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Sure, Odysseus might have got home a little quicker if he wasn’t so busy conquering foes and flirting with sirens. Then again, arriving anywhere always feels sweeter when you’ve truly enjoyed the journey...
How?
One of you will sit on the floor or bed, leaning back into your arms. Let your legs bend at the knees and fall out comfortably to either side. Now, invite the siren into your lap.
Your partner will straddle one of your thighs, facing away from you. Once in position, they’ll move their hips to grind against your leg and stimulate themselves.
See how long you can resist temptation as you watch your siren writhe – or give in to their seductive song and stroke yourself to climax. If you like, you can easily transition from Siren Straddle to Reverse Cowgirl whenever you’re ready.
Essential packing for your adventure
Why?
As the old saying goes; it’s not about the destination, it’s the journey. Mutual masturbation asks you to enjoy the build-up as you treat the whole body as a pleasure zone, rather than rushing to penetration. rather than rushing to penetration.
If the straddling partner has a vulva, this position allows them to focus on clitoral stimulation while the seated partner gets a view of their gyrating behind. With minimal eye contact, the straddling partner might feel fewer inhibitions, allowing them to really get their grind on.
Meanwhile, it’s all hands on deck for the seated partner. You can run your fingers over your lover’s back, keeping that sensual connected feeling between you, or get to work touching yourself while enjoying the view.
Make it even better
For a more intimate position, the seated partner can wrap one arm around the straddling siren’s waist. Then, kiss the straddling partner’s neck or caress their back and butt with your free hand.
Gentle skin-to-skin contact can feel soothing and romantic, helping your partner relax and focus on their orgasm rather than their performance. For heightened pleasure, you’ve also got the option to use a stroker on yourself while your partner grinds.
Pick an automatic toy like the Arcwave Orbit, which rotates in both directions to apply sensual pressure to length of your shaft. It’ll do the work for you so you can focus on your partner.
Make it even easier
If you’re the seated one and feeling strain through your hips and inner thighs, try resting your knees on pillows (or yoga blocks). You might also appreciate the support of a wall, with plenty of comfy cushions, behind you.
For the straddler, a dab of lube can make the friction between you and your partner’s leg feel more sensual – especially if you’re riding for a long time! If grinding still feels uncomfortable, try a clitoral suction toy instead. This can tease your clit while the warm, sturdy surface of your lover’s thigh stimulates the erogenous area from your labia to your butt.
Make it even kinkier
If you, like Odysseus, want to be the only legend to hear the siren song and resist its call – grab a pair of restraints like these soft, adjustable handcuffs.
Your partner can easily secure you to the mast of your ship (e.g. a table leg or the foot of your bed) so you can hear the siren's seductive moans without being called to follow beneath the waves.
Be warned though, there’s nothing stopping the siren from coming to you!
If you see the subtle shimmer of a tentacle on deck, you may be in for a meeting with a fantasy tentacle vibrator. Your partner can slather its suckers with lube and slide the tapered end into your anus or vagina, sending deep vibrations through your body.
