Written by Jen Schwartz, Lovehoney Editorial Team, 03/01/2023.

The 10 Best Prostate Massagers for Prostate-tastic Os

The human body is a glorious thing, hosting a wealth of erogenous zones just waiting for you to explore them. When speaking of hot spots for penis owners, it’s hard to ignore the power of the P-spot. Relatively small yet brimming with opportunities for pleasure, the prostate is more than deserving of gifts made especially for it. And when we say ‘gifts,’ we’re referring to prostate massagers, of course.

Read on to learn more about the prostate and determine the best prostate massagers for your P-spot’s preferences.

What Is a Prostate Massager?

Prostate massagers do exactly what their name suggests: massage the prostate! Sure, you could do the ‘ol reach around and diddle your prostate digitally, but that’s hardly an effortless task. Keeping your arm extended and twisted behind you will lead to cramping (and once you’re in prostate heaven, trust you won’t soon want to leave). Prostate toys boast easy-reach lengths (in the case of prostate vibrators, dildos, and wands) and ergonomically shaped toys (in the case of P-spot anal plugs) that directly target the area.

And, sure, your partner could manually milk your prostate, but finding and stimulating a spot you can’t visually locate is no easy feat. A prostate toy, on the other hand, can win a game of “Where’s Waldo?” in record time (with Waldo being your P-spot, in this instance). Prostate stimulators feature the right curves, angles, and shapes to not only find the P-spot but give it the moan-inducing attention it deserves. A finger, unfortunately, simply can’t compete.

So if you’re looking to experience the best prostate massage ever, you’ll want a prostate massager by your (or your partner’s) side.

What Is the Purpose of the Prostate?

The prostate gland’s primary purpose is to produce a fluid that, when mixed with sperm cells and other glandular fluids, produces semen. While testicles and penises get most of the street cred in penis owners’ baby-making game, the prostate is an equally important part of the reproductive system.

Why Do People Enjoy Prostate Play?

Though the prostate’s functional role is to produce fluid, it can also produce a buttload of pleasure. Work hard, play hard, right? Put simply, people enjoy prostate play because it feels good. Like, really good. In fact, some penis owners can climax from prostate stimulation alone. That’s right; an orgasm for penis owners that doesn’t actually involve the penis! The P-spot is a pretty magical place if you ask us.

How to Find the Prostate

You’ll want to prep your prostate search by applying a healthy serving (read: generous) of lubricant to one or two fingers (however many fingers you plan to search with). Once your digits are slick, insert them into your anus and casually feel around your rectal walls, noting the texture.

Retract your fingers and apply more lube (more lube is always better, especially when the booty is involved). Reinsert your fingers, this time curling them towards your anterior rectal wall. The prostate should be around two inches from your opening. You’ll know you’ve located the P-spot because the texture is noticeably different than the rest of your rectal tissue.

Listen to a more detailed explainer on locating the prostate in the “How To Find Your Prostate” video portion of our prostate play guide.

How to Choose a Prostate Massager

The best way to choose a prostate massager that doesn’t disappoint is to consider what you and your body are into. What type of stimulation gets you off? If you enjoy rumbly sensations, try out a vibrating prostate massager. Do you require big booty stretching to reach your peak? Then go for a large prostate toy! The world is truly your P-spot’s oyster.

With so many prostate toys on the market, making a purchasing decision may feel overwhelming. Shopping for sex toys is sort of like shopping for a new car. With so many makes, models, and features available, how do you choose?

With a little help from your friends at Lovehoney is how. That’s why we’re breaking down the best prostate toys by category. No need for you and your prostate to thank us; we just want to see you both happy.

The 10 Best Prostate Massagers

It’s impossible to crown a single toy as the best prostate massager since everyone has different tastes. Such is the spice of life (and sex). Though it’s true that the best prostate toy is in the eye of the butt-holder, there are some standout male prostate toys in each category. Scroll till you find your favorite flavor for the chef’s recommendations on each menu.

