Strap-Ons and Harnesses

A strap-on is a wearable dildo that can be used to penetrate a partner during sex. It's typically used during couple's play, including anal (i.e. pegging) and vaginal penetration. It can also be used for penis worship and size fantasy.

Anyone can use a strap-on, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. That's right, even if you have a penis already, there are some strap-ons you can wear.

Often, strap-ons work by attaching a dildo to your body using a harness.

But not always! Some strap-ons are held in place with an insertable arm that goes inside the giving partner's body. This is known as a strapless strap-on.

Strap-on harnesses usually have a circular opening known as an O-ring, which is where you attach the strap-on dildo. In fact, you can attach any dildo with a circular base, including suction cup dildos.

Once your strap-on is attached, you should apply a little water-based lube before you begin penetration. Lube keeps things slick and smooth for longer.

If you're new to strap-ons, it's a good idea to start with a Beginner's Strap-On Kit with a range of dildo sizes. These kits allow you to start with the smallest, smoothest dildos and work your way up.

Strap-on dildos are pretty versatile. You can choose between different sizes, colours, and textures, depending on what intrigues you the most. You can also choose between different harness types, ranging from adjustable harnesses to briefs.

- Realistic strap-on: True to life, these strap-ons can vary in size, shape, and skin-tone. Some have a straighter shaft or a curved tip. Some have extra girth or ultra detailed veining.

- Hollow strap-ons: For when you have a penis but your partner's a size lover.

- Vibrating strap-on: Some strap-ons vibrate from the base or shaft, while others come with a discreet pocket for you to insert your own bullet vibe.

- Strapless strap-ons: Designed to be snugly held inside the giving partner, using a soft, flexible arm. Strapless strap-ons tend to have a more luxury feel, like this Desire Dildo Vibrator.

- Double penetration: For anyone who loves that "full" feeling, these strap-ons can be worn over a real penis or another dildo! The Double Penetrator even comes with a vibrating cock ring for extra stimulation. It's one for the advanced players.