Say hello to the Sexy Squat – a sizzling move that’s equal parts workout and wild ride. Perfect for couples who like to break a sweat in and out of the gym, this position blends intimacy with intensity in the best way.
How?
One partner lies on their back, knees pulled tight toward their chest. The other partner takes a squatting seat on their partner’s thighs, legs spread in a kneeling straddle, gripping onto those bent knees for support and stability. Think of it as squatting with benefits.
Pro tip: add a generous drizzle of lube before you climb onto that satisfying shaft – a smooth glide means you can go harder for longer!
Enhance this sexy squat position
Why?
The partner on top gets to call the shots – controlling the tempo, pressure, and rhythm of the motion. With their legs powering each movement, they can thrust with precision and power, while the angle sets things up perfectly for deep internal pleasure, especially for G-spot or P-spot play. This position also affords both partners a great view – who doesn’t want to see beautiful bae bouncing lustily on top of them?
Make it even easier
This is no easy position, as both partners need strong legs! If squatting is too tough for the receiving partner, they can try kneeling as they straddle their lover instead. You can also do this position near a wall or bed frame, so the receiver can use it for balance.
If you’re the bottom partner, and can’t hold your legs up for long, you might find it easier to brace and pull your knees apart with your hands. Alternatively, plant your feet against a wall for support.
Make it even better
Try switching up your setting for a little novelty – who says sex has to happen under the covers? Go for a steamy shower session, a full-length mirror moment, or spread out on the living room rug. A change of scene can spark a whole new fantasy.
You could also bring in a vibrator for targeted pleasure power. Great for clits, nips and more, vibrators add a tantalizing twist that increases the chances of orgasming simultaneously. If you’re on top, try stroking your clit with a bullet or suction vibrator, or using a stroker toy if you have a penis.
Make it even kinkier
Want a little extra zing? Explore temperature play with hot wax from a massage candle. Massage candles offer a delicious touch of intensity – just enough to heighten arousal without going overboard with burning hot wax!
To go up a level, introduce a blindfold into the mix – whether for one partner or both. The removal of one sense often heightens others and adds an element of intimate trust play to your session.
Not the position for you?
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