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Bend it back and spread those peachy cheeks with this anal sex position. An open mind, plenty of lube, and an eagerness to explore are key as you tease your lover's sweet spots from behind.
How?
Receiver, get on your knees as if you're about to do Doggy Style. Place your elbows or forearms on the floor, with your legs slightly parted, and keep your hips raised to open up your lower body for your partner.
Giver, get behind your partner and kneel. From here, you've got plenty of room to explore, especially if you’re both into anal play. You can also place your lover's ankles into the cuffs of a spreader bar to help keep their legs comfortably parted.
For bringing up the rear
Why?
Giver, with your partner bent over and exposed, you can bury your face in their butt, balls, or vulva. You’ve got the best angle for sliding our tongue, fingers, or a sex toy inside them (or giving that rump a good spank).
The Doggy Style positioning and the receiver's arched back also opens up more space to enjoy deeper penetration – if that's what feels good for them.
Make it even better
This peachy position is great for getting behind a little multitasking. For receivers with a vulva, anal stimulation can indirectly tease the clitoral network from within. Yes, the little “button” on the vulva is just the tip of a very sexy iceberg, because the clitoris has internal “legs” that extend within the vaginal wall.
Giver, while your fingers (or a small clitoral suction toy) work on the clit externally, inserting a curved, anal-safe dildo may also stimulate the clitoral network from within. Use plenty of lube and pick an anal toy with a flared base to keep it from slipping fully inside the anus.
Meanwhile, if your receiver has a prostate, the curved shape and round head of an anal dildo can press against this harder-to-reach spot. If you’re lucky, you may experience an intense prostate orgasm.
Expert advice: Proper prep can help the receiver feel more relaxed for anal play. Try going to the toilet an hour before sex for a little extra peace of mind (using an anal douche is completely optional). Anal play can get messy sometimes, so feeling comfortable with that possibility can help take the pressure off.
Make it even easier
Those knees and elbows may need some TLC if you're playing on the floor. You can do this by sliding a pillow or a folded blanket underneath the receiver. You could also prop up their chest on a sex wedge if holding their upper body low down feels uncomfortable.
Whether your receiver is a beginner or experienced player, they might not be able to take a large anal toy (or penis) straight away. Start off by circling a lubed-up finger around their anus or stroking it up and down to help tease the area.
You can also insert your finger or a petite butt plug to help gently relax their muscles and get them used to the feeling of penetration before moving on to anything bigger – but only if they want to.
This isn't exactly a shy position. If having your behind on full display feels intimidating, we have plenty of other sex positions for you to explore.
Make it even kinkier
Securing the receiver's ankles with a spreader bar can add light restraint while keeping their legs nicely spread apart. Try tickling or lightly scratching up the backs of their thighs to build anticipation and watch them writhe in their restraints.
Sometimes your lover's booty looks so good, you can't help but want to give it a spank. With permission, try delivering a few light spanks with your hand, rubbing the skin after each spank to soothe the area. A paddle can feel even better than a palm, since it’s designed to deliver sharp, exhilarating spanks that don’t really hurt... unless you want them to...