Best Vibrating Prostate Toys

If you’re already a prostate massager convert (or want to start with la crème de la P-spot crème), then it’s time to join the vibration nation and get yourself a vibrating prostate massager. Any well-designed prostate stimulator will locate and delight your P-spot, but when you add vibration? Make sure you’re seated 'cause you’ll soon be seeing stars.

Get your vibe on with these top-tier vibrating prostate toys:

Lovehoney High Roller

Lovehoney High Roller Remote Control Rotating Prostate Massager

If you know you like prostate play and vibrations, you’re gonna go with a vibrating prostate massager; that’s a given. But what if I told you you could get more from your prostate vibrator than vibrations? The Lovehoney High Roller features a rotating head that rubs your hot spot while delivering the rumble you crave. Rotation + vibration = intense stimulation, and that’s a mathematical fact (full disclosure: not actually a mathematical fact). Additionally, the toy’s textured base protrudes upwards, putting pressure (and sending good vibes) to your perineum. Ready to roll the dice? The High Roller has 3 speeds and 7 patterns to land on. Pursuers of P-spot pleasure can control the prostate vibrator through the toy’s base or via the included remote control. Lovehoney’s High Roller is also IPX7 waterproof, so feel free to press play on oceans of fun.

What customers say: "It really is amazing the vibrations paired with the rotating head are like nothing I had experienced before."

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Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator

Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator

The ultra-sleek Mantric is a sight to behold that your bum will love holding. The prostate massager’s sizeable rounded head delivers P-spot delights while its textured base stimulates the perineum. The Mantric offers 7 vibration modes to choose from, which you can operate via the toy’s base or futuristic-looking wireless remote control. Speaking of futuristic, the Mantric’s base hosts a color-changing LED panel that helps you keep track of your favorite vibration modes.

What customers say: "Probably one of the best orgasms I've ever had is with this toy - pure pleasure. I've stopped using my other toys because this one hits the spot so well."

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Best Remote-Controlled Prostate Massagers

The benefits of remote-controlled prostate play are aplenty. For solo P-spot parties, a remote control makes switching between modes almost effortless. Want to bring your partner into the mix? Hand over the reins (i.e., remote) of your prostate massage toy and say hellooooo to hands-free thrills.

We-Vibe Vector+

We-Vibe Vector+ App and Remote Controlled Rechargeable Prostate Massager

We-Vibe packs so many impressive features into this luxury vibrating prostate toy that it’s hard (heh) to know where to begin. But since this best prostate massager section focuses on remote controls, I guess I’ll start there. The We-Vibe Vector+ comes with an intuitive remote control, but users can also command the prostate toy via the free compatible app. The We-Vibe app works from worlds away, making it ideal for long-distance lovers. Or you could use the app in public for some sneaky exhibitionist fun. We-Vibe’s Vector+ is whisper-quiet, so only you, your partner (if you include one), and your P-spot will know what salacious sensations are taking place. Even remote and app aside, this prostate stimulator is impeccably designed. The ultra-powerful We-Vibe Vector+ hosts two strong motors, one in the shaft for P-spot stimulation and another in the base, so your perineum has something to buzz about. More than a rumbly powerhouse, the prostate massager offers vibration versatility with 6 patterns and 4 intensity levels to explore.

What customers say: "The vibrators in the toy provide a very powerful experience with tons of customization. There are [plenty] of different pattern options and if thats not [enough] the custom option are really easy to setup aswell. Ive never had a problem with the toy dying midsession and the app lets you know when your getting close to dead. Its also very easy to adjust the head to hit your p-spot."

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Lovehoney Body Rocker

Lovehoney Body Rocker 10 Function Remote Control P-Spot Vibrator

Will the Lovehoney Body Rocker easily find and stimulate your prostate with its deliciously curved head? Of course, it will. But there’s so much more to anal delights than the prostate, and the Body Rocker knows that. The prostate vibrator boasts a wavy shaft that pleasures other nerve-rich hot spots inside your booty while its base cradles and rumbles against your perineum. Lovehoney’s Body Rocker delivers 10 variations of vibration via a removable bullet vibrator, meaning you get two toys in one. Remove the bullet and use it on your partner or other pleasure points while using the Body Rocker as a non-vibrating prostate massager.

