Can dildos be used for both vaginal and anal play?

Dildos can be used for either vaginal or anal play, but you must avoid switching between the two in the same session. Try a <a href="https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/dildos/double-ended-dildos/">double ended dildo</a> to experience both sensations at the same time.

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Feel the supple skin, textured veins and ridges – or go for something non-realistic like a sensual glass dildo. From black dildos to colorful ones, lifelike or not, there’s something out there for everyone! Explore the huge range of sizes and body-safe materials, from high quality silicone to stainless steel.

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Shopping for dildo toys online

When you’re browsing for your new toy, there are a few things to consider:

How should it look? If lifelike penises don't turn you on, there are fun alternatives, like a bright pink dildo – or a beautiful scaly dragon!
Where is it going? Vibrating dildos with a bulbous head will expertly target your G-spot or prostate. If you’re tight or inexperienced, go for something slimmer.
How big is it? Check the length and girth before you checkout – especially if you’re playing with a harness. Remember anything you put in your butt will feel bigger than it looks!
Which material? The best dildos are made from non-porous materials like high-quality silicone – they're easy to clean and can be sterilized by boiling in water for three minutes.
Who’s the vendor? Your sexy little secret is safe with us! We use secure billing and discreet packaging as standard, to make sure you enjoy complete privacy.

5 most popular types of dildos

Here’s what to know about these best-selling sex toys:

Realistic dildos

Think flesh tones, lifelike heads, veins, and even balls. They’re soft, flexible, and come in a range of sizes. Look out for toys with a suction cup base – they’ll stick to almost any flat surface so you can ride away hands-free!

Anal dildos

While most dildos can be used for anal play, make sure it has a suction cup or flared base, to stop it from getting lost inside your body. Beginners should look out for anal dildos with five inches of insertable length and a circumference of four inches.

Large dildos

Anything above seven inches of insertable length is officially a large dildo - but you can find some over nine inches! Only experienced players should use a toy with a circumference of five inches or more. To prepare for larger toys, train yourself with butt plugs or anal beads in gradually increasing sizes.

Glass dildos

Hello smooth, sensual, and classy. Glass toys look incredible and feel even better. They’re naturally firmer and heavier than silicone toys, so go slow and use lube – you'll soon understand the hype!

Black dildos

Black dildos can be lifelike with soft skin and textured veins or smooth and non-realistic. You might prefer a thrusting dildo or one that’s almost supernaturally girthy... we’ve got the whole range.

How to use a dildo

Like most sex toys, dildos suitable for solo masturbation as well as partnered sex. They’re super easy to use, but here are some tips:

For vaginal play

Choose a G-spot dildo with curves and textures or a built-in vibe. Slide the lubed-up dildo over your clit and labia, teasing the vaginal opening. When you’re really aroused, insert the toy and rock your hips to find a good rhythm.

For anal play

If you're pegging someone, grab your strap-on dildo and slip it through the O-ring of your harness. It should be a snug fit. The receiver can lie on their back or get on all fours; whichever is most relaxed and comfortable.

Start with smaller toys first and go slow and get aroused before insertion. Always use anal lube, which is formulated to be thicker and longer lasting. Stop and remove the toy gently if there’s any pain.

Clean your toys right away after you’ve used them and avoid sharing toys with a partner unless you’re prepared to sterilize it between uses.

What are the best dildos?

Dildos come in all shapes and sizes. But which one will you choose? Let's take a look at the best of the best.

Frequently asked questions

Yes, beginners can use dildos! We’d recommend starting with a smaller toy, up to five inches in insertable length and four inches circumference. Find one that has a slot for a bullet vibe so you can try it with or without vibrations.

Dildos can be used for either vaginal or anal play, but you must avoid switching between the two in the same session. Try a double ended dildo to experience both sensations at the same time.

Dildos can be made from plastic, glass, or even metal. Look out for non-porous materials like ABS plastic, high quality silicone, borosilicate glass, or stainless steel. These are all body-safe and easy to clean.

Yes, you can use the same toy for different types of play, but you must clean your toy thoroughly between uses – especially if you’re going anal sex to vaginal sex. Using the same toy without cleaning it properly can spread bacteria and cause irritations or infections.

Water-based lubricant is safe to use with most sex toys and condoms. If you’re playing with silicone toys, avoid silicone-based lube as this will damage your toy over time.

To stay safe while using a dildo, make sure you’re aroused and relaxed before penetration and always use lube. It’s also best to read the instructions on your toy before you dive in. It’s like edging; with a bit of patience at the start, you’ll get even more pleasure in the end!

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