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    Having kids can bring joy like no other, but on the flip side do babies spell erotic disaster for couples? There are many ways to evolve into your new role as a parent while still being able to enjoy an exciting and fulfilling sex life.

    This week, Sam, Nick, and Kate are joined by sexologist Chantelle Otten to share their thoughts on the intimate challenges that parents face and how get the spark back after having kids, as well as answering your questions and sharing their sex facts!

    And of course we cover our usual segments "You can never know enough about sex" and "Question of the week" where we share what we've learned about sex this week, and answer your sex questions.

    Got a question or topic you want us to cover? Email us at podcast@lovehoney.com or comment below.

    You can find us on iTunes, Soundcloud and Spotify. New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe to stay up to date!

    Got a question or topic you want us to cover? Email us at podcast@lovehoney.com or comment below.

    You can find us on iTunes, Soundcloud and Spotify. New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe to stay up to date!

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    Firstly, let me get one thing out of the way – if you’ve come here to learn about ‘femidoms’, you’ve got the wrong article. “Femdom” is a BDSM term used to describe a female dominant or 'top' partner.

    Femdoms may enjoy having their submissive partner call them “Mistress”, or they may prefer to refer to themselves as “Dominatrix” or “Domme”. They may not call themselves anything at all – the point is that many women take great pleasure in ruling supreme between the sheets.

    If you get a kick out of being the lady in charge, maybe it’s time to embrace your inner Domme. Of course, the best thing about exploring any new kink or fetish is that you don’t have to dive straight in the deep end.

    There are plenty of X-rated activities you can partake in that range from the saucy and the sensual to the down-right dirty and dominant.

    If your inner Femdom is aching to make her debut, don't deny her a minute longer! Use any of the above 10 tips to embrace your dominant nature and you'll be BDSM-ing with the best of them in no time.

    You've probably heard that sex toys are great for bringing even more fun to the bedroom - but can they actually improve your sexual performance as well?

    This week on YouTube, Annabelle Knight tells us how adding a sex toy can not only increase your satisfaction levels, but your partner's as well!

    Liked this video? Don't forget to subscribe to the Lovehoney YouTube channel!

    Sex isn't all about penetration. Check out our latest video to discover other pleasurable ways to experiment with you partner. Annabelle Knight took to Youtube to show you a few ways (and a couple of accessories) to help you get down to it without penetration.

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    Is life looking a bit black and white? Is Fifty Shades of Grey not polychromatic enough for you? If so, we've got just the thing: color-change sex toys!

    This week, Annabelle tries out the new Colorplay range to see how colorful they really are, as well as sharing her expert knowledge on what they're great for.

    Shop the whole range here, and find the perfect hue for you.

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    "Only have sex in the shower." "Keep your socks on at all times." "Make sure your partner's head is pointing due north."

    There are lots of 'tips' and 'tricks' that we're offered when we're looking to improve our sex lives, but some of them can be a little... well... whacky.

    So we reached out to our trusty Lovehoney forum and asked them to share their secrets for the most satisfying sex life around - and true to form, they didn't disappoint!

    Check out their tips below, and if you have any to add, please add them in the comments.

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    What does it take to get your engine revved up? How about ramping up the turn on with a bit of remote controlled play? Putting the power of passion in the hands of a partner could really getting your motor running... and how far can you actually go - in every sense of the word? Your mission - should you choose to accept it - is to work yourself and/or your partner in to a frenzy without using your hands or being anywhere near them...

    This week on the Sexual Happiness Podcast Sammi and Jess give their top tips on the best remote control sex toys out there.

    And of course we cover our usual segments "You can never know enough about sex" and "Question of the week" where we share what we've learned about sex this week, and answer your sex questions.

    Got a question or topic you want us to cover? Email us at podcast@lovehoney.com or comment below.

    You can find us on iTunes, Soundcloud and Spotify. New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe to stay up to date!

    Got a question or topic you want us to cover? Email us at podcast@lovehoney.com or comment below.

    You can find us on iTunes, Soundcloud and Spotify. New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe to stay up to date!

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    Orgasms are absolutely fantastic, there's no doubt about that. But, there might be times where you or your partner cannot or choose not to reach climax.

    Sex should be pleasurable and fun, whether you're orgasming or not. It's those sexy, fun feelings that bring us to orgasm, and we wouldn't be orgasming without them.

    It's just like that age-old saying – the journey is better than (or even the reason for) the destination. You wouldn't do a hike to a lookout point and ignore the wildlife, plants and waterfall along the way, would you?

    Also, I find that removing the sense of having a 'goal' (i.e. orgasming) when engaging in partnered or solo sex can make things much more enjoyable.

    That way you'll notice all of the other sexy things happening along the way that you may have overlooked because you were so focused on achieving an orgasm.

    Let's explore some other sexy and fun things that don't include orgasms.

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    Whether you want to discover new ways to connect with each other, or you want to spice up your erotic routine with something a bit different, sex toys can be an exciting way to increase desire and sexual satisfaction between you and your partner.

    If you are trying to mix things up, increase your pleasure in the bedroom, or enhance your sexual excitement – introducing a toy (or toys!) could be the answer you've been searching for.

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    Sure, when you guys first met you stayed up all night; Bumpin' and grindin', sharing your raunchiest desires into the early hours (all while Careless Whisper played softly in the background). But, when your relationship is old enough to legally buy cigarettes, kids, mortgages and television often take precedent over chatting about your innermost sexual desires.

    Long term sexual relationships can often suffer from getting a little formulaic. While you may know each other inside out and have a healthy sex life, if you're holding back on sharing your true sexual desires you could be majorly missing out.


    Whether you've just plucked up the courage to share, have lost a little enthusiasm for your usual bedtime romp, or have recently discovered a new sexual curiosity, it's time to start talking about your desires. In this blog we provide some handy tips to get that sex talk flowing.


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