The Best Sex Positions for Pegging

by Jess

on Jun 19, 2018

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What is Pegging? 

Pegging is effectively "strap-on sex". So what's the difference between pegging and strap-on sex?

It all comes down to who's doing what.

Strap-on Sex (definition): A person of any gender penetrates a person with a clitoris using a strap-on.

Pegging (definition): A person with a clitoris penetrates a person with a penis using a strap-on.

This gender-bending sex act leans on role reversal, so it's no surprise that you'll need to think a little outside the box when it comes to sex positions.

So, whether you're looking for an easy position for first-time pegging, or just fancy trying some new tricks, here are my top 5 positions for pegging.

Think I missed one? Tell me in the comments!


  1. 1. Doggy is a Man's Best Friend

    What is it?:

    The receiver positions themselves on all fours and the top penetrates them from behind.

    Benefits:

    - Easy position for beginners to maintain and enjoy.
    - Both partners have equal control.
    - Small effort: big pleasure.

    Difficulty Rating:

    1/10

    Pleasure Rating:

    9/10

    Make it even better with...

    Tracey Cox Supersex Male Vibrator

    Top tip:

    While she penetrates from behind, he controls penis pleasure with this wired vibrator.

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  1. 2. On a Mission-ary

    What is it?:

    The receiving partner lays on their back and the giver lays on top of them, facing them, and penetrates this way.

    Benefits:

    - Non-strenuous position for receiving newbies.
    - Easy to communicate throughout play.
    - Great for extended eye contact and romatic pegging.
    - Receiving partner can play with their penis / other erogenous zone easily.

    Difficulty Rating:

    2/10

    Pleasure Rating:

    8/10

    Make it even better with...

    the Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Sex Position Ramp

    Top tip:

    Pop this inflatable wedge under his bum to make penetration even easier.

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  1. 3. Spooning Leads to Forking

    What is it?:

    Both partners lay on their side, facing the same direction, with the receiving parner taking the position of "small spoon".

    Benefits:

    - Comfy relaxed position. Great for Sunday mornings!
    - Creates shallow penetration that's brilliant for newbies.
    - Total relaxation for the receiver (including anal muscles) can lead to easier penetration.

    Difficulty Rating:

    3/10

    Pleasure Rating:

    8/10

    Make it even better with...

    the Lovehoney Silky Black Blindfold

    Top tip:

    Wearing a blindfold immediately heighens sensitivity for even greater pleasure.

  2. Lovehoney Silky Black Blindfold

  1. 4. Ride 'em Cowboy

    What is it?:

    The receiver gets on top and rides the pegger's strap-on. Face your partner or turn around for 'Reverse Cowboy' action.

    Benefits:

    - Good for eye contact and creating intimacy.
    - Puts receiving partner in control of depth and pace.
    - Non-strenuous position for the person wearing the strap-on.
    - Receiving partner can play with their penis / other erogenous zones easily.

    Difficulty Rating:

    5/10

    Pleasure Rating:

    7/10

    Make it even better with...

    the Lovehoney Reversible Double Stroker

    Top tip:

    Stroke and ride for the time of your life!

  2. Lovehoney Reversible Double Stroker Intense Ticklers

  1. 5. Stand and Deliver

    What is it?:

    The receiver stands, leaning against a wall. The giving partner penetrates from behind.

    Benefits:

    - Great for couples who are the same height during sex (eg: high heels).
    - Both partners have equal control.
    - Can be enjoyed almost anywhere that has walls!

    Difficulty Rating:

    8/10

    Pleasure Rating:

    8/10

    Make it even better with...

    the Purple Reins 20 Inch Spreader Bar

    Top tip:

    Keeps his legs parted and adds a little restraint for adventurous peggers.

  2. Purple Reins 20 Inch Spreader Bar

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Written by Jess.

Originally published on Jun 19, 2018. Updated on Aug 5, 2020
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