1. Sex Positions for Wheelchair Users

    "My partner is a wheelchair user and doesn't find missionary very comfortable. Can you recommend any positions that we can try?"

    Disability Awareness Consultant and founder of DisabilityAfterDark, Andrew Gurza, shares his top sex positions for wheelchair users.

    Andrew here! I received an interesting question in The Lovehoney Head Board inbox recently that dealt with disability, and it is among a category of questions that disabled people are asked when it comes to their sex lives.

    Aside from people wanting to know if we can even have sex at all (which, by the way, is super offensive and ableist), the next common question is “How do you have sex?”

    Well, we received the question above from someone who wants to know what positions, other than missionary, would work best for their partner who is a wheelchair user, so keep reading for my recommendations.

    18 Non-Cringey Songs to Add to Your Sex Playlist

    When we think about a sexy night in, we probably think of different things.

    Some of us will think about massage and rose petals after a candlelit meal for two, followed by hours of sensual lovemaking.

    Some of us will think of striped butt plugs, hoods and French maids.

    But one of the things we can probably agree on is that there is a song that fits our mood in the bedroom, whether it be a raspy love ballad, throbbing trip hop or an upbeat pop tune about underwater life sung by a Trinidadian crab (what?).

    However, not every playlist is a suitable score for sexytimes. So to help you put together your perfect playlist for playtime, we've picked our top 18 sex songs - and there's no Barry White in sight.

    Which Vibrator Gives The Quickest Orgasms

    Thinking of adding a wand vibrator to your sex toy collection? We couldn't be happier for you – your sex life is about to get a seriously hefty shot in the arm.

    Originally invented by Japanese company Hitachi as a soothing cure for sore muscles (we don't believe a word of it), the wand vibrator now comes in a variety of guises.

    Not only is there now a wand to suit every budget, Samantha Jones' favourite sex toy is now available in a plethora of different sizes and styles, from pocket-friendly pals to plug-in power tools.

    With so many wands vying for your attention, you're probably feeling a little overwhelmed.

    With that in mind, we thought we'd share 5 of our fave wands with you, to help you find the right one for you.

    ‘A real pirate isn’t afraid to sail the red seas’, my boyfriend told me with a reassuring ‘YAARH’, throwing a towel on the bed underneath us.

    I’d been nervous about explaining to him that Aunt Flo’s inconvenient arrival might prematurely end our hookup, but his nonchalance soothed my worries, and we proceeded to have amazing romantic sex.

    It’s not unusual to feel a bit squeamish about period sex. A combination of cramps, hormonal acne and bloating never makes me feel particularly sexy around that time of the month, anyway. I’d always imagined period sex as vaguely resembling that scene from The Shining or the time I accidentally shook the ketchup bottle with the lid off.

    But in reality, period sex is no bloodbath – you’d be surprised at just how little cleanup is needed. It can even help reduce cramps!

    There’s no reason to have to abstain from sex for a quarter of the month, so let’s break the taboo and make the most of your menses.

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    So you're the proud owner of a rabbit vibrator, and we bet you can't wait to bounce around the bedroom with your brand new bunny.

    Once burrowed deep in the drawers of a select few, these vibes are now nearly as prolific as real rabbits. And for good reason - they're great.

    While the iconic ears stimulate all sides of the clit, the girthy shafts provide intense internal stimulation.

    But did you know your rabbit is capable of a whole lot more than that? Gasp.

    We've put together a handy guide to help you explore your vibe's many play possibilities.

    You're partner's asked you to peg them.

    You've said yes.

    You already know the basics: warm up, use lube, talk to your partner etc...

    But what about what you don't know?

    We picked the brains of several couples who regularly peg to find out what you can expect from your first pegging experience.

    This is what they told us...

    (Yesterday's blog: '7 Things You Should Know Before Being Pegged')

    1. You Know Nothin' (Dong Beau)

    As with most sex play, your first time is unlikely to be your best, and the same goes for pegging.

    If this is your first time pegging, you're probably not ready for how talkative pegging needs to be, or how you'll need to practice "driving" your new temporary appendage.

    Additionally, if you have pegged someone before, but this is your first time with a new partner, don't assume you know how it'll go.

    Most peggers say that pegging with a new partner is like pegging for the first time again, so be ready to re-learn most of that you thought you knew.

    So, you're thinking about trying pegging for the first time.

    You already know the basics: warm up, use lube, talk to your partner etc...

    But what about what you don't know?

    We asked several couples who peg on the reg(ular) to tell us what to expect from your first pegging experience.

    This is what they told us...

    (Tomorrow's blog: '7 Things You Should Know Before Pegging Someone')

    1. Expect the Unexpected

    If you're about to try pegging for the first time, chances are you've already imagined what you think it will be like.

    Now, we hate to burst your bubble, but it's unlikely that your first pegging experience will live up to the fantasy.

    Much like first-time sex, pegging requires practice to make it great (and that's just getting the pole in the hole!)

    Don't be disappointed though. Once you have the physical side of pegging down, you can focus on other elements, like domination and role play, to fully realise your fantasy.

    Nipple Toys to Try

    Boobs, boulders, bosom and so much more (many of which can’t exactly be written here), we could all come up with so many synonyms for breasts that we could fill an article with that alone.

    What far more people overlook, however, is that the number of ways you can stimulate your boobs and the variety of toys out there to facilitate this is almost as large.

    With boundless avenues for pleasure to explore it’s easy to get lost just looking for where to start.

    To help with that, here are our top 5 toys you should try if you have breasticles.


    Whether you're looking to add a bit of kink to your relationship, or are well-seasoned to the fun and versatility of strap-on play, Lovehoney has a selection of the most popular, best rated and expertly picked strap-ons to fulfil your every need.

    Ranging from hollow strap-ons, pegging kits, vibrating strap-ons and an exciting new fella in town known as the 'UPRIZE', we have the best of the best in our line up of the Top 10 Strap-Ons.

    So strap yourselves in, lube up and dive in to our stellar selection.

    Ever wished you could have rock hard erections at the press of a button?

    Well now, you can!

    Introducing UPRIZE: The world's first auto-erecting dildo.

    With the ability to go from limp to pimped in a matter of seconds, there's never been a boner so reliable.

    Plus, it houses a super-powerful 10-function motor for intense vibrations that'll please even the most power-hungry pleasure-seekers.

    And its versatility doesn't stop there: UPRIZE is hypoallergenic thanks to its silicone body, 100% waterproof, remote controlled and perfectly shaped for G-spot and P-spot massage. Phew!

    What's your favorite feature? Let us know in the comments section.

    To learn more about UPRIZE, and watch Jess and Sammi gawk at its fabulous uppy-downy glory, keep reading...

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