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As someone who has owned and used sex toys for the majority of their sexually active years, I am a huge advocate of all types of toy and see no problem in possessing and enjoying them.

With such a large range on the market, there truly is a toy out there for everyone.

That being said, as the title of this article suggests, I am here to shout loud and proud about the fabulousness that is:

The realistic dildo.

Although many people would consider this a toy box staple, there are many others who are yet to be convinced.

Why does it have to look so realistic? Surely if it doesn't vibrate, it's not worth it? Why does it have balls?

Well, I'm here to enlighten you as to why these toys deserve a place underneath everyone's bed.

Anal sex is a divisive topic. Some people love it, some people hate it and some people just dare not try it.

If you have already formed your opinion of love, hate or meh through having a go at it, then by all means, you do you and continue to enjoy or avoid anal sex at your whim!

However, if you are someone who has yet to step into the waters, have a think about why you haven't made that leap.

Is it because you feel you need more education before making the decision to say yes? Is it because you've heard rumours of horror stories and are now vehemently put off? Or perhaps you just don't see how it could be pleasurable?

If you answered 'yes' to any of those questions, then here I am to offer some help and debunk common anal sex myths and misconceptions...

We’ve all had those moments where we aren’t physically with someone, but we can’t help but think of all the sexy things we’d love to be doing with them right then.

Whether it’s a partner of years or just someone really hot who you’re casually talking to, the urge to get them as turned on as you are is an exciting thought.

Sexting is an awesome tool for setting the mood and making your intentions known. However, not all of us are pros at this particular activity, and expressing yourself sexually via the written word can often come less naturally than expression in physical form.

It has been a learning curve from when I first started engaging in sexting a few years ago, but as someone who feels they have come a long way and become more comfortable over time, here are my top ten do’s and don’ts to make sexting an exciting, enjoyable and non-intimidating experience every time.