What customers say: "Wow. This was my first p-spot massager and oh god! I've never experienced anything like it. Once my partner grabbed hold of the remote it was game over. An amazing toy to introduce you to prostate play, perfect for solo sessions or to spice up time with your partner. The remote makes it so much easier to control but also makes it fun for your partner to adjust and make you squirm. Brilliant."

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Best Large Prostate Toy

Hitting your target is easy-peasy when you use a long, girthy arrow. Give your prostate some large love with an XL male prostate massager that delivers on stretch and fullness.

Tantus Silicone P-Spot Anal Vibrator

Tantus Silicone P-Spot Anal Vibrator 7.5 Inch

If you like ‘em thicc and long, the Tantus Silicone P-Spot Anal Vibrator is your perfect match. With 7.5 inches of insertable length and a 5.25-inch circumference, this bad boy can satisfy even the hungriest of holes. The prostate dildo features a hollow base and removable 2-speed bullet vibrator so you can play with or without vibrations. The Tantus Silicone P-Spot Anal Vibrator’s flat base is harness-compatible so that lovers can peg away to their hearts’ content.

What customers say: "The shape of this dildo is perfect. The large head is magic on your prostate. The ridge in the middle may not look like much but it's such a pleasurable sensation on every thrust. It almost feels like it's twisting into you, in a good way! [. . .] When it comes to pegging nothing else comes close to the pleasure the Tantus P Spot delivers. I have consistent sheet gripping, full body hands free orgasms with this toy."

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Best Low-Cost Prostate Massager

No need for your prostate and wallet to be enemies; Lovehoney specializes in crafting reasonably priced sex toys without sacrificing quality.

Lovehoney Colorplay Color-Changing Silicone Butt Plug

Lovehoney Colorplay Color-Changing Silicone Butt Plug

Pretty and petite at a price that’s hard to beat, the Lovehoney Colorplay is the perfect introductory prostate massage toy. Non-vibrating with a slim silicone form, the Colorplay is unintimidating but certainly not lacking in stimulation. Curved to find and please the P-spot with ease, Lovehoney’s Colorplay boasts a flexible body that moves with yours for comfortable wear. The male prostate massager also features a T-bar base to keep it in place while simultaneously giving your perineum a little love. Better yet, the color-changing prostate stimulator has a unique ass-thetic appeal. Watch this booty beauty transform from black to teal as it (and you) heat up.

What customers say: "Bought this for my partner, he loves it! [He s]ometimes has trouble cumming due to his meds but never has a problem with this bad boy in place! Good size for beginners and the shape means even avid butt players will be stimulated. The colour changing is so cute and adds a fun level to before and after ;)"

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Best Aneros Prostate Massagers

To publish a round-up of the best prostate toys and not give Aneros a special shout-out would almost be irresponsible. Prostate massagers are the sole focus of Aneros’s designs, so you best believe the manufacturer knows it's (butt)stuff.

Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Aneros Helix Syn Trident Silicone Prostate Massager

If you think a sex toy needs a motor to be ultra-stimulating, you must not have met the Aneros Helix Syn Trident. The self-pivoting prostate massager is ergonomically designed to utilize your body’s movement to apply pressure precisely where you want it. With its bulbous head, rippled shaft, and innovative P-tab base, the Helix Syn Trident stimulates four erogenous zones at once: the prostate, perineum, Kundalini spot [K-spot], and rectal walls. An updated version of Aneros’s award-winning Helix Syn prostate toy, the Helix Syn Trident outperforms its predecessor with a sinfully-soft hypoallergenic premium silicone coating.

What customers say: "This toy slides in easily and is comfortable to wear. Once you find a rhythm contracting your anal muscles, the toy finds and hits the prostate with ease. Once it does,it outperforms even a vibrator for me. When the pleasure train starts, your muscles start contracting spontaneously and for me they didn't stop tillI spontaneously came from anal stimulation alone... hands free! An absolutely amazing experience worth giving a go if you're looking for your next anal experience!"

