selection of strap-on sex toys to suit your every whim. If you’re looking to delve into the world of strap-on dildos but need a bit more guidance to help you get started, our Sexpert guides have you covered.

How to Use a Vac-U-Lock Strap-On Dildo Harness

Beginner’s Guide to Strap-Ons

Top 10 Best Strap-ons

How to Choose a Strap-On Harness