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Grab your lovers and form a pleasure huddle. This threesome sex position puts one partner in the centre, their head turning as they dole out attention and leave their lovers guessing. Turn it into a game or go with the flow; either way there are plenty of opportunities for everyone to get involved.
How?
Before getting started, decide who's happy to do what and what's completely off the table. Once everyone knows the plan, it's time to start turning heads.
Standing partners, face one another and leave enough space between you. Kneeling partner, get settled between them and face the lover you want to start teasing first. You'll want to make sure you're close enough to comfortably reach either partner without awkwardly twisting or stretching your back.
Standing partners, you can move a little closer or adjust your stance until the kneeling partner can easily reach you both. When you're ready to swap, the kneeling partner can simply turn towards the other lover.
Expert tip: If you’re planning on using sex toys, keep each toy to one partner only – otherwise you’ll have to clean your toy thoroughly before using it on another body. You can use a fresh condom over a toy if you’re planning on sharing between partners.
Feel it together
Why?
Kneeling partner, being right in the middle allows you to easily switch between your lovers and even show off your oral and fingering skills. You can use your mouth on one partner, all while your hands tease the other, then swap whenever you feel like sharing the attention.
For the standing partners, you get plenty to do too. Facing each other offers some intimate eye contact, and you can kiss, touch and watch each other's reactions as one of you is pleasured by the kneeling partner. Plus, you still have a very tempting view of your third on the floor.
For those relatively new to threesomes, this position can be an easy one to start with, keeping all partners involved while letting one easily swap the focus and change up the roles. Just keep your movements slow and intentional, as this will help keep you all in the moment.
Make it even better
Nobody should have to wait their turn, so you could always try a wearable toy like a panty vibrator or the couple's toys from We-Vibe. Pick one that can be controlled by an app or remote so the standing partners can take control while the kneeling partner wears the toy.
See how long the kneeling partner can keep their focus on giving while slowly dialling up the intensity of the vibrations. You can turn this into a game where the kneeling partner has to kiss and suck more deeply the high the vibration intensity goes.
Make it even easier
Kneeling partner, your knees might be the first thing that shouts "time out!" on your fun. Slide a folded blanket or a pillow underneath for some extra padding.
For the other two, if standing for too long gets uncomfortable, one or both of you can sit on the edge of a bed or chair while the giver kneels in front. This'll take pressure off everyone's legs while keeping all three of you close enough to touch.
There's also no rule saying the same person must stay in the middle. You can always swap who's kneeling, standing or sitting whenever somebody needs a break.
Make it even kinkier
Standing partners, make sure the kneeler knows their place. Insist they ask permission before switching their focus between you. If they're taking too long on one partner, the neglected lover must demand attention with a playful slap on the backside. (Pick out a crop or cane with a long handle so you can punish them without lowering yourself to their level.)
Make your power dynamic even clearer with a collar and leash. Fasten it around the kneeling partner's neck and pass the leash between you. Whoever's holding it gets to decide who the kneeler pleasures and whether they've behaved enough to switch. Keep your hold on the lead firm but don't pull on their neck; let it be a symbol of control only and keep your partner safe from choking.