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Aneros Vice 2

Aneros Vice 2 Silicone Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Massager

The Aneros Vice 2 is like the Aneros Helix Syn Trident on steroids, and we mean that in the most prostate-positive of ways. The vibrating prostate massager is similar in its ergonomic design, four hot spot stimulation zones, and velvety silicone, but it bests the Helix Syn Trident with killer vibration features. The Vice 2’s powerful dual motors operate at 4 speeds and a whopping 18 vibration patterns. As if 18 weren’t enough, Aneros went the extra mile with a “Joy Button” that lets users create a custom vibration pattern. It’s also worth noting that the remote-controlled Aneros Vice 2 is a bit girthier than the Helix Syn Trident, particularly in the prostate massager’s body.

What customers say: "I've tried off and on over the years to achieve sexual pleasure from prostate stimulation. No real success until now. Wow! This really is great. The first time I used it I stopped after five orgasms just to take a break and savor the pleasure washing through my body."

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Best Multifunctional Prostate Toys

Put on Miley Cyrus’s “Best of Both Worlds” and get ready to party with these multifunctional prostate toys.

Nexus Simul8

Nexus Simul8 Dual Motor Prostate Massager with Double Cock Ring

The Nexus Simul8 is essentially the lovechild of a seductively soft silicone cock and ball ring and a strong dual-motored vibrating prostate massager. And, yes, both parents have great genes. The prostate vibrator has 3 vibration speeds and patterns, adding up to 48 combination possibilities, as users can control the two motors independently. The 100% waterproof Nexus Simul8 also boasts a ribbed neck that provides both internal and external stimulation.

What customers say: "Ok so I love using cock rings and when I saw they made this cock/ball ring and prostate massager combo I had to give it a try. Used it for the first time the other day and holy cow this thing made me cum so hard! Every time I had the prostate massager pulse/go off inside me It would send continuous pulses of pleasure all the way up to the tip of my cock! Definitely would recommend!"

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His Prostate Training Kit

His Prostate Training Kit (4 piece)

Is it cheating to count a whole booty bundle as a multifunctional prostate toy? Possibly, but our goal isn’t to be rule followers; it’s to pump up your pleasure. This deluxe derrière kit features three male prostate toys in graduating sizes, making it perfect for prostate play newbies. His Prostate Training Kit comes with a slim anal plug, a beaded prostate probe, and a cock ring/butt plug combo toy. On top of all that, you’ll also get a bullet vibrator to add some buzz to your behind.

What customers say: "First off, for all anal beginners- this set will have you covered, you will experience at once the 4 of the 5 major components of anal play. However, as an advanced anal lover as myself, it is equally as enjoyable, and the fun never dies down.. [. . .] Safe to say the prostate was hit more times than I could count, and I achieved an immense amount of orgasms and ejaculation than usual."

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How We Choose Our Best Prostate Toys

Relevant Features

If you’re looking for a multifunctional prostate vibrator, we’re going to suggest a prostate vibrator that has multiple functions. And we’re going to make sure those functions are impressive. Our top priority is to help you find what you’re looking for, so we keep our decision-making process in choosing the best prostate massagers relatively simple. It doesn’t take a complicated equation to recommend sex toys effectively; just research, knowledge, and attention to detail.

Hot Sellers

While we’re not trying to get a sex toy popularity contest going, there is something to be said for P-spot massagers that please the masses. As such, we’ve prioritized best-selling prostate massagers in our round-up. We hope you love them just as much as those who have come (both literally and figuratively) before you.


Lovehoney believes that pleasure should be accessible to all, and part of accessibility means taking finances into account. While the included luxury prostate toys are certainly worth their price tag, not everyone can or wants to invest a certain amount of money into their sex toy arsenal. For this reason, it was important to us to have a wide-spanning price range in our chosen prostate stimulators.

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