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Ready to back it up, baby? Dem bones need boning, and this bent over penetration position is perfect for some seasonal, spooky loving.
How?
You’ll both start standing, with the receiver bent over in front of the giver. If you’re the giver, get ready to penetrate your lover from behind; place your hands on their raised booty for a good grip.
As the receiver, you can grind and rub against your partner from your bent over position – or just let them thrust at their own pace. Keep your legs apart with a spreader bar if you wish, as this will up the intensity with just the right amount of sensual vulnerability.
Feel it in your bones
Why?
This position looks incredible (try it in front of a mirror to see just how incredible) and feels it too. The angle of penetration is deeper than standard Doggy Style, allowing for plenty of delicious G-spot and P-spot stimulation.
Adding a spreader bar keeps the legs naturally apart and creates tension in the receiver’s lower body, which can heighten the sensations of penetration. (And let’s be honest: the twerking motion is a sneaky bonus for your glutes while you’re at it.) Meanwhile, the giver will feel really powerful from this vantage point, with plenty of opportunities to slap that peachy butt.
Make it even easier
Your hamstrings might be tweaking just looking at The Boneshaker – fair enough! As the receiver, keep your knees very slightly bent to ease the strain. The wider you place your feet, the closer you’ll be to the floor, which might make it easier to bend over. That said, this position won’t feel stable for everyone. Try leaning on the back of a chair, countertop, or bed rather than bending all the way down – and you can always transition to Doggy after a few minutes.
Make it even better
Grab a clitoral vibrator or a stroker toy for some targeted pleasure while you’re getting your bones rattled! As the receiver, you can hold a toy with one hand while the other rests on the floor or against a wall, letting you experience blended pleasure from both internal and external stimulation.
Warming or tingling lubes add glide and extra heat, which can be an intriguing layer of sensation for any sex position. Silky silicone-based lube is great for letting you play with tempo, from slow and teasing to fast and frenzied, because it tends to last longer than water-based lube. Just keep it away from your silicone sex toys, as it may damage them.
Make it even kinkier
Put the receiving partner in nipple clamps for little jolts of sensation at every thrust. If your clamps come with a long chain or collar attached, the giving partner can even tweak and play with the tension during penetration.
Pair with playful spanks to heighten the tension and show the receiver who’s in control (with consent and an agreed safeword, of course!). You could also drip warm wax from a massage candle onto your partner’s back while they’re bent over and ready to receive. Just be sure it’s a candle designed for sensual play to avoid any accidental burns!
Not the position for you?
No matter who you love, or how you identify, we want you to feel represented on our website. That's why you'll see gay, lesbian, non-binary, and straight couples in our illustrations, and gender neutral language in the description of each position. If this position doesn't quite work for your relationship dynamic, check in next week – you may see something you like!
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