Position of the Week: Up Against It

by Chelle

on Apr 7, 2021

This position is great for a quickie and can be adapted with the use of a sex swing or a sturdy countertop.



Both partners stand with feet firmly on the shower mat. The receiving partner will lean forward and bend over, tilting their peachy cheeks upwards and out. The giving partner then enters from behind, anchoring the position in place by holding on to their partner’s hips and supporting the deep thrusting action.


The angle of this position allows for deep penetration of vulva or anus, making for a climactic experience through G-spot or P-spot stimulation. The standing partner can reach around with a free hand to arouse further erogenous zones, teasing and fondling their lover's breasts, nipples, penis or clitoris, making this position a mind-blowing pleasure fest.


Penis owners can enhance their erection and potentially delay climax with the help of a waterproof vibrating cock ring, meaning they can enjoy this session in the shower for even longer. Sensations are intensified as stimulating vibrations pulse down the shaft and buzz against their partner for orgasmic pleasure both can enjoy.

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Written by Chelle. Lovehoney Editorial Team
Chelle is a multi-published adult author who believes great sex starts with having the confidence to explore your fantasies in the bedroom.
A bondage and kink enthusiast, Chelle is also an advocate for BDSM education, and when she’s not writing blogs for Lovehoney, you'll find her planning for her next erotica novel.

Originally published on Apr 7, 2021. Updated on Aug 5, 2020