Position of the Week:
Seated Rivalry

We’ve been sitting on a secret that we’re ready to share this week... It’s a satisfying P- or G-spot position with a little bounce to get you going.

Why?

Spooning offers plenty of skin-to-skin contact, which can release a delicious “cuddle chemical” called oxytocin and make you feel closer to your partner.

This seated version is even better; it celebrates the natural curve of the penis, causing it to press against the little spoon's P-spot or G-spot. You’ll feel deeper, more targeted stimulation without acrobatics. Plus, your hands are gloriously free.

The big spoon can easily reach down to offer extra stimulation – fingers or toys welcome! You can both enjoy the intimacy of penetration, while letting a clit sucker or a stroker push the little spoon to climax.

Make it even easier

Stability is everything here, because you’ll need a strong base and good leverage to move in a way that feels amazing. Choose a chair with a back rest for the seated partner and tuck a cushion behind the lower back if needed.

A soft, springy seat is helpful for momentum, too, giving you more boing for your bounce. You also use a positioning bar or a second seat in front of you to allow the little spoon to lean further forward and gain leverage.

Make it even better

Little spoon, you can lean forward (try resting your hands on your lover’s knees – or the floor if you’re made of elastic) to make room for deeper penetration. Gyrating your hips here will stimulate you from the inside while giving your partner a pretty spectacular view of your bouncing behind. Choose this if you want an active position with lots of thrusting.

For something slower and more sensual, lean back and hold the big spoon’s face and neck as you turn to kiss each other. Your partner can run their hands up and down your chest or caress your clitoris, penis, or balls while you shiver and sigh and in their lap. Choose this you want a more sensual, indulgent position with lots of nipple play.

Make it even kinkier

Let’s make it clear exactly who’s in charge. This position is begging for an under-chair restraint system, which ensnares the big spoon’s wrists, ankles, and throat with soft, adjustable cuffs.

Pick a safe word and a chair with a narrower back for a more comfortable arm position. Big spoon, you must alert you lover if you feel any numbness or tingling in your fingers or toes that won’t go away with a wiggle. Little spoon, be on the lookout for skin discoloration and release your partner quickly and calmly if needed.

Now you’re ready to play. Little spoon, you’re going to take the lead. Keep it teasing and light or add a bit of edge. Tell your lover how hard you’re going to ride them and make them beg for more!

Not the position for you?

No matter who you love, or how you identify, we want you to feel represented on our website. That's why you'll see gay, lesbian, non-binary, and straight couples in our illustrations, and gender neutral language in the description of each position. If this position doesn't quite work for your relationship dynamic, check in next week – you may see something you like!