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      Average customer review 4.5 out of 5 stars4 reviews

      Are you and your partner ready to lose yourselves in unbridled passion and intimacy? Surrender to the blissful sensations offered by Desire's remote control vibrating strap-on kit, with 8 delicious patterns of waves and pulses and 12 levels of intensity.


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      1. Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit

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    1. Product Description

      Are you and your partner ready to lose yourselves in unbridled passion and intimacy? Surrender to the blissful sensations offered by Desire's remote control vibrating strap-on kit, with 8 delicious patterns of waves and pulses and 12 levels of intensity.

      Offering velvety glide alongside unrivalled sensuality and stimulation, the sleek, silken silicone shaft has been lovingly crafted for pleasure, comfort and internal gratification, while the remote controlled vibrations offer an exhilarating experience for both partners.

      To enjoy your strap-on kit to the fullest, apply plenty of water-based lubricant to the shaft before play begins.

      Your kit has been designed for effortlessly simple use. Use your vibrating dildo on its own for heavenly arousal, or pair it with the luxury harness to add a thrilling new dimension to your lovemaking.

      Store your kit in the toy case provided, away from dust, heat and direct sunlight. A small opening in the back of the case can fit the width of the USB cable for discreet charging.

      Please note: While the harness, dildo and bullet are waterproof, the remote control should be kept out of water.

      Desire is a collection of luxurious sex toys expertly designed by Lovehoney with only one thing in mind: ultimate sexual happiness.

      Key Features:

      • Luxurious harness kit with 7 inch silicone dildo for strap-on and pegging play
      • Includes 3 interchangeable O-rings (1.25, 1.75 and 2.25 inches) to team with other dildos
      • Dildo features a hole in the base for the included bullet vibrator
      • Bullet vibrator features 12 speeds and 8 different patterns for a customizable pleasure session
      • USB rechargeable for worldwide use and eco-friendly play
      • Fully charge for 90 minutes for 60 minutes of playtime
      • Both the harness and dildo are waterproof (remote is not)
      • Smooth, silicone dildo is slightly curved for G-spot or P-spot stimulation
      • Comes with a luxurious storage case, in which the toy can be charged discreetly
    1. How it measures up

      • Base type: Flared with Suction
      • Circumference: 5.25 inches
      • Insertable Length: 7 inches
      • Oring diameter: 2.25 inches
    2. How it feels

      • Contains latex: No
      • Contains phthalates: No
      • Flexibility: Flexible
      • Material: Silicone
      • Texture: Smooth
      • Waterproof: Submersible
    3. Power and speed

      • Battery Info: 1 x CR2032 battery (included)
      • Controller Type: Wireless - push button
      • Power Type: Rechargeable
      • Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
    4. Essential info

      • Duration: 60 minutes
      • Harness Compatible: Yes
      • Has balls: No

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    1. Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit

      Are you and your partner ready to lose yourselves in unrestrained passion and intimacy? Surrender to the delightful sensations offered by Desire's remote control vibrating strap-on kit, with 8 delicious patterns of waves and pulses and 12 levels of intensity.

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    1. Customer Reviews

      Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit 4 4.5 out of 5 stars 4.5 out of 5

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    1. Everything you need

      Reviewed: October 30, 2017 by Lady Ness, a Bisexual Engaged Female

      The Lovehoney Desire Remote Vibrating Strap-on Kit is a luxury sex toy set ideal for strap-on play. Whether it’s for anal or vaginal use, the silicone dildo has a beautifully shaped shaft and tip for easy insertion. The high-powered bullet provided can be inserted into the dildo, and when not in use charged-up for your next session of play. This kit contains everything, from the optional bullet which can be used on its own, the adjustable strap-on harness, a high quality silicone dildo, to a selection of O-rings so you can use an alternative dildo of a different size if desired.

      The bullet used by its self is incredibly powerful as it offers intense rumbly vibrations. It’s very enjoyable when used clitorally and has lead to me experiencing powerful orgasms. Before using it in the dildo I recommend coating it in some lubricant as it can become stuck in the dildo’s hollow chamber otherwise.

      The bullet is great for teasing your partner before further play and can be used to tease around the anal opening allowing blood to flow to the area and expand your partner’s arousal, meaning that it’ll be easier for penetration later on. I personally have to say the bullet is on par if not better to the ones made by other companies (such as We-Vibe) when it comes to power.

      I’ve explored using the dildo on its own and have found the tip and curved shaft excellent for my G-spot. The flared base also means it’s easier to grip and makes it better for rhythmic thrusting, meaning climax can be achieved quicker than when using dildos, which are harder to hold.

