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We’re not going to ask if you’ve been naughty or nice this year – you're here, for starters! So, you may as well lean into your festive kinks, because you’ve already made it to The Naughty Lift...
How?
One partner lounges back on the bed, hips perched right at the edge, arms and legs wide like a beautiful snow angel.
The giving partner kneels or stands between their lover’s legs, finding the right height for penetration. With their legs opened up like a sexy advent calendar, the receiver has their hands totally free for self-touching or toy play.
Got a lover with a vulva? This is your sign to get them a clitoral suction toy, for reasons that will soon become clear... ooh, enticing!
Feel a little naughty but nice
Why?
This angle is a powerhouse for penetration. The kneeling partner gets a naturally strong thrusting stance that anchors their stability, while the reclining partner’s raised pelvis helps create those satisfyingly deep strokes.
Plus, with legs supported by the kneeler’s hands, it’s easy to adjust width, angle, and pace on the fly – perfect for unhindered masturbation and nipple squeezing. It’s a fully cooperative ride to a very, very good place.
Make it even easier
Choosing a surface that’s the right height – a chair, bed, firm ottoman, sofa – means the kneeling partner doesn’t have to crouch too low or strain too high.
As the giver, you might feel more stable when kneeling with one foot flat on the floor, knee bent in front of you. If holding the legs up is difficult, you can try the position with the receiver’s legs propped apart, feet flat and knees bent, for an adjusted version.
Make it even better
This position is built for clitoral suction toys. With the reclining partner’s legs elevated and open, there’s both room to manoeuvre and a good, taut spread of the vulva.
If you’re the receiver, lube up and place the suction head over the clitoris – start with a gentle level of intensity and let the air pulses begin to tease the clitoris. Suction toys are orgasm machines – literally! – so increase the intensity gradually as you get used to the sensation.
As you sync the sensation to your lover’s thrusting, feel the full-body sensation of internal and external pleasure. You could be on your way to a mind-blowing blended orgasm that’ll have you Ding Dong Merrily on High!
Not got your suction toy yet? Choose a high-quality suction toy with a removeable suction head made from body-safe silicone – like the Womanizer Classic 2. That way, your toy will feel super sensual and easy to clean.
Make it even kinkier
The giver is naturally in control here, showing strength and dominance as you hold the receiver’s legs open wide. Slip on a leather harness to feel your big-top-energy-I'm-in-charge vibe. The reclined partner can wear thigh-high stockings, or whatever slinky underwear helps embody the feeling of sensual abandon.
The right outfit really opens your mind up to fantasy and gives you the confidence to roleplay. You might surprise yourself by how much you get into it when you dress the part.
It doesn’t have to be all serious whips and leather, either. Explore your sexy santa daddy fantasy and have a giggle together as you dress up in Christmas costumes. There's that sexy festive cheer you’ve been looking for!
Not the position for you?
No matter who you love, or how you identify, we want you to feel represented on our website. That's why you'll see gay, lesbian, non-binary, and straight couples in our illustrations, and gender neutral language in the description of each position. If this position doesn't quite work for your relationship dynamic, check in next week – you may see something you like!
Lovehoney is a proud member of Stonewall's Diversity Champions programme.
Stonewall campaigns for the equality of lesbian, gay, bi, trans, queer, questioning and ace (LGBTQ+) people everywhere.