How to Use Nipple Clamps and Suckers

Your nipples are two of the most sensitive parts of your body, so it's well worth learning how to lavish them with extra erotic attention.

We've just told you nipples are super-sensitive, so if you're wondering why we'd recommend attaching something called a 'clamp' to them, you're not alone. Nipple clamps and suckers provide outstanding stimulation with all sorts of intensities, and they're especially great for anyone who doesn't enjoy vibrations.

During wear, nipple suckers will apply gentle suction to your love buttons, which can be especially helpful in perking up inverted nipples. Conversely, nipple clamps firmly grip the nipples, offering you direct stimulation that can be as gentle or as pinchy as you please.

Both nipple clamps and nipple suckers draw blood into your nipples and make them extra-sensitive after removal, so they're great for incorporating into play with your partner or solo exploration. Read on for all our guidance on the most enjoyable ways to wear (and to remove).

Video: How to Use Nipple Clamps and Suckers

Nipple clamps and suckers can offer a range of sensations, from very gentle to exquisitely intense. Find out more about how to use them in this video.

Add lube

Lube makes all sex toys more enjoyable, and nipple toys are no exception. Whether you’re using nipple clamps or nipple suckers, lube helps enhance sensation and ensures a good suction seal, while making sure nothing sticks uncomfortably.

One thing I like to do is to squeeze on them when they are on my nipples as it feels like someone is sucking on them. Just remember to add lube to the rim so it has a good suction on you.” - I'mhavingfun

You may find that too much lube causes your nipple clamps to slide out of position – be sure to experiment to find the right amount for you, since too little can be as much of a problem as

too much. We recommend a water-based lubricant since it will be compatible with all types of clamps and suckers.

Start softly

If it’s your first time using nipple clamps or suckers, we recommend giving them a test run on a less sensitive area of your body before you use them on your nipples. Good places to try are the tip of your finger or your earlobe. If you have an adjustable clamp, be sure to start loose and increase the tightness slowly until the intensity of the pinch feels right for you.

These nipple clamps are extraordinary. The adjustable strength of grip allows for the perfect grip. Unless you are hardcore, they really do do the job.” - That's it. Just there

Make sure you never wear your clamps or suckers for more than 10 minutes at a time, as disrupting your circulation for that long may leave the area numb, instead of sensitive and enhanced. Remember, wearing nipple clamps or nipple suckers should never be painful.

Sensation seeking

The great thing about nipple toys is that they can provide all levels of intensity – if all you desire is a gentle suck from a pair of nipple suckers, then that’s a perfectly excellent way to play. Alternatively, if you’d like a more intense tug on your nips, you can seek out weighted nipple clamps and non-adjustable metal clamps that really squeeze.

No matter what shape of nipple clamp you’re playing with, they’ll generally have rubber or silicone tips that should be used to pinch your nipples. If they’re adjustable, they may have an adjustment ring you can slide up the arms or an adjustment screw you can twist to increase or decrease the intensity.

Wow, what a sensation as I tightened the clamps... As I pulled the clamp up tighter the sensation was unbelievable. I feel so sexy even without a partner. I wear them around the home and love to look at them on my breasts.” - Sexy Older woman

Try wearing your nipple clamps or nipple suckers during foreplay or even sex with your partner – they’ll make sure your nipples are always part of the fun, even if your partner’s hands or mouth are occupied elsewhere.

After you remove nipple clamps, you may experience a rush of arousing tingles to the area – this is a great time for your lover to follow up with licks, strokes, kisses and tickles, as your own pleasure will be heightened.

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