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One big benefit of sapphic love is that statistically, lesbians have more orgasms than straight women. Obviously, the lack of country boy quitters in the game helps, plus there’s more focus on the clitoris. STILL, you might find yourself limited on lesbian sex positions, looking for a creative spark.

Maybe your long-term partnership needs a change-up from “you go down, she goes down, you fall asleep rewatching old episodes of Sailor Moon.” Or you’re new to lesbian sex (welcome!) and eager to learn. Whatever your pleasure, we're here to deliver. Below, you’ll find 11 lesbian sex positions to reach new climaxes (and enjoy the journey there).

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Here’s the tea: you can spice things up in the bedroom without twisting yourselves into pretzels. The Starfish is a comfy, feel-good sex position, particularly if one of you prefers shallow penetration – or the giver has a larger than average penis! So, lie on your back with your legs spread and let your partner take the lead, or vice versa; it’s perfect for relaxed, sensual play.

Read on to find out what the Starfish sex position is, and which variations might make it work for you. Get tips on making this position even more seductive and pleasurable, too.

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The G-spot may be the most talked and least understood part of female anatomy. Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg is credited with discovering this erogenous zone in the 1940s (hence the name G-spot), but he probably wasn’t the first. Indian scripts from the 11th century mention something similar.

In the decades (or centuries) since, countless people have gone on quests to find their own. The G-spot may be tricky to locate, but the intense orgasms can be worth it.

Whether you’re finding it for the first time ever or the first time this week, here are the six best positions to hit your G-spot – with tips for making each one even better!

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Playing with handcuffs can be a hot, exciting, yet simple way to bring BDSM power dynamics to your sex life. And it’s much more common than you think! In fact, bondage is the third most popular type of bedroom accessory (after sex toys and lube) in Washington D.C., as you can see in our US Sex Map.

If you know you and your partner will love the thrill of a little lock-and-key, you’re in luck. Many of your go-to sex positions can be easily switched up with bondage gear. Here are some tips if you're looking to (safely) unlock all the possibilities of sex with handcuffs.

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Y’know, your sex life doesn’t have to revolve around penetration to be counted as “proper sex”. Sure, penis-in-vagina (or penis-in-anus) can be fun, but there are a lot more ways you can share pleasure. Like jerking off together.

Mutual masturbation might not sound like the sexiest thing in the world, but don’t be fooled! It’s hot, satisfying, and has a heap of benefits. This article will show you all the reasons to love masturbating together, with loads of ideas for mutual masturbation positions to try.

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Most of us pick a sex position the same way we select a theatre snacks, opting for our tasty, tried-and-true faves time and time again. (Hello, Missionary and M&Ms.) But just as we can switch to Red Hots when we’re craving a spicy snack, we can get down in a different popular sex position when our sexual taste buds start salivating for something more satisfying.

Fortunately, finding your new favorite position doesn’t require a haul to the cinemas or movie candy prices—all you have to do is keep reading. Ahead: 11 sex positions to try, whether the vibe of the night is romance or straight-up action.

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Cowgirl, Missionary, 69—female on top sex positions can be equal parts thrilling and satisfying. Perhaps it’s the magic of climbing on top of your partner, or knowing you get to control the angle, depth, and rhythm of your ride.

Fact is, finding your way to the top can be fun. Whether you're unsure where to start or looking to spice things up, here are eight positions to try.

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Some sex positions just don’t make any sense when you’ve got a bigger body. Go ahead, it’s okay to throw your copy of 101 Positions for Better Sex! across the room — I already did. The thing is, by making a few modifications to accommodate larger stomachs and butts, adding some toys if you so wish, you’re already on your way to plenty of enjoyable sex.

“Great sex is about communication and connection,” says Michael Grey, a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexologist. “It’s not always just about penetration. There's nothing wrong with using a vibrator, toy or prop to bring more comfort.”

From plus-size sex positions you can try out to some inspiration for modifying positions for comfort and pleasure, you’ll find plenty of ideas to keep you busy. Read on to find your best new sex positions for plus-size bodies.

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