No room for usurpers here, this solo fantasy position puts you straight on the throne. Are we a little obsessed with HBO’s House of the Dragon? YES. Are you going to indulge us? Go on, it’s for the good of the realm!
How?
Grab your favorite suction cup dildo and stick it to a wall, aiming for crotch height.
Rub water-based lube all over your toy and your booty hole. Bend over and back up onto your dildo, sliding the tip inside you. Breathe for a minute while you relax and focus on the sensual, filled up feeling in your behind.
When you’re ready, let the dildo slide deeper. Use slow hip thrusts to grind against the toy or pulse your knees for a quicker rhythm.
Expert tip: Got a silicone dildo? Try gently heating it in a bowl of warm (not hot!) water before you play. The extra warmth can encourage arousal and feed into your fantasy.
Get all fired up
Why?
Exploring a fantasy on your own can feel totally freeing. You don’t need to answer to anyone else’s idea of sexy – plus you can explore dynamics you might feel too shy to ask for in the bedroom.
With a good fantasy sex toy, you get sensual textures to spark your imagination and make your whole body shiver with anticipation. When you combine that with the “taboo” of anal play, it can all get too thrilling to resist... and why should you?
It doesn’t matter how you identify, we all have a load of nerve endings in our butts. Your anal area is closely linked to your genitals, so anal play can feel amazing if you’re into it.
Make it even easier
Put your hands on your thighs and brace your core to maintain the bent over position without straining your back. If it’s easier, you can pull up a chair – sorry, throne – to give yourself something to lean on.
You might not be able to stand for long periods – or at all – so try kneeling or putting your dildo on a chair instead. A thrusting sex machine can take the pressure off if you’ve got restricted mobility or fatigue, as it does all the moving for you.
Make it even better
Whether you’re playing solo or with partner, penetration feels better when you’re already turned on. Before backing up onto your dildo, close your eyes and fire up your imagination.
Start touching yourself from your nipples to your butt cheeks, then gently stroke your penis or vulva as you imagine a hot, smoky scene. Bring realism to the scenario with a slick of warming lube to tease you from within. Just be sure it’s water-based so it doesn’t damage your toys.
If you’re having trouble getting your dildo to stick, clean the suction cup and the surface you want to stick to. Allow both to dry completely before you try again. A clean, soapy cloth will do the trick for your toy, but sex toy wipes are even quicker and easier.
Make it even kinkier
Leathers feel just as sexy to wear as they look on, and a regal dragon rider can’t be without. Treat yourself to some fetishwear to get in the right mindset and see what turns you on. It’s just a little fun for yourself – you deserve to feel this good!
Pick a harness with leather straps and shiny metal hardware that transports you astride your dragon (or chained up in its lair). Supple leather combined with cool, heavy chains can feel deliciously sensual on your skin. Imagine yourself taming the ferocious beast or succumbing to its terrifying power...