Female Ejaculation: How to Squirt in 5 Simple Steps
Yes, it's true: Women can ejaculate too! Many women are capable of ejaculating when stimulated properly, and we're here to help you learn how to squirt by yourself, with a G-spot vibrator, or with a partner.
While getting close to squirting, many women worry that what they're feeling is the urge to urinate. Contrary to rumors, female ejaculate is not pee, although some porn stars may fake it in that way. In fact, the urethra is closed off during orgasm. Leave that stress behind and get ready to make it wet!
For most women, ejaculation goes hand and hand with intense arousal and precise G-spot stimulation, but that's not the entire story. We've broken down the process into simple steps that should have you or your partner gushing in no time.
Read on to learn the tricks to female ejaculation in five simple steps:
All it takes is a bit of time and practice. In preparation for your wet and wild adventure, make sure that you drink lots of water so that you stay well-hydrated.
To ease any concerns that you might pee instead of squirt, it's a good idea to use the bathroom before you start to play. This way, when the intense feelings start to build you will know that it’s ok to let go without fear of peeing the bed.
If all goes as planned it will get wet, but not with urine. You might also want to place a towel or PVC sheet underneath you for easy clean up.
1. Get Turned On
To get started, it's important to feel intensely aroused. Read or watch something sexy, stimulate your other erogenous zones and build up by teasing your most sensitive areas.
It's great to build up to at least one clitoral orgasm before you even try to squirt. Orgasm enhancers like the balm pictured here also help to get your blood flowing.
Being relaxed and fully aroused makes it easier to find your G-spot, which will be expanding with fluid, and massage it to orgasm.
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2. Find Your G-spot
As I've already mentioned, in most incidences you need to stimulate your G-spot to ejaculate. Which means you need to find it first! Use a finger, your own or your partners, to penetrate the vagina and massage the front vaginal wall.
You should be able to feel a raised, textured area that feels a bit different than the surrounding area. Once you find that spot, wiggle your fingers firmly against it in a 'come hither' motion.
The G-spot varies from person to person, but they're usually spongy in texture, even though the size and pleasure capacity ranges.
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3. Stimulate Your G-spot
To stimulate your G-spot, you can use your own fingers, your partner's fingers, several different sex positions such as Doggie Style or Reverse Cowgirl, or a specially designed G-spot vibrator.
While some women will literally gush with pleasure when their G-spot is stimulated, others might not feel a difference at all, and some may find it uncomfortable.
As the pressure builds, the feeling can be overwhelming, but try not to tense up or stop yourself. If you want to give female ejaculation a try, you need to enjoy G-spot stimulation.
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4. Use Your PC Muscles
Strong PC muscles will help facilitate stronger orgasms and squirting. It should make finding your G-spot easier too.
Practice flexing your PC muscles with kegel exercises and try introducing kegel balls to make your muscles even stronger.
A gushing G-spot orgasm may take some time to achieve, but it's well worth the effort. Once you feel on the verge of an earth-shattering orgasm, push your PC muscles out - rather than clenching them in - to increase your chances of squirting.
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5. Don't Stop!
Don't stop stimulating the G-spot - and the clit if you like - until you feel that super intense sensation deep in your vagina.
As you continue to stimulate the G-spot and breathe through the intense feelings, the urge to pee will soon pass. It will be replaced by deeply satisfying sensations of release and mind blowing orgasms.
Squirting might not happen the first time you try, but if you really want to squirt and you enjoy G-spot stimulation, don't give up. You might not be ready yet, but it could happen when you least expect it.
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Female ejaculation and G-spot penetration can be really intense, pleasurable, and satisfying for everyone involved. I hope these tips have worked for you! Let us know in the comments and remember to enjoy the journey just as much as the destination.
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