This elevated on-your-knees oral sex position takes a familiar favourite to new heights... literally! It gives you room to experiment with new techniques when privacy and space are hard to come by – we're talking to you, students.
How?
Receiver, position yourself on your knees near the edge of a bed or a sturdy chair (not a swivel chair, please). Keep your back straight and keep your knees wide to maintain your balance.
Giver, get on your knees on the floor in front of your partner. From here, you can hold onto their hips or thighs to guide their pelvis closer to your face as you get to work with your lips and tongue.
For taking oral to new heights
Why?
This position works well in cramped spaces and doesn't require any squeaky-mattress thrusting, which is ideal if you've got housemates (just keep the moans to a minimum!).
Plus, with the receiver on a raised surface, the giver can focus attention on the perineum and balls (or labia) rather than rushing to the main event of the penis (or clitoris). This is particularly handy if you're practicing using your hands and mouth at the same time during oral – that dual stimulation can lead to breath-taking blended orgasms.
Make it even better
Ready for another oral lesson? Giver, focus your tongue on the frenulum (the sensitive area underneath the penis, just below the head). Circle or flick it with the tip of your tongue, while your hand strokes the shaft or cups the balls.
Using lots of lube, you can slide an open-ended penis stroker over the receiver’s lower shaft while your mouth focuses on the head. This adds extra texture without getting in the way of your tongue. Choosing a manual stroker keeps your play more discreet, with no motor or buzzing to give the game away.
Make it even easier
With both of you on your knees, you might start to experience some discomfort.
The receiver can move their hips forward or spread the knees even wider to align with the giver's mouth, helping the giver avoid a crooked neck while they lick, suck, and tease. Receiver, slide a folded blanket or pillow beneath them to add some extra padding.
Or if kneeling isn’t comfortable at all, switch things up. The receiver can sit on the edge of the bed or chair, while the giver uses a firm cushion or a stool in front. Make sure to focus on matching your heights so neither of you are hunching or straining to reach.
Make it even kinkier
Giver, you can take more control by telling the receiver to keep their hands to themselves. Wrist restraints behind their back will help enforce your rule. Once you’ve decided the pace, tease them with your tongue or hands, then pull away whenever they start getting a little too eager.
Or flip the power dynamic by slipping a blindfold over the giver's eyes while they stay on their knees. Without sight to guide them, they’ll have to rely on your moans, breathing and body movements to work out exactly what’s hitting the spot.