Position of the Week:
Stand and Deliver

Stand to attention – and deliver the goodies! When you’re feeling hot and hands-on, this perky position will have you both getting exactly what you want... Expect deep G-spot or P-spot stimulation with delicious angles.

Why?

Deep penetration and a killer view! The standing partner gets to admire their lover's body, while the raised legs make things feel deep and satisfying. There’s also a lot of versatility here, since you can adjust the depth to suit you both.

As the receiver, try scooting your butt closer or further from your partner, or even raising your butt up off the surface of the bed (rest your hips on a pillow or sex wedge to maintain the angle). Even the slightest adaptation can alter the tension, friction, or angle to a delicious degree, so work out which variation works for both of you.

Make it even easier

The receiving partner might struggle to hold their legs aloft if they’ve got tight hamstrings (hey, we’re not against a quick couple’s stretch before sex). Instead of resting the calves or ankles on the standing partner’s shoulders, try hooking them around your lover’s waist.

In this modified position, the standing partner can still hold the weight of the reclining partner’s legs if that helps – but the legs will rest on their forearms rather than the shoulders. And if that's too much for the standing partner, you can also try using a sex swing positioned behind them instead, with the height adjusted so the reclining partner can rest their ankles in the stirrups.

Make it even better

While the standing partner is pumping away, your hands are free to caress your own body and dial up the pleasure. Try a clitoral suction toy like the Womanizer Premium 2, which you can use in Autopilot mode, so you’re not distracted by too many buttons and settings. Just lie back and enjoy the blissful blend of clitoral suction with penetration.

If you’re looking to please a penis, try a vibrating cock ring, which may help you maintain a firm erection for longer while sending tantalizing vibrations down the shaft of your penis. The Lovehoney Luxury Cock Ring has a ball loop for a more secure fit as well as a textured, vibrating head to tease the clitoris of the receiver. More pleasure, more fun!

Make it even kinkier

Roleplay can intensify even your most tried and tested sex positions while helping you get into character for a Dom/sub dynamic.

Imagine you’re strangers meeting for the first time and flirting with each other. Or maybe you’ve asked that hot delivery person to come in and help you open a particularly sticky jar...The whole “we don’t know each other” vibe can make everything feel a little more exciting and risky, while giving you confidence to explore a totally different sexual persona.

And remember, being the penetrating partner doesn’t necessarily mean you’re always the Dominant one. If the reclining partner wants to Dom, they can lie back and boss the standing partner around – perhaps even criticizing their performance (if that’s something you’ve agreed to beforehand). Get playful and explore new sides of each other!

Not the position for you?

We're working to make sure that everyone is represented on our website, regardless of who you love, so we'll be using a variety of gender depictions in our Position of the Week posts. This will include straight, gay, lesbian, and gender neutral couples, but all positions will have details in the description of how to make them work for your own relationship dynamic.