Gear up and get ready to summit! This rear-entry position is all about conquering the mountain and feeling like you're on top of the world.
How?
Partner one, get on your knees and lean onto your forearms. Partner two, kneel behind your lover. You're going to lift one leg over your partner's hip, resting your bent knee wherever it feels comfortable.
Slide a lubed-up penis or strap-on inside your partner and slowly thrust (while doing your best to stay balanced). You can gradually up the tempo as you both get into it.
Let the sensations climb with you
Why?
When you enter from behind, penetration can feel deep and passionate. Your cocked leg feels ultra dominant, and the views from the top? Sensational. You get to watch your partner's arched back and delicious cheeks as you take control.
But it doesn't have to be rough if that's not your thing. As the giver, you've got the option to move slowly, intentionally pressing into your lover's P-spot or G-spot while you stroke their back and tell them how good (or irresistibly hot) they are.
Make it even better
You don't need us to tell you this position needs heaps of lube, especially if you're doing anal. Ease into penetration by getting aroused first; you could try wearing a small butt plug while watching each other jack off and talking about how you can't wait for the next act.
Receiver, when you're in position, try keeping your knees close together and drop low onto your elbows. Pressing your thighs together will make penetration feel tighter, but it'll also help the giver position their bent knee outside your hip. You might even enjoy the sensation of your thighs pressing against your genitals (a masturbation technique called syntribation).
If syntribation isn't your thing, reach between your legs and use a stimulating gel like Slow Sex Finger Play Gel to pleasure yourself. If you've got a penis, you can thrust into a male masturbator while your lover takes care of your behind. Just be sure to slather yourself and the toy in lube first.
Make it even easier
Rear-entry positions can be tough on the receiver's lower back. If you're feeling the strain, try not to arch your back too much. Penetration won't feel as deep, but keeping your tail slightly tucked can ease tension in this area. Otherwise, put pillows or a sex wedge under your hips to rest on.
If you can't get the angle right, try the position on the couch. The receiver bends over the back, while the giver squats behind them. Giver, try it in a full squat or with one knee bent depending on your mobility.
Make it even kinkier
Receiver, decide whether you're in the mood to be submissive and let your lover set the pace. If not, you can push back against their hips with your butt and issue orders from below.
If all's been pre-agreed between you, the giver can grab onto the receiver's hair or put a hand over their mouth while thrusting for even more dominance. A ball gag will make the receiver's moans even more helpless and enticing. Pick one with nipple clamps attached for an extra little twinge with every thrust.
As always, remember to wind down from any kinky play with a bit of aftercare. You can cuddle, shower together, or get some space – whatever makes you both feel grounded after an intense experience.