Position of the Week:
Pinky Up

You know when a good thing simply falls in your lap? This week, we’re asking you to look no further than what’s right in front of you... your lover’s delicious behind.

Why?

This position is all about exploring anal pleasure without the pressure of committing to penetrative sex with a penis. With the receiver’s butt resting in your lap like a perfect peachy gift, you can deliver all sorts of sensations using your hands or sex toys.

The receiver can totally relax onto their forearms or take more of an active role by arching their back and moving their hips. With plenty of skin contact and a great view of their behind, this can feel much more intimate than other anal play positions.

Make it even easier

Giver, make sure you’re sat in a comfortable position. You can bend your knees and use pillows against a wall to support your back.

Drizzle anal lube on your partner’s anus as well as any toys you use, as it’s formulated to feel thicker and longer-lasting. You won’t need to reapply as much, which means more focus on the booty.

If the receiver gets tired easily or can’t support their weight in their arms, you could try grabbing a sex wedge or stack of pillows for them to rest on.

Make it even better

Look out for open-back lingerie to frame the peach just right. You’ve got an incredible view of your partner’s behind, so make the most of it! Anal beads and dildos with unusual textures look sensational sliding in and out and feel extra sensual too.

If that visual feast is getting you riled up, lean in! Feeling your erection between their legs tells your partner that you’re enjoying yourself. They might even enjoy rubbing against you.

You can also reach around with a clean hand or clitoral stimulation toy to pleasure them from below – but it might be more fun to deny genital stimulation until you’re finished with their backside...

Make it even kinkier

This position is begging to be made into a doctor fantasy, so don your latex gloves and calmly explain to your patient that they require a medical examination. Insert lubed-up, gloved fingers into the anus for a thorough feel around.

Fill an applicator with lube and drizzle a little around the nozzle before inserting it into your partner’s anus. If fisting is in your repertoire, you can easily transition to it here – keep your fingers together to create a tapered fist rather than a round one.

Not the position for you?

No matter who you love, or how you identify, we want you to feel represented on our website. That's why you'll see gay, lesbian, non-binary, and straight couples in our illustrations, and gender neutral language in the description of each position. If this position doesn't quite work for your relationship dynamic, check in next week – you may see something you like!