      Wearing the strap-on is pretty easy. It has a selection of adjustable tension buckles which means you can adjust the straps to fit around your body perfectly. The straps are made for a softish neoprene, which I have only had an issue with when using the strap-on for longer sessions as they can rub slightly, mostly around the lower back, but for 30 minutes they are fine.

      The front is made up of fake leather. Whilst sturdy, it isn’t padded, so if you enjoy giving hard thrusts and regularly you may find your pubic mound becoming a tad bruised.

      The O-ring is secured with poppers which can be accessed without having to remove the device once one. They are a little stiff, but if anything this just shows that they will last.

      When using the strap-on set I’d say the dildo, whilst larger than some starter ones, would still be a good one for a beginner because of the way the shaft ergonomically curves and the smooth tip tappers is just perfect to slip into the contours of the human body. Also the silicone is very smooth and offers very little drag even when rubbed against dry skin. As the shaft is inserted deeper into the body it expands gently, meaning that even less experienced submissives were able to accommodate more anally than they had been able to previously.

      Once strapped-up I applied some-water based lubricant onto the dildos shaft and teased the tip around my submissive's anus. With my sub bent forward I slowly slipped the dildo into his body and slowly thrusted it back and forth, inserting more and more of the dildo into him step-by-step. With my submissive moaning with pleasure and asked him if the dildo was massaging his prostate. It was, so I pushed the remote control for the bullet on and continued to thrust rhythmically.

      I must admit I really like having a control for the bullet, as when trying to change the vibrations with the buttons actually on bullets when they are in a strap-on can ruin the moment as they’re often very trick to get to normally. This led to my submissive becoming highly aroused and in the moment. He was lost in a heady phase of pleasure, with groaning purring out of him as ‘thank you’s’ as thrusts massaged him deep within.

      Cleaning the strap-on is fairly easy. The dildo’s silicone is easy to wipe clean in soap water, and the bullet is waterproof so can be cleaned quickly too. The harness can be wiped down with a cloth and soapy water and will be dry pretty quickly.

      Overall, I really like this strap-on kit. The dildo is an excellent shape for anal and vaginal play. The bullet offers strong rumbly vibrations which not only do I enjoy but my male submissive's too, and fit-wise it’s pretty good. I would say whilst I enjoy it, I won’t be using the harness for particularly rough or extended sessions, but the dildo and bullet can easily be slotted into a slightly more comfortable harness.

    2. Overall Rating:
      10 out of 10 stars
      The dildos shape and silicone, remote, harness fit, rumbly bullet.
      Harness can be a little uncomfortable for very hard thrusting and long sessions.
      Bottom line
      A great kit, perfect for beginners to even more advanced players.
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    1. Hhhhmmm yes

      Reviewed: September 20, 2018 by LilBD, a Straight Going Steady Female

      One of the first nights my partner and I were together I asked him about any fantasies he may have, this was one of them. Yep, it scared me muchly, but willing to give it a go came directly to Lovehoney, I hadn’t even heard of the term pegging before.

      This is our second strap-on and I love it even more than the first. What I find surprising is the fact I like it, I enjoy it too, get an immense feeling of power and satisfaction too. Wear some kegel balls at the same time for even more sensation.

      This one's easy to wear, good to control and with the option of two size O-rings, great for when you’re ready to try something a bit bigger.

    2. Overall Rating:
      9 out of 10 stars
      Ease of wear.
      Can be difficult to get the vibrator out of the dildo.
      Bottom line
      Fun, quality, control, love the rechargeable bullet effect.
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    1. Hands down my favourite strap on

      Reviewed: June 3, 2018 by Beast Of Formalities, a Bisexual Going Steady Female

      Oh boy, let me tell you about this strap-on kit. For a couple fairly new to pegging, this was perfect for us.

      The harness is good quality, and when the straps are tightened that dildo is not going anywhere you don't want it to, trust me.

      The dildo itself is pretty large and girthy, my SO is fairly experienced in anal play yet found it a pleasurable challenge. It tapers out nicely, so should suit couples with a wide range of experience levels.

      The vibrator is pretty mad and sends sensations right throughout the dildo. It has a range of speeds and patterns, there's a lot to play around with. My SO managed to get a prostate orgasm when using this - exciting stuff.

      Having a wireless remote is fantastic, and it's very easy to use and sync with the vibrator. However, while the vibrator is rechargeable, the remote is not and requires some really odd looking batteries that I am not looking forward to finding replacements for. Very silly idea to have a rechargeable vibrator with a battery powered remote.

      The product as a whole looks like it's quality, and it comes with a really useful bag that has a hole you can charge the bullet through. Very neat.

      I bought this on sale and would really recommend it.

    2. Overall Rating:
      9 out of 10 stars
      Good vibrations and shape, secure harness, easy to use.
      Stupid remote batteries.
      Bottom line
      Excellent. Buy this.
    3. 2 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes