The Kneel & Squeal does what it says on the can – comfortably knelt and deeply felt, you’ll explore anal play in a steamy solo session.
How?
Kneeling with your butt resting on your heels, spread your cheeks slightly to gently push a lubed-up anal toy into your B-hole. Use your hands to move the butt plug or vibrating anal toy in slow circles – or slowly press it deeper using your heels.
Be sure to use a toy with a flared base or long handle, so it’s easy for you to keep hold of and remove.
Enhance this kneel & squeal position
Why?
Expect a blend of pressure, fullness, and that “oooh that’s new” feeling. It might feel weird at first, but weird doesn’t mean bad! Give your body a moment to adjust, breathe deeply, and keep your mind open.
Sometimes it’s the second or third try that unlocks the magic of anal play. So, try not to pressure yourself to go deep first time. Whether you just teased the edge or went full bootylicious, you explored something new – and that’s worth celebrating.
Make it even easier
Okay, prep time. Lube is your best friend – seriously, don’t skip it. The backdoor doesn’t self-lubricate like other parts of your body, so make sure to choose a nice, body-safe lube and be generous with it. Anal lube is thicker and lasts longer – think of it as your VIP pass to smooth, slippery fun.
If you’re nervous about trying anal, put a towel down. It’s highly unlikely that there’ll be any mess, but it’ll put your mind at ease. Plus, your toy could drop out at the moment of climax – once all that pleasurable muscle tensing happens – so a towel will catch all that dripping lube.
Make it even better
Anal play is best enjoyed as a side dish to your masturbation main course. You might even discover that just a little bit of anal pressure during a climax sends you soaring! Grab a vibrator or, if your hands are busy at the back, try humping a pillow to stimulate your clit or penis while you play with your anal toy.
The combo of masturbation and anal play can unlock a whole new level of mind-melting pleasure – especially if you’ve got a prostate. Everyone’s wired a little differently, so part of the fun is finding your unique sweet spots.
Make it even kinkier
Slide your hand down, feel the curve of your own ass, and give those cheeks a few teasing slaps – start light, just enough to get your skin tingling – then add a little sting. Let the sound echo in the room, sharp and delicious.
Whether it’s a naughty punishment or just a way to get your blood pumping, you’re in full control. Redden your skin, leave a handprint, savor the burn. Grab a spanker for when your hand gets tired. There’s something wickedly hot about being both the one who gives—and the one who takes.
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