I have long known what spreader bars are used for, but I have to admit I've always felt a little wary of them.
Don't get me wrong, I'm partial to a bit of bondage, but there was just something about spreader bars that just felt a bit too intense.
It was a sex toy that I never thought I'd try – but that all changed when the Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuffs Set showed up in the mail!
Consent is an enormous and very important topic, particularly when it comes to sexual consent. Whether you're in a long-term relationship and want to try something new, or it's a first-time encounter, feeling comfortable and safe, and having the capacity to say 'no' at any point in time, is an essential aspect for any healthy sexual relationship.
This week's guest, sex and relationships expert Dr Megan Fleming, joins Sammi and Nick to talk about when you should establish consent (spoiler: it's always), what consent looks like, and how to go about having those unambiguous discussions.
Alongside this conversation (with the help of the famous 'tea' analogy), the team talk about how worldwide lockdowns have affected sexual behaviours, and of course, share little-known sex facts and the answers to your questions.
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Back in 1950s and 1960s, sex on TV was a big no-no. Television censorship was so strict during this era that you couldn't even show married characters sharing a bed, and wives were forbidden from being depicted as pregnant.
What a contrast to the year 2020, where the gloves are off and sex is very much on the cards!
Here are 6 sex positive scenes that spring to mind. What are your faves? Let us know in the comments.
What is the 'A-spot'?
The A-spot is an internal pleasure spot found deep inside the vagina. You can find it right at the end of the vagina (think 4-6 inches back), between the cervix and the bladder.
The A-spot feels spongy to the touch and is quite a lot larger than the g-spot. So much so, some sexperts refer to it as an A-zone.
The beauty of this area is even people who have never orgasmed through penetration can reach the finish line through A-spot stimulation.
Only people born female have this elusive hotspot, so if that's you, why not make the most of it?
If you fancy discovering your A-spot with your partner, positions which allow for deep penetration are the way to go. To get you started, here's 5 A-spot-hitting positions you need to try tonight.
The lowdown on clitoral stimulation
There's a reason why we call it the magic bean. The love button. The pleasure pearl.
The clitoris is the most sensitive female erogenous zone, and most people who have one won't be able to climax during sex unless it gets a little attention.
Since we're all about great sex for both parties involved, we've compiled a little list of the best sex positions for making sure your favourite hooded lady gets all the excitement she needs.
There's more to being a femdom than thigh-high stiletto boots and leather-look lingerie. A femdom, often professionally called a dominatrix, refers to a female partner who's dominant in specific, planned sexual situations.
While you may not be looking for a career change into a professional Domme, many heterosexual couples find this role reversal sex to be super exciting. What's not to love about completely changing things up in the bedroom from time to time?
If you're seeking dominatrix ideas or guidance on how to dominate a man in bed, you've come to the right place. We'll get you whipped into shape and teach you how to be a sensational femdom. We promise to stop if you say the safe